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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi folks, I'm Dan. I haven't introduced myself at all yet even though I've been here about a month or so. I'm a writer, filmmaker, musician aka unemployed guy with too many health problems to have a social life lol I'm not taking this place too seriously and I'm not expecting anything from it but is there anyone here that actually replies to messages? Like as in ordinary polite hello messages? Seems like I'm supposed to act like an arsehole to get attention (as if) lol feel free to drop in and say hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dropping in to say hi and welcome to Fab. Great attitude to have but profile is just a little sparse, in fact you have said more on this post

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By *amstarMan
over a year ago

Derby

I'm having same promlem with replies. I shall take the advice and put more on my profile then

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By *amstarMan
over a year ago

Derby

I'm having same promlem with replies. I shall take the advice and put more on my profile then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother mate it makes no difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't bother mate it makes no difference "

Have seen your posts on a few forums, they seem to be quite negative towards your time on the site. Personally for me (can't speak for others) negativity is a huge turn off. Not all women on here are as rude, ignorant and stuck up their own arses, as you give them credit for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't bother mate it makes no difference

Have seen your posts on a few forums, they seem to be quite negative towards your time on the site. Personally for me (can't speak for others) negativity is a huge turn off. Not all women on here are as rude, ignorant and stuck up their own arses, as you give them credit for"

Lol maybe you are not but believe me lots are. Just living in the real world that's all :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dropping in to say hi and welcome to Fab. Great attitude to have but profile is just a little sparse, in fact you have said more on this post"

This.

Your profile is poor, I'd combine some of this post in to it as it makes you sound far more appealing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't bother mate it makes no difference

Have seen your posts on a few forums, they seem to be quite negative towards your time on the site. Personally for me (can't speak for others) negativity is a huge turn off. Not all women on here are as rude, ignorant and stuck up their own arses, as you give them credit for

Lol maybe you are not but believe me lots are. Just living in the real world that's all :D"

I'm sure there are as many nice women on here as non nice women. I could take same view with men and tar them all with same brush, because some are abusive or distrespectful, instead I prefer to judge everyone fairly, I reply to every message, which takes a lot of time, but don't feel I deserve abuse for saying no thanks, yet often, that is what I get. I try not to let this get me down, though some men can be very vile and push my kind nature, yet, still I choose not to tar all men with the same brush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi folks, I'm Dan. I haven't introduced myself at all yet even though I've been here about a month or so. I'm a writer, filmmaker, musician aka unemployed guy with too many health problems to have a social life lol I'm not taking this place too seriously and I'm not expecting anything from it but is there anyone here that actually replies to messages? Like as in ordinary polite hello messages? Seems like I'm supposed to act like an arsehole to get attention (as if) lol feel free to drop in and say hi"

I'm also good at winding people up. :D calm down. I'm not negative I couldn't give a monkeys if I'm honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will go far....enjoy the journey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi folks, I'm Dan. I haven't introduced myself at all yet even though I've been here about a month or so. I'm a writer, filmmaker, musician aka unemployed guy with too many health problems to have a social life lol I'm not taking this place too seriously and I'm not expecting anything from it but is there anyone here that actually replies to messages? Like as in ordinary polite hello messages? Seems like I'm supposed to act like an arsehole to get attention (as if) lol feel free to drop in and say hi

I'm also good at winding people up. :D calm down. I'm not negative I couldn't give a monkeys if I'm honest. "

I'm perfectly calm thankyou

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you lovely, i in fact started off with a lot and then just downsized it. I change things a lot so there will likely be more in time to come x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the kind messages xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't bother mate it makes no difference

Have seen your posts on a few forums, they seem to be quite negative towards your time on the site. Personally for me (can't speak for others) negativity is a huge turn off. Not all women on here are as rude, ignorant and stuck up their own arses, as you give them credit for

Lol maybe you are not but believe me lots are. Just living in the real world that's all :D"

Works both ways; I am supposed to have a meet tonight but he seems to have forgotten all about it they exchange of messages we had last night, didn't even have the decency to apologise that he couldn't make it so guess I am stuck at home again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well ive got to say....i havent been on here very long either,ive messaged some peeps and had no reply,ive messaged others and had a reply.

it is just like the real world really,some people are going to find you attractive and others arent.

if your profile says abit about you and you have a few pics...thats all you can do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"well ive got to say....i havent been on here very long either,ive messaged some peeps and had no reply,ive messaged others and had a reply.

it is just like the real world really,some people are going to find you attractive and others arent.

if your profile says abit about you and you have a few pics...thats all you can do."

Was talking about this today with a friend from the site and he agrees that men are more open to friendly chatting than the majority of women.

I should mention that some friends I have known for over half a decade never found me attractive to begin with and have changed their minds over time, because I have a personality that works for people even when I'm not trying to please.

I just care about being repsectful and polite to people in general - not all the time, I have my limits, hence the previous negative comments - and regardless of not finding me attractive, the offending women ought to be able to say no thank you rather than being rude and then blocking me.

Like I say in my profile, I'm not desperate and I can hold a conversation. A lot of women count that as sex appeal lol so if that's the case then what kind of women have I been talking to hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Works both ways; I am supposed to have a meet tonight but he seems to have forgotten all about it they exchange of messages we had last night, didn't even have the decency to apologise that he couldn't make it so guess I am stuck at home again "

Sorry to hear that, it's not nice getting stood up and yes it does work both ways, you are right.

But I've never stood anyone up and I have had some painful knockbacks lol I remember working in the Off License and asking a woman out one night.

She said, 'eeeee no offence but you work in a shop' ahahaha

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