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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone not been on long, struggling to make an impact. Noticed a few forum posts asking for advice on profiles. So if I could ask for the same brutal honesty see how it goes. Still got to nail the first message that doesn't remain unread or instantly deleted too.

Thanks

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

You have been on a few weeks that’s nothing some men have been on over a year with no meets. You have one photo? Your married will put the majority off but good to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the same boat brov still trying to get my first meet

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Ok looked at your profile. You wouldn’t be someone I would be interested in for various reasons one you being married.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your input

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England

As the male part of a couple, I would be thinking you're coming over to play with my partner but you keep your wife for yourself. Not a criticism but just my point of view.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

It's perfect, tells me everything I need to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm new aswell so curious as what others have experienced on here too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair point

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"I'm new aswell so curious as what others have experienced on here too "

There is no free sex on fab lol

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Your profile doesn’t look bad in itself but being brutally honest and perhaps a bit harsh, there are thousands, thousands of men just like you on this site. So standing out will be very, very difficult.

Best bet will be getting to a social and meeting people that way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

The stuff "too taboo for here" would put me off

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Your profile seems unfriendly and so will deter some. It's possible to be upfront, without the edge that could be the reason that someone moves on to the next profile.

You emphasise you're married and the tone of this appears somewhat cavalier, with your elaboration upon it. It's right to be honest but you could do this clearly, with subtlety and less seemingly like a tiny brag.

You've emphasised more of what you want and rather less about what you have to offer. Men here have to sell themselves and often have very unrealistic expectations he

Your photos will ideally leave viewers with a crisp vision of how you look, so they can know if they could possibly want to be with you. Yours seem a bit samey and didn't give me that sense.

Read more of the threads you've started to view helping guys. Reconsider your approach so that you can aim to improve it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm new aswell so curious as what others have experienced on here too

There is no free sex on fab lol"

Wine dine and no promises of a 69.

Fare trade in this life..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Appreciate the advice. All taken on board. More I think about it, seems less of a bright idea I imagined it to be.

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England


"Fair point"

What was the fair point; not sure what you were replying to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yours. Never looked.at it that way and I see how it could seem frowned upon

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Appreciate the advice. All taken on board. More I think about it, seems less of a bright idea I imagined it to be.

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Did you think it would be easy to get free sex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah no one thinks that just pointer on how to get the fun started

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a reply would do lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a reply would do lol. "

Hey, not sure if you've changed your profile since your original post, but it made me smile. However, as a female, what's put me off is your age range. Whilst you've explained your likes, it smacks a little of "I'll fuck anyone just to get my rocks off".

Good luck with your fabbing.

Eve

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for reading, I thought I'd be a bit more specific based on someone else's comments. Maybe condense it down a little. I can amend some stuff but my age isn't one I'm afraid lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry, I get what you meant now???????

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Sorry, I get what you meant now???????"

Unless you hit 'reply + quote' nobody knows what you are replying to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry, I get what you meant now???????

Unless you hit 'reply + quote' nobody knows what you are replying to."

Another useful tip, we're getting there eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely get where your coming from, I understand that most would like to stick to verified members, whether it be for caution, or they feel more comfortable that way but not all single unverified guys on here are idiots! Any suggestions on how I can make my profile more user friendly or any tips on how others got started would be appreciated

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Completely get where your coming from, I understand that most would like to stick to verified members, whether it be for caution, or they feel more comfortable that way but not all single unverified guys on here are idiots! Any suggestions on how I can make my profile more user friendly or any tips on how others got started would be appreciated "

Lots of info on fab if you look

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Completely get where your coming from, I understand that most would like to stick to verified members, whether it be for caution, or they feel more comfortable that way but not all single unverified guys on here are idiots! Any suggestions on how I can make my profile more user friendly or any tips on how others got started would be appreciated

Lots of info on fab if you look"

I'm a bit concerned I may have added too much at this point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Far too long

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Cheating is still cheating, your other half hasn't consented to anything.

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