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By *enBr OP   Man
over a year ago

Melksham

I’m struggling to get a meet - I’m not sure whether it’s because I’m not verified or something else.

I’m a nice guy and I’m never explicit or send d pics in my opening message but the reply rate is terrible.

Any advice would be appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is OK but it doesn't really stand out. Keep updating your pics, get involved in the forums and try going along to an organised social.

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

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"I’m struggling to get a meet - I’m not sure whether it’s because I’m not verified or something else.

I’m a nice guy and I’m never explicit or send d pics in my opening message but the reply rate is terrible.

Any advice would be appreciated."

There isn't much content.

Is this the best effort that you can make?

Compared to others, it will not stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ur 1 of 100s of guys..

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Your profile is focussing on finding a FWB so this will cut down the numbers of people wanting to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideas on my profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ideas on my profile? "

Get ur own post lol

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Ideas on my profile? "

You don't have much profile text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goto an organised social. I’ve given up completely on fab as a way to connect. I don’t need anymore online friendships. Op, if a woman agrees to a social or anything more and turns up, put the lottery on that weekend, because that’s how you feel on here.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"I’m struggling to get a meet - I’m not sure whether it’s because I’m not verified or something else.

I’m a nice guy and I’m never explicit or send d pics in my opening message but the reply rate is terrible.

Any advice would be appreciated."

Remove the first line from your profile. Immediate negative. You have no preferences listed so get that filled out. Be more open about yourself, there is no real personality shining through.

Oh and saying "I'm a nice guy" can be a bit of a red flag for some. If you are a nice guy you don't need to say it.

Look at your own profile objectively. Would you meet you based on your profile? It's your big window advert.

As said, go to a club, get on cam, attend a social. Engage with people like humans.

All the best fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ideas on my profile?

You don't have much profile text"

What else you trying to know about me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ideas on my profile?

You don't have much profile text

What else you trying to know about me... "

Youve got your own place and your growing ur sexy imagination.. doesnt really say anything about you... your not too picky with ur ladies BUT you need a freak in bed but a lady in streets.. make up your mind

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

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"Ideas on my profile? "

Absolutely awful.

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

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You really need to put some effort in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ideas on my profile?

Absolutely awful."

Oh no wayyy I'm crapp at talking about myself

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hi OP!

• More photos required (maybes one or two showing a bit more flesh, but not dick pics)

• You don’t have any interests selected - and don’t just select them all, actually choose what interest you

• More text needed in your bio - atm it comes across as absolute minimum effort

• As another person has commented, the first line of your bio is negative which sets the tone

• Say more about you, your likes, passions, what you’re looking for etc

• Get involved in the forums to show a little more of your personality

• Personally I don’t even check winks / friend requests so wouldn’t bother sending those if you are

• Your first message should be friendly, original, not copy and pasted

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's written as if it was for Plenty of Fish.... this is a swinger website

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ideas on my profile? "

Growing my sexy imagination Soo Not too picky = desperate would shag the barbers floor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ideas on my profile?

Growing my sexy imagination Soo Not too picky = desperate would shag the barbers floor"

I mean there is standard still ffs desperation and self growth 2 different feelings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ideas on my profile?

Growing my sexy imagination Soo Not too picky = desperate would shag the barbers floor

I mean there is standard still ffs desperation and self growth 2 different feelings "

you asked for feedback.... Not too picky... sounds desperado....

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"Hi OP!

• More photos required (maybes one or two showing a bit more flesh, but not dick pics)

• You don’t have any interests selected - and don’t just select them all, actually choose what interest you

• More text needed in your bio - atm it comes across as absolute minimum effort

• As another person has commented, the first line of your bio is negative which sets the tone

• Say more about you, your likes, passions, what you’re looking for etc

• Get involved in the forums to show a little more of your personality

• Personally I don’t even check winks / friend requests so wouldn’t bother sending those if you are

• Your first message should be friendly, original, not copy and pasted

Good luck! "

This is absolutely spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ideas on my profile?

Growing my sexy imagination Soo Not too picky = desperate would shag the barbers floor

I mean there is standard still ffs desperation and self growth 2 different feelings "

Much appreciated and that's getting changed asap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friendly feedback on your profile, trying to be straight forward as to make my point. No offence intended here but you say NSA/FWB in the first line which tells people you're looking for a casual hook up or something regular without a relationship, then you say you're not trying to settle down. Sounds repetitive to me.

'I want you to want me' sounds pretty redundant as women won't get back to you unless they want you.

BBW, Milf and Petite are listed as body types but there's more to a sexual interaction than just body preferences. Are you kink friendly or experienced with certain kinks? Do you only go for the physicality of someone's body or their status as a mother, or is there more to how you choose women? What do you like out of your women in terms of attitude and personality?

You have a better chance of getting a response from your profile if you spend a bit more talking about things you see women talk about on their profiles, your interests, needs, desires and what you can bring to the interaction, they're not going to pick any old tom dick and harry just because he said he likes both large and small women and milfs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ideas on my profile?

Growing my sexy imagination Soo Not too picky = desperate would shag the barbers floor

I mean there is standard still ffs desperation and self growth 2 different feelings

Much appreciated and that's getting changed asap "

My post was meant for this man as the OP has had several pieces of advice I would have given and has yet to act on it.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"I’m struggling to get a meet - I’m not sure whether it’s because I’m not verified or something else.

I’m a nice guy and I’m never explicit or send d pics in my opening message but the reply rate is terrible."

I'd be interested to know your reply rate, and what you'd consider not terrible.

We don't consider ourselves out of the ordinary so probably get an average number of messages from guys. That would be ten on a dull day, thirty if we put a pic up. Let's go low and say 300 per month.

We don't do more than one meet each week, and that's a mix of new guys and people we know. So we *need* maybe two new guys each month, three tops. Out of 300 messages, we need just 1% of the guys. So 99% will be a "no thanks" or simple delete.

Is your reply rate worse than 1%?

(Bry)

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"Ideas on my profile? "

Start your own thread. It's bad form (and gets confusing with people not quoting properly) so jump on someone else's.

(Bry)

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By *enBr OP   Man
over a year ago

Melksham

Thanks for everyone’s advice, I appreciate you taking the time.

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