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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi Ive been on this site for months..Now and again I come on and see some cracking people and send messages ( not rude or weird ) I have never had 1 single reply

So can any blokes give me some pointers please...Im no oil painting but why do i never get a responce haha

Cheers in advance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Or women i forgot to add

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

You status says "I have nothing more to give. I have lost the will to live". This would put me off messaging.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Have you considered changing your profile name to something more positive and having a smiling profile pic ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just lyrics but i see your point lol

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I didn't realise it was lyrics. Apologies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Point taken cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change name and change profile pic. Fair enough, it's a lyric but it's not right up beat. M

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lyrics gone..piccy i will sort lol

Im just a stern looking person sadly if i smile on photos it looks like ive shat myself but i will try..

Cheers folks..ive had chat kind of too...woohoo x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

You could add some pics which aren't your face and also write a bit more text

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cant change name by looks of it...a less stern look pic up ( still not a smile has such

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Nice pic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol i wouldnt go that far

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

A single guy on here needs good profile text, a good gallery and good messages sent to appropriate people.

IF a guy has these, he MIGHT stand a chance.

How would you say you fare with those?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Remember that a crap profile is our best filter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Terrible by the sounds of it lol..i changed the txt but i bet its still not good.. mmmmmmmm i need a teacher to help

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"Terrible by the sounds of it lol..i changed the txt but i bet its still not good.. mmmmmmmm i need a teacher to help "

You say you changed "the txt" but there's almost nothing in your bio. Nothing that says anything about you, what you like, what you're looking for or what you can offer.

Couples and single women get far, far more offers every day than they can possibly take up. We don't meet any more than once per week, but get thirty offers per day....so that's at least 200 guys messaging us every week that we don't need....so poor profiles are a very quick filter.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I will have a rethink cheers..although if you start a full bio it will sound like a ad for a dating site ?

Like i say im new to all this so all help is accepted

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

You are looking for regular, no strings fun. Could you maybe mention what you think is fun, what you think is regular, and maybe why you can't accommodate ?

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"I will have a rethink cheers..although if you start a full bio it will sound like a ad for a dating site ?

Like i say im new to all this so all help is accepted "

Maybe try looking through other people's bios, think if you'd like to contact them based on what you read and compare it to what you've got.....

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it better now ? Thanks for your advice..Im obviously not so good at this ( YET )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I will have a rethink cheers..although if you start a full bio it will sound like a ad for a dating site ?

Like i say im new to all this so all help is accepted

Maybe try looking through other people's bios, think if you'd like to contact them based on what you read and compare it to what you've got.....

(Bry)"

Cheers for advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are looking for regular, no strings fun. Could you maybe mention what you think is fun, what you think is regular, and maybe why you can't accommodate ? "

Done my best

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Looking much better

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers Sally x

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"Cheers for advice"

Welcome. But keep it in the forums, please.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No worries thx

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

New pic is much nicer - smiles always work better. Text still reads like all the other guys out there - there's nothing to hang a conversation on.

You can change your user name if you become a site supporter I think. It's only a fiver and can be done via text and lots of people will take you a bit more seriously as a site supporter.

Also....verifications. They're not the "be all and end all" but they really do help - just about every non-verified single guy that we've arranged to meet has let us down. Web cam veris are pointless so get yourself to a club or social and get some meet verifications (they don't need to be play meets) but again they show that you're serious.

(Bry)

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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago

Not looking to meet new peeps.

Married and small, never gonna work sorry xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im not married ? And thats very sizest

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Married and small, never gonna work sorry xx"

Ooft harsh lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Married and small, never gonna work sorry xx

Ooft harsh lol"
very harsh

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

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"Hi Ive been on this site for months..Now and again I come on and see some cracking people and send messages ( not rude or weird ) I have never had 1 single reply

So can any blokes give me some pointers please...Im no oil painting but why do i never get a responce haha

Cheers in advance

"

The way that we see it is that there are just so many single guys on here looking for sex that couples and females get the choice of the best looking, the best profiles and the best photos.

Some guys will get some fun, loads won't.

Just like life really.

Not saying this for you OP, but there are guys on here who think

'I have a profile, I will get a fuck'

Not so.

Not everyone who walks into a pub gets a fuck. Much the same here really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

True fella

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