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"We are lookin for a gen bi fem who can travel and stay weekends x We are getting fed up with all the fakes and liars sayingbthey are gen but wont do a phone call to prove it. AnyBody Got Advice....??? " Don't give up..there are lots of genuine fems out there...just bear in mind u are asking a lot..not many single bi fems are happy to travel somewhere alone and stay the whole weekend...try updating ur profile to show what u can offer to the fem and why they should take the time to come to u ...and lose the capital letters...it makes u sound angry...good luck in ur search tho...hope u find someone soon... | |||
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"We are lookin for a gen bi fem who can travel and stay weekends x We are getting fed up with all the fakes and liars sayingbthey are gen but wont do a phone call to prove it. AnyBody Got Advice....??? Don't give up..there are lots of genuine fems out there...just bear in mind u are asking a lot..not many single bi fems are happy to travel somewhere alone and stay the whole weekend...try updating ur profile to show what u can offer to the fem and why they should take the time to come to u ...and lose the capital letters...it makes u sound angry...good luck in ur search tho...hope u find someone soon..." I would echo this - I know you didn't ask directly for profile advice, but that is one area I think you need to consider. You seem to be looking for the other party to give away quite a lot, but offer little in terms of reference for them to make their decision on. The bit about sending pics first and you will respond with yours - I always think that comes with conditions, namely 'we will respond to yours (if we fancy you).' | |||
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"Our advice would be patience....patience and more patience. you are looking for the rarest, most elusive type of person on here, a genuine single bi female. We are on the verge of jacking the whole thing in.......good luck with your search " | |||
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"Nothin wrong with our profile it stops pic collectors comin anf tryin to fake they are single female or couple x" With all due respect your profile is all about what you want and, as others have said, not what you can offer. Put yourself in a single females position and think of her safety. There is nothing about your temperament, detail about being non pushy and what sort of people she is going to meet. Then consider how many other people are looking for a single bi fem who do have this and have pictures. Which would you feel more comfortable with? Your profile is an advert of you. Would you buy a car with no picture, a brief description of what it looks like and listen to it running over the phone? Don't mean to sound harsh just trying to get you to see it from the other side that's all  | |||
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"We are lookin for a gen bi fem who can travel and stay weekends x We are getting fed up with all the fakes and liars sayingbthey are gen but wont do a phone call to prove it. AnyBody Got Advice....??? " If your profile was working for you then you probably wouldn't have needed to start this thread... 
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"We are lookin for a gen bi fem who can travel and stay weekends x We are getting fed up with all the fakes and liars sayingbthey are gen but wont do a phone call to prove it. AnyBody Got Advice....??? If your profile was working for you then you probably wouldn't have needed to start this thread...
I'd echo the other comments, it is aggressive and demanding. "Quoted the wrong post, I meant to quote the reply stating "nothing wrong with our profile" | |||
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"We are lookin for a gen bi fem who can travel and stay weekends x We are getting fed up with all the fakes and liars sayingbthey are gen but wont do a phone call to prove it. AnyBody Got Advice....??? " can we say you dont have any photos on your file shame really lipstickxx | |||
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"You'll send winks, but not respond to any received? " we do respond to winks xx | |||
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"Nothin wrong with our profile it stops pic collectors comin anf tryin to fake they are single female or couple x" Maybe you'll take it better from those you are looking to meet. Your profile is a bit crap. Photo's aside, on reading your profile, I do not know whether you are a full swap or soft swap couple. I don't know whether I'm going to get cock or just put on a show, then be booted into the spare bedroom while you 2 get to have sex. Trust me this has happened before. It tells me nothing about you except the male likes to suck nipples. Wow nothing unusual there. If you aren't getting the meets you want, then it is likely to be something you are doing, not others. | |||
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"The one thing I hate about posts like this, is that people give genuine advise, and yet the OP chooses to ignore it! You have been given pointers on what to change yet blatently ignored it all, now I am a single STRAIGHT female and I never send out my pics first, I never travel on my own without knowing the person, I would never put myself in a situation I don't know what to expect, and for some reason as 'a couple' yes there are 'two' of you, you have chosen to ignore the main safety points a single female, considers very high importance.... Why is that may I ask???? Put yourself in a single females shoes and would you? Honestly??? I doubt it!!! " | |||
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"Nothin wrong with our profile it stops pic collectors comin anf tryin to fake they are single female or couple x" As a "genuine single bi fem"... Your profile would make me immediately hit the back button. (demanding, shouty and contradictory) & the delete button if I received a mail from that profile Good luck though | |||
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"Nothin wrong with our profile it stops pic collectors comin anf tryin to fake they are single female or couple x" what would be the difference in having pics that dont show ur face?-some sort of allure for the target group(after initializing interest, u can then go to the female to female phone stage)...its not bloody rocket science...and I'm a stoopid single guy ffs! Oh, theres nothing wrong with ur profile..I take it all back lol | |||
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"Nothin wrong with our profile it stops pic collectors comin anf tryin to fake they are single female or couple x what would be the difference in having pics that dont show ur face?-some sort of allure for the target group(after initializing interest, u can then go to the female to female phone stage)...its not bloody rocket science...and I'm a stoopid single guy ffs! Oh, theres nothing wrong with ur profile..I take it all back lol" cause we use are mobile phone and dont have a home computer to do stuff like that to pix . Our face pix our once we have spoken then we add you as a friend then it goes to the phone call stage then meet x | |||
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"As foxy minx says I think we are all wasting our time. These threads usually get hijacked but everyone here has given lovely, honest and sound advise and the only comments back are not thanks but push back instead despite the advice coming from the people that they want to meet! Mental!" we do it our way so our pix cant be highjacked and used on other profiles and sites x | |||
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"I'm a gen bi fem and I would also be put off by your profile - plus from your descriptions you wouldn't be what I was looking for anyway.." yet another person who goes on looks and not personality as thats far more sexier xx | |||
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"As foxy minx says I think we are all wasting our time. These threads usually get hijacked but everyone here has given lovely, honest and sound advise and the only comments back are not thanks but push back instead despite the advice coming from the people that they want to meet! Mental! we do it our way so our pix cant be highjacked and used on other profiles and sites x" So, you'll swap face pics so long as the other person sends theirs first, according to your profile....... That other person could always put those pics on another site... I don't see the logic in your stance on this | |||
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"As foxy minx says I think we are all wasting our time. These threads usually get hijacked but everyone here has given lovely, honest and sound advise and the only comments back are not thanks but push back instead despite the advice coming from the people that they want to meet! Mental! we do it our way so our pix cant be highjacked and used on other profiles and sites x So, you'll swap face pics so long as the other person sends theirs first, according to your profile....... That other person could always put those pics on another site... I don't see the logic in your stance on this "because if they try to save them theyd have a nasty shock from a meal data worm   | |||
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"As foxy minx says I think we are all wasting our time. These threads usually get hijacked but everyone here has given lovely, honest and sound advise and the only comments back are not thanks but push back instead despite the advice coming from the people that they want to meet! Mental! we do it our way so our pix cant be highjacked and used on other profiles and sites x So, you'll swap face pics so long as the other person sends theirs first, according to your profile....... That other person could always put those pics on another site... I don't see the logic in your stance on this
because if they try to save them theyd have a nasty shock from a meal data worm "So you would insist on an email address? And email pics that could potentially harm their computer?
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"So you would insist on an email address? And email pics that could potentially harm their computer?
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"och OP...I'll just end my opinion on how u arrange meets...its shit and ur complaining yet refusing to budge.The best way for u's to meet is to get out to a party or a club.However the extreme sounding paranoia already has me worried on a few levels...of both 'ur' genuineness. Ur living back in the days when it was small ads in newspapers back pages. And ur phones must be even shitter than mine!" 
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"och OP...I'll just end my opinion on how u arrange meets...its shit and ur complaining yet refusing to budge.The best way for u's to meet is to get out to a party or a club.However the extreme sounding paranoia already has me worried on a few levels...of both 'ur' genuineness. Ur living back in the days when it was small ads in newspapers back pages. And ur phones must be even shitter than mine!
no got brand new samsungs on 4g"and u cant edit pics on fancy new phones can u?...I think ur just coming up with any crappy excuse to be honest on why ur profile isnt getting what u want....despite the basic fact its fairly pish compared to a few thousand others. | |||
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" yet another person who goes on looks and not personality as thats far more sexier xx" Looks are important, theres gotta be a physical attraction. | |||
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"Guys you did send us a wink the other day but as soon as we saw: 1) You had no pictures 2) You had no verifications despite being on over a year ..It was a non starter. We also don't like couples who are clearly only interested in the female half of us. We have had numerous ffm threesomes and we get them by being genuine and credible, by providing smart hotel accommodation plus offering a really fun night socially first." we couldn't have said it better ourselves. | |||
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"Weve given up on that old chestnut , The only Bi fems that contact us are 53 years old with a beard and are called Colin. " we shall send a message forthwith! "Hi Colin, like the beard, gives me something to hang on to!" | |||
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