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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys

Been on fab for about 5months and enjoying it, but not having loads of luck meeting? Can anyone suggest anything I can do or say on my profile or is it just because I'm one of the many single males

I always send a polite 1st message when contacting people

Any advice would be much appreciated, happy swinging! Andy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two words "keep going"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles crap. A few generic lines trying to cover all bases but saying nothing of any substance. Poor pictures, no face one. Single, can't accommodate and mentioning discreet will always, rightly or wrongly suggest playing away.

In what way does your profile make you stand our from the hundreds of other singlemen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and up for anything? Seriously so scat or needle play or urethral rods maybe - no problem with any of that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah think your right there!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Crystal wheels, to be fair all good advice, changes to profile needed. Really appreciate the advice. Although do have face pic in private gallery and do have a lady in my life at home but she's only 4 (daughter) so that's the reason I don't accom, cheers

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Crystal wheels, to be fair all good advice, changes to profile needed. Really appreciate the advice. Although do have face pic in private gallery and do have a lady in my life at home but she's only 4 (daughter) so that's the reason I don't accom, cheers

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Put that in your profile description. And if you are genuinely single and not attached - say that as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whistler, I will thanks defo need a profile overhaul

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

It seems like you are into everything, which turn off lot of people...clarify what you are looking for...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Crystal wheels, to be fair all good advice, changes to profile needed. Really appreciate the advice. Although do have face pic in private gallery and do have a lady in my life at home but she's only 4 (daughter) so that's the reason I don't accom, cheers

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Ah bless I remember those years, full of more energy than me

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"It seems like you are into everything, which turn off lot of people...clarify what you are looking for..."

yep totally agree,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice guys and yes my little one tires me out, I go to work for a rest lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advice guys and yes my little one tires me out, I go to work for a rest lol "

OP, have you tried doing a search as if you were a woman of the sort of 'perfect' description you are looking for, as if she were looking for a man - then have a good look at the profiles that come up and see which ones stand out to you..... Then compare what they do and say in their profiles, and you will get a better idea where you need to sharpen up yours.

Certainly your photos are doing you no favours right now - have a look at some of the single guys who are forum regulars who have some excellent pics in theirs to give you some ideas.

And on the 'Can't accom' thing - if you have a genuine reason why you can't, you need to explain this in your profile. It will also make your profile more appealing to women in a similar position as they will relate to your situation.

Good luck with it though.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

You've got some good pics, but no.2 is so dark, and is similar to another, that I'd substitute a different one for it.

The overall advice above is ideal to get you honing your profile to mean something more deep about you, that clearly show's what you bring to the party, what experience you've got etc.

Good luck!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys and thanks sophie

Again great advice I'll be spending the evening update and improving my profile and may even take some pics! X

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