FabSwingers.com forum: How come I can’t fuck anyone in here?

By *imeros123 OP Man
over a year ago

harrow, London

Anyone is keen to tell me what I am doing wrong?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Sydney university it's pointless pal

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Maybe they just don’t want too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone is keen to tell me what I am doing wrong?

You're profile isn't great. You don't sell yourself that well. You have to stand out from the crowd.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

The legal stuff is pointless and yeah maybe the people you message might not be interested

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

"Anyone is keen to tell me what I am doing wrong?

Your pointless blah blah can't use my pictures is longer than your bio about yourself do a forum search on profile help and actually use it because look at me threads with useless profile probably ends up on a lot of ladies block lists.

Oh and I also find threads like this ends up with the OP using it as a message tool don't want any private PM's leave questions here x

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

"Maybe they just don’t want too"

Agree totally.

So much choice of single men looking for free sex

The best will find it easy, the rest won't get any.

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

"Anyone is keen to tell me what I am doing wrong?

Have to say, your thread title shows quite a sense of entitlement.

Are you successful in your every day life?

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

Oh and last on 14 minutes ago but yet couldn't be bothered to check thread and acknowledge help people are trying to give you shows to me it's another look at me thread

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

"Oh and last on 14 minutes ago but yet couldn't be bothered to check thread and acknowledge help people are trying to give you shows to me it's another look at me thread "

That’s a good point

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

How's your attitude towards women ?

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Posts like this one won’t help you either.

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By *heelsmanMan
over a year ago

Wokingham

Just your thread title is course by itself, if thats a reflection or you, why would any of the lovely ladies on here be even slightly attracted to you?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

What were your expectations OP?

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Maybe they fancy the real Mr Bean a bit more?

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By *orkcoastguyMan
over a year ago

Bridlington.

Listen to some of the points made above, especially the negative ones.

Tear your profile apart, look at short but pithy profiles from solo guys with good verifications and please dump some of those photos.

Good luck.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

OP..you've been here for 3 months, and already been verified, so that's a positive.

Maybe worth considering your expectations here. Fab is essentially a site for networking. It's not a guaranteed sex site.

Good luck, but be patient and put some effort in.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Because you've probably joined thinking this is an easy meet and fuck site. Just looking for an easy shag isn't what Swinging is.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op ,I don't think the title of this thread gas done you any favours.

Makes you look a bit entitled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear, the title of this thread and your disregard for women….1st read flag….the fact you haven’t replied to the good points raised by others 2nd red flag…..a revamp needed OP. We are women with needs but this isn’t a guaranteed sex site. A little effort, time and charm needed. You may have shot yourself in the foot with this post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh dear, the title of this thread and your disregard for women….1st read flag….the fact you haven’t replied to the good points raised by others 2nd red flag…..a revamp needed OP. We are women with needs but this isn’t a guaranteed sex site. A little effort, time and charm needed. You may have shot yourself in the foot with this post

All very good points. I also wonder if the way you highlight your personality etc. in your profile gives the impression that you think you’re better than the more aesthetically attractive guys on here so should be chosen as such. It’s just a hint of incel.

I have faith that you have a good personality and sense of humour but follow the old tv trope of show don’t tell

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By *elvet_OrchidWoman
over a year ago

Banbury

I’d be put off by the filter pic with ears showing. It reminds me of a cartoon & looks a bit childish imo.

Wishing you well with your search OP

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Sydney university it's pointless pal "

Lots of Aussie students would disagree

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England

Seriously! Your attitude just sucks. All about you and no effort on your part. The ladies should just lie down and assume the position. You just see them as objects of your desire. Poor, very poor.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Your profile doesn't really sell you at all.

You have more pointless legal crap than you actually have about you and your thread title suggests you have no respect for women. Do I need to go on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

snapchat pic is enough to have me running ..... but over all op your one of many many looking for the so few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a no from me, you have 50 nos you won’t be going through to the next round.

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By *exymarvelMan
over a year ago

cardiff

Maybe its something to do with the post title. Home goal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When people message us with the "By posting this profile I do not waive my rights to privacy under article 8.1 & 8.2 of the European Convention on Human Rights" warning on their profile, I've been know to point out how they've just breached our right to privacy under article 8.1 & 8.2 of the European Convention on Human Rights, and reply that we've reported them for the breach.

It's childish but it brightens a dull day.

Winston

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

OP, your disclaimer (the legal blurb at the end of your profile) is longer than your whole profile!

Also, this is not an instashag

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Anyone is keen to tell me what I am doing wrong?

You seem to have ignored all advice so far, but here goes...

Your profile pic is something that seems very juvenile to me and very off-putting, but that may be an age thing. The other photos are OK but a smile is always better.

You tell us you're well educated, yet haven't bothered to proof read your profile text. Paragraphs, correct spelling and full words are never a bad thing.

The last three quarters of your profile is pointless.

I would suggest reading the site FAQS, as well as re-examining your expectations and approach to Fab.

Good luck.

Nita

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Anyone is keen to tell me what I am doing wrong?

You’re being far too picky, message a few guys , you’ll be balls deep in bum by tea time.

Happy fabbibg

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By *rystalizedEyesWoman
over a year ago

Wellington

The grammar and spelling errors puts me immediately off personally.

Hope you find what you seek soon

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By *ilf and old fartCouple
over a year ago

Between Ely and Mildenhall

"Anyone is keen to tell me what I am doing wrong?

It's Boring !! Too short, no information and if you had messaged us and we'd looked at your profile we'd just ignore you

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

The Snapchat filter profile picture would get an automatic delete from me without reading your profile or message.

The massive blurb at the bottom of your profile is redundant and meaningless

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By *heLongTongueMan
over a year ago

boston

I’d suggest the thread title itself might give an insight into your psyche and how you relate to women. Maybe that comes across in your messages too…..

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By *eaMonkeeWoman
over a year ago

Wakefield

The way you've phrased the question tells me everything.

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By *eadinthecloudsMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Find single guys with lots of veris. See how they have constructed their profile. Take inspiration.

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