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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi there everyone!

Finally on here long enough again to get into the forums!

Our inbox has been very quiet and we are just wondering is it something to do woth our profile and is there anything we can do to improve it? Thanks in advance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me the pictures are all to close up. When I look at couples I like to see photos of them together.

You’re looking for single females. For me I like to read a profile which says how and why the single female is equally involved or involved at all. I look at your profile and the little it says is about yourselves

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By *andR2019Couple
over a year ago

Nunya

Update the bio a little and maybe some more pics wider range etc!

Other than that I wouldn’t worry about mailbox being quiet. You don’t want too many either xx

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe people are put off contacting you as you say "discretion is massively important".

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"For me the pictures are all to close up. When I look at couples I like to see photos of them together.

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I agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Updated the info a bit more, any better? Will get more pics up soon!x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi there everyone!

Finally on here long enough again to get into the forums!

Our inbox has been very quiet and we are just wondering is it something to do woth our profile and is there anything we can do to improve it? Thanks in advance! "

I like it

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

More pics of the male than just a cock ,the man is just as important as the lady ,unless he doesn't get involved.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Agree with the other commitments here. Discretion has a typo in it, so you may want to alter it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was going to message you but outside your age range which is annoying ,personally don't get many messages because of my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree with the other commitments here. Discretion has a typo in it, so you may want to alter it "

Think commitments is a typo , easily done lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"More pics of the male than just a cock ,the man is just as important as the lady ,unless he doesn't get involved."

What sort of pics would that be though?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"More pics of the male than just a cock ,the man is just as important as the lady ,unless he doesn't get involved.

What sort of pics would that be though?"

Some that indicate his body type and some of you together ie in clothes or undies

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By *llNatural36FWoman
over a year ago

Denbighshire

It doesn’t tell me what is on offer, what would make me pick you from the hundreds of others? Use your profile as your shop window to sell yourself so to speak

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

I wouldn’t meet a couple just to play with the lady and be her fantasy

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"

Our inbox has been very quiet and we are just wondering is it something to do woth our profile and is there anything we can do to improve it? Thanks in advance! "

I think you could improve your profile pic. It is quite blurry and hard to see what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also just read it. You say the female is bisexual but in the bio she is bi curious.

For me there’s a huge difference. I have played with someone who was curious who realised it really wasn’t for her. More a fantasy thing. So we stopped playing.

Now I don’t meet curious people and know others that don’t. For me that part needs some clarification

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By *andR2019Couple
over a year ago

Nunya


"Updated the info a bit more, any better? Will get more pics up soon!x"

Defo better x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More pics of the male than just a cock ,the man is just as important as the lady ,unless he doesn't get involved.

What sort of pics would that be though?"

get the mr to take some photos of you in some outfits, showing off your assets and teasing people to look into your profile, same with you taking photos of him and then get some photos of you together. Can just have a cock shot but i'd expect at least a few action shots, why not have a few of the explicit pictures with you touching each other?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also just read it. You say the female is bisexual but in the bio she is bi curious.

For me there’s a huge difference. I have played with someone who was curious who realised it really wasn’t for her. More a fantasy thing. So we stopped playing.

Now I don’t meet curious people and know others that don’t. For me that part needs some clarification "

Just realised that and thanks for pointing that out, it's sorted now x

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

Words etc are not bad but you have age against you. Lots will think you are too young.

Pics sorry but don’t do it for us. All close up and of male half just your cock. Have no idea at at what you are like from those pics.

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By *nicorn69coupleCouple
over a year ago

colchesterish Essex

Definitely some other photos of you both and as above said, I think your age will go against you.

Are you reaching out to profiles your interested in?

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted


"Definitely some other photos of you both and as above said, I think your age will go against you.

Are you reaching out to profiles your interested in?"

Yes good point. You need to be proactive even as a couple. It's easier than being a single man but still a bit competitive and won't necessarily get lots of people just coming to you.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Like others have said, your pictures are far to close. Close ups of your gentiles aren't generally the first thing swingers want to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't be as bad as me lol I'm the worst profile here 1000% guaranteed, nobody meets...nobody comes out for basic meet social meets nothing, ?? ??

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By *assy MissWoman
over a year ago

Sent to Coventry

It sounds as though you want a lady so you can try being bi. That wouldn’t attract me. I rarely meet couples now as in the past I’ve felt like ‘the amusement’ brought in for the evening.

Good body pics of both of you would also help

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted


"Can't be as bad as me lol I'm the worst profile here 1000% guaranteed, nobody meets...nobody comes out for basic meet social meets nothing, ?? ?? "

Well I don't know what you had before but as it is written now not surprised you have no luck. It is a torrent of negativity and naming and shaming. We wouldn't chat to you based on that. People come here for fun not that negative crap.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Can't be as bad as me lol I'm the worst profile here 1000% guaranteed, nobody meets...nobody comes out for basic meet social meets nothing, ?? ??

Well I don't know what you had before but as it is written now not surprised you have no luck. It is a torrent of negativity and naming and shaming. We wouldn't chat to you based on that. People come here for fun not that negative crap. "

It is the most abusive profile I have ever seen and I have reported it.

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By *andR2019Couple
over a year ago

Nunya


"Can't be as bad as me lol I'm the worst profile here 1000% guaranteed, nobody meets...nobody comes out for basic meet social meets nothing, ?? ?? "

Is it half a wonder you have no meets or responses when you speak of people that way! A lesson in politeness and decorum would go a long way for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

New pics are added, only 2 more to follow but an improvement?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't be as bad as me lol I'm the worst profile here 1000% guaranteed, nobody meets...nobody comes out for basic meet social meets nothing, ?? ??

Well I don't know what you had before but as it is written now not surprised you have no luck. It is a torrent of negativity and naming and shaming. We wouldn't chat to you based on that. People come here for fun not that negative crap. "

This what a nasty, horrible profile!

Sorry to derail your thread OP

KJ

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted


"New pics are added, only 2 more to follow but an improvement? "

Marginal improvement. Might want to look at some other profiles for inspiration. You could also delete some of the real close-ups. They add nothing and are off-putting to many.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"New pics are added, only 2 more to follow but an improvement?

Marginal improvement. Might want to look at some other profiles for inspiration. You could also delete some of the real close-ups. They add nothing and are off-putting to many. "

Do you mean to remove some pics then? And if so, which ones?

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