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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Like the subject says, I've been on here a bit but can't seem to get ladies to message back let alone meet. Can someone tell me where I'm going wrong and what I need to do to improve?

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

Put your dick away?

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By *orsetminx20Woman
over a year ago

Poole

So this is going to come across a little blunt but it is meant with the best intentions.

Ok so the fact all your pics are of your dick will put alot of people off and it says you can't accommodate which usually means attached (married or gf).

It's a pretty uninspiring profile to be fair. Effort in = results out.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"So this is going to come across a little blunt but it is meant with the best intentions.

Ok so the fact all your pics are of your dick will put alot of people off and it says you can't accommodate which usually means attached (married or gf).

It's a pretty uninspiring profile to be fair. Effort in = results out. "

This plus your age, as a lot of us have children near your age. Also you've only been on here for 5 weeks!!! Hope this helps you OP x

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Go to an organised social , much easier than messaging to chat with folk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this is going to come across a little blunt but it is meant with the best intentions.

Ok so the fact all your pics are of your dick will put alot of people off and it says you can't accommodate which usually means attached (married or gf).

It's a pretty uninspiring profile to be fair. Effort in = results out. "

Age range of 18-99 as well.

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

You state you’ll meet 18-99. Would you really?

Add some better pics that aren’t just of your cock. Arms, chest, legs, neck, lips etc probs lay even put the dick pics in the friends only or private category.

Explain why you can’t accommodate or change it to can accommodate and then put in your profile something to explain you can only accommodate in hotels.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know ive not been here long, but i thought it would be better to try and imrove my profile sooner rather then later. And thank you to everyone who's responded, ive started tweaking my profile to what's been said and hopefully it'll get through my thick skull

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By *orsetminx20Woman
over a year ago

Poole


"I know ive not been here long, but i thought it would be better to try and imrove my profile sooner rather then later. And thank you to everyone who's responded, ive started tweaking my profile to what's been said and hopefully it'll get through my thick skull "

Good luck

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Lower your expectations but not your standards... 5 weeks is a miniscule "bit"

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

You're young and have only been on here 5 minutes. Maybe rethink your pics.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

OP.

Good advice so far but there are further points to consider.

As said, you've only been on here 5 weeks. You are a mere beginner. Pre-Covid, it could take a guy up to a year to get noticed. Nowadays, it takes longer!

During lockdowns & restrictions, more Males joined, meaning you are up against 100's of your peers all seeking the same goal!

That means ladies can afford to be picky!

Your profile needs to stand out. You have to treat it in the same way as a Job CV; in short, you have to "sell" yourself! You have to be NOTICED!

Ditch the dick pic to Private or Friends, and put up a facial photo. Expand your profile by saying what you can bring to any meet, and equally what you expect at one.

Attend Clubs and Socials in your area. Check out the Forum Pages Index for similar threads and more advice. Read the advice notes put up by the Site, for added help.

Your success will only be matched by your input. You'll need to exercise Patience & Perseverance, plus have a thick skin as rejections or no replies will occur.

YOU have to work hard, but it can work. Good luck.

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