FabSwingers.com forum: Couple to single

By *ister Play OP Man
over a year ago

Warwickshire / Birmingham

Hi everyone,

I'm not new to this site, as I was previously part of a swinging couple. We went to house parties, clubs and had private meets with some great people, making some 'real life' friends along the way. We never seemed to have any problems meeting, playing etc

However we split up in April, and I've been trying to carry on as a single, using a new profile. I'm finding it really hard to get any replies to my messages or winks. Would any of you forum users care to look at my profile and give me feedback, or any other general advice? I'm totally comfortable with the scene, atmosphere, and rules. But I'm getting really dispirited by lack of responses.

Thanks all - Mark x

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

You have to accept you're in a much more competitive environment as a single chap than you were as half a couple.

That's life.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Personally, I can't see what else you can do to improve your profile: one of the better ones I've seen.

I can only assume it's because you appear to be looking for a "girlfriend" and that could put people off as it triggers "needy alert".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

agree with the above.. but 3 cock pics out of 4 mite not help either

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By *ister Play OP Man
over a year ago

Warwickshire / Birmingham

"Personally, I can't see what else you can do to improve your profile: one of the better ones I've seen.

I can only assume it's because you appear to be looking for a "girlfriend" and that could put people off as it triggers "needy alert". "

That's very kind, and also very helpful. I'll look for better wording, as I'm not looking for a gf as such, but a swinging buddy, or regular party date would be fantastic xx

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By *ister Play OP Man
over a year ago

Warwickshire / Birmingham

"agree with the above.. but 3 cock pics out of 4 mite not help either

True enough, I better add some face / normal pics eh?

I always include face pics when I message though - and still get hardly any replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally, I can't see what else you can do to improve your profile: one of the better ones I've seen.

I can only assume it's because you appear to be looking for a "girlfriend" and that could put people off as it triggers "needy alert".

That's very kind, and also very helpful. I'll look for better wording, as I'm not looking for a gf as such, but a swinging buddy, or regular party date would be fantastic xx "

I agree, it's a good profile. I can't see anything off-putting. Good luck finding play partners.

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Welcome to jungle of single male profile

Don't expect the same as with a couple profile

As long as you know that you are at your own and face it, you will be fine. Don't just wink or send random message. Am sure you hated when you were a couple to get bombarded with messages from single males

Take everyday as it comes and you will get lucky. Or just go back to those you meet before and see what you can get back

Good luck

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

The profile isn't a bad one. But lose the line "I'm a professional."

To me it is completely pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also it's a different world being a single .You will be looking for a single lady and wow do they get mail or for a couple who will share with another guy , .We were both single swingers before we met and now know both sides .As a couple you look for something that turns both of us on but when we were single we only had ourselves to consider .Good Luck

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By *ister Play OP Man
over a year ago

Warwickshire / Birmingham

Thanks everyone, I've updated my profile slightly and added face pics. Now just add patience & luck, and I could be having fun again. I really don't fancy going to club nights as a single male.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile looks great to me n it sounds like u hav actually taken everyone's advice on board so I hope your luck improves xxx

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