FabSwingers.com forum: Anal advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi just wondering what your advice would be to a guy whos looking to take cock for the first time. I want to be fucked and want to know would i be better of with a smaller cock or is it all about position and forplay. Any advice received would be appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

advice for anal no matter if it's your first time, you're male or female is...

lube lube lube and lots of lube

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Jesus yes id literally never thought of that

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

And then more lube and relax

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By *obroyman17Man
over a year ago

Yeah lube lube and a considerate top who will go slow

Once the penetration has happened and your comfortable it’s amazing how easy it is after that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And then more lube and relax "

and then a bit more lube

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

"And then more lube and relax

and then a bit more lube"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Will it hurt at first

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Use the grocery test.

You should train yourself to get used to it first.

Start with something easy like a carrot or two.

Then move onto something bigger, like a courgette.

When you’ve mastered the courgette and only then can you move onto the aubergine.

Aubergine is when you know you’re ready.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Iv never liked courgette.

Maybe now i will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Use the grocery test.

You should train yourself to get used to it first.

Start with something easy like a carrot or two.

Then move onto something bigger, like a courgette.

When you’ve mastered the courgette and only then can you move onto the aubergine.

Aubergine is when you know you’re ready.

Please never invite me for a meal

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

All feel free to dm me if youd like to offer any other advice or maybe chat to.me.about it

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By *orace 500Man
over a year ago

ballincollig

No pain no gain

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By *argaret James200TV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Oh and don't forget "LUBE", pistons always need lube.

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

"Will it hurt at first"

If you don't prepare properly it may well do, have DM'd you

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By *ancambCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Dartmouth

Practice on your own - fingers, candle, dildo, vegetable medley as previously suggested. When it comes to The First Time, be in a position you can really relax in - lying on your side is good. Breathe deeply. Yes, it can hurt initially, but you'll soon relax and be banging away like a steam hammer

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks to all who sent messages iv a lot to think about please carry on telling me about your first times also the guys who chated on the phone.....loved it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time for me last week! Lube is a must (and more lube on top), some pre training (as suggested before but aubergine may be taking it a bit to far for a beginner) and choose the right person. If you like the guy you can relax a bit more, and make sure he isn't hung. Don't run before you can walk; otherwise walking maybe difficult.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So definatley not a 9inch can sized cock rhen is what im getting from the advice. Save that fir the 2nd time

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By *randMrsJones500Couple
over a year ago

london

"Use the grocery test.

You should train yourself to get used to it first.

Start with something easy like a carrot or two.

Then move onto something bigger, like a courgette.

When you’ve mastered the courgette and only then can you move onto the aubergine.

Aubergine is when you know you’re ready.

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surely there is the cucumber stage pre aubergine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust and relaxation are important. Patience is also key. Plenty of lube and foreplay to warm up and a top who knows what they are doing and will take your guidance.

Sometimes going on too will help as you can control the penetration at a speed you’re comfortable with

Once it’s first in take a moment to breath relax and adjust before he goes in a bit further and so on until he’s all in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Douche before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shove a large butt plug up, lubed, for 3 or 4 hrs before.

Make sure to not eat for 8 hrs before and douche or enema a few times to clear system.

If you have a dildo then use that for 30 mins before, then plug back up.

Lots of lube

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

As others have said lots of lube.

Personally it doesn't matter so much the size of the cock but it does help if they are rock hard.

Position wise I always find it best doggy, but I prefer backing onto the cock (initially) at my own pace so I can let my body adjust to the size and fullness

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By *9 Love-To-TryCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

I get clean infact very clean then plug, then build up with foreplay then relax and enjoy that amazing full feeling when he is in or a toy

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

"So definatley not a 9inch can sized cock rhen is what im getting from the advice. Save that fir the 2nd time"

I’d say it’s about girth. Thinner the better of course.

However it’s not the same about lengths. Short cocks will hit your prostate that could be quite uncomfortable where as long cock will glide through and give really nice pleasures filling.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone please carry on with the advice im learning loads everyday

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By *odmozMan
over a year ago

walsall

Try a small butt plug first loads of lube and build up

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By *entle DomMan
over a year ago

Shoreham

Look up how to douche, get a smallish dildo with a suction attachment, clear out lube up and see how you go. That way you will know how it feels and hopefully how to relax muscles.

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By *TDHGentMan
over a year ago

Worcs

I just spit on my cock and in it goes slowly working it loose building up. Get a butt plug.

Take a crap before or it's gonna hurt bad. Take some p0ppers. Even a balloon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Balloon ???

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

He means nitrous. Stupid idea. First time don't use ANY aromas, chemicals or numbing aagents. You listen to what your body is telling you. "Enhancers" will make you think your more capable than you think. That's when damage gets done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of lube and plenty of practice solo with toys. Also a partner that doesn't start jackhammering instantly helps!

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By *rystalizedEyesWoman
over a year ago

Wellington

Cleanse, clean, lubricate, dilate, penetrate. Emphasis on the first four stages. Practice alone remember it's not about depth, the speed or force you can take it. PLEASE don't use anything that will numb the pain. If it hurts, you're doing it wrong and rushing. You can do serious damage by not listening to your body. Slow and steady.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cleanse, clean, lubricate, dilate, penetrate. Emphasis on the first four stages. Practice alone remember it's not about depth, the speed or force you can take it. PLEASE don't use anything that will numb the pain. If it hurts, you're doing it wrong and rushing. You can do serious damage by not listening to your body. Slow and steady. "

Thank you

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Beware of the farmers, as no matter how much lube there is, they can still cause pain and spoil the party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pop along to your local gay toy shop before they open - you know hang around outside see what's about

Then nip inside both times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All good advice. I plan on having my first time taking next week. Have got the douche ready, a decent sized dildo and loads of lube and condoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it gentle and easy, practice first, small dildo then work up. Plenty of lube is key and so is relaxation. Breathing also helps and then once you’re into the rhythm it’s all good

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By *d_PrestonMan
over a year ago

Preston, Leyland, Chorley & Blackpool areas

Most definitely this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before anyone actually does anal may I strongly suggest personal hygiene is considered first of all!

As a gay man I know first hand that accidents happen, its just one of those things, we play with the (bottom) you expect from time to time someone might be a bit messy. So before doing anything use the bathroom, have a good clear out.

Then using a douch, insert and spray water up yourself. This you then release into the toilet (like a waterfall but not quite niagra falls) continue to do so until you are clear. Then relax and enjoy putting all sorts of things up there lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks to all.of you. Iv just been in the shower and have graduated to 4 fingers inside my ass while in there. three felt amazzing all the way up to my hand but 4 wow. I honestly think when iv taken one cock i will taking as many as i can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Onto the reverse glory holes ??

Getting your bum helped

J-Hoe Alllll the Wayyyyyy

Let us know what lube u like

Or who has the best fuck rod

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