FabSwingers.com forum: Profile feedback

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all,

I'd be grateful for any constructive feedback on the photos and profile to see if there's anything I can do to improve? Quite new to the lifestyle..going to Townhouse next week with the wife for the first time, hopefully get some verifications by meets in person

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You'd be better off with a couples profile if you and wife plan to go to s club together."

Thanks Pesi Max, we were on fab as a couple before but wifey didn't really like the fab layout and now prefers tinder.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basic responses I think you'll get from my time trawling around 200 threads on profile advice:

Professional what?

If you're respectful you'll come across as such in your messages, stating it makes women question you.

Traveling for work is fun, but maybe a bit more information about where you go, do you stay in hotels or airbnbs? do you drive or fly there?

open minded and willing to try anything sounds like you have no expectations, no wants and are willing to satiate any need a woman presents over message just to get your leg over. Women like to know what you like, how you like it and what you're going to bring to the table. I'm pretty sure 8/10 profiles on here have some sort of 'open minded will try anything' statement on there which won't make you stand out in the crowd.

Women don't respond to winks, they barely get a chance to respond to 10% of the messages they get, they're not going to waste their time reaching out to you. Any time I get a reply it's because my opening message intrigued them, not because I winked/fabbed a picture etc, so I'd imagine you're barking up the wrong tree with it on your profile.

Lastly, read your profile and tell me what it says about you, that could give someone a genuine look into your personality?

Hope this helps.. Dunno how many read profiles but the ones who do I believe are more likely to result in better outcomes. Effort on your profile shows an ability to put effort in to your sex life, which women find sexy.