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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello everyone....i have been on here for two weeks now and still had no meet, there seems to be a lot of people who are all talk and no action!!!! Im looking for a bit of extra spice in my life.....unshockable, open minded and not looking for anything serious.....just some good sexual experiences......if your genuine and up for a good time, please do not hesitate to get in touch.....keep the faith!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah so you thought you would join and women would be falling at your feet to shag you??? WRONG!! There are about 25 single guys to 1 woman, you have to work at it, prove you are better than others, given your post, you need to learn that its not instashag and that you need to have lots of patience.

Good luck, think you will need it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah so you thought you would join and women would be falling at your feet to shag you??? WRONG!! There are about 25 single guys to 1 woman, you have to work at it, prove you are better than others, given your post, you need to learn that its not instashag and that you need to have lots of patience.

Good luck, think you will need it"

i agree all very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand why some people think they're guaranteed sex on this site. It's not an escort service.

Patience is the key. Work on your profile, get a nice picture up and attend socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"unshockable, open minded"

Really???

I keep getting messages from guys organising big black cock gangbangs, I'll send them your way as you are open minded and unshockable.

Joking.

Take it easy, sell yourself on your profile and in contact messages and don't treat this place too seriously. Think of it as going out with your mates without planning to pull, and if you do then it's a bonus.

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By *thlete0Couple
over a year ago

southend

Two weeks!!! You should have met at least 4 by now!! Report it to admin x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gathered from the forums by others unable to arrange meets it mainly comes down to how you project yourself on your profile.

Pictures and being more personal in the main description seem to work wonders, ofcourse from what I have gathered!

Good Luck mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Still think it seems to be all talk and no action on this site....is there anyone out there who wants some NSA good sexy times?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still think it seems to be all talk and no action on this site....is there anyone out there who wants some NSA good sexy times?"
hey heres an idea read your posts like it was u that wrote them cause i read them now i don't meet guys but if i did i defintely would want someone that seem pushy and looking for a quick fuck with anyone i think u have a swingers site mixed up with a sex site there r plenty of sites that meet up for no strings fun this is a swingers site and majority of meets are couples looking for people to join them for fun they are in a loving relationship and while happy to share there partner they will still want someone respectful and non pushy. there are exception to this rule maybe cuckloding or that kind of scene but as i don't know much about that i can't say. hope this helps and while i do meet i don't meet guys and yes we do meet and have fun on this site but then we are happy to have socials and get to know people xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still think it seems to be all talk and no action on this site....is there anyone out there who wants some NSA good sexy times?hey heres an idea read your posts like it was u that wrote them cause i read them now i don't meet guys but if i did i defintely would want someone that seem pushy and looking for a quick fuck with anyone i think u have a swingers site mixed up with a sex site there r plenty of sites that meet up for no strings fun this is a swingers site and majority of meets are couples looking for people to join them for fun they are in a loving relationship and while happy to share there partner they will still want someone respectful and non pushy. there are exception to this rule maybe cuckloding or that kind of scene but as i don't know much about that i can't say. hope this helps and while i do meet i don't meet guys and yes we do meet and have fun on this site but then we are happy to have socials and get to know people xxxxx"
sorry wasn't you that wrote them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

be great to get to know a few like minded people, either socials or just a couple of drinks somewhere, exchange stories and ideas....im not expecting to log on here and get some action within the next 15 mins, but it does seem to me like people are on here to satisfy their own ego's and and make themeselves feel wanted....and to be honest i havent got time for folk like that

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"Still think it seems to be all talk and no action on this site....is there anyone out there who wants some NSA good sexy times?"

Ok, I want NSA, good sexy times. But why should I pick you?

Your profile tells me jack shit, I have no real idea what you look like. I have no idea if your idea of good sexy times is the same as mine.

I can click on the profiles of half a dozen single men and find out the answers to my questions by reading their profiles. So I'm more likely to pick them over you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't go looking for a meet, let the meet find you. Its so much easier and less time consuming

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull


"Hello everyone....i have been on here for two weeks now and still had no meet, there seems to be a lot of people who are all talk and no action!!!! Im looking for a bit of extra spice in my life.....unshockable, open minded and not looking for anything serious.....just some good sexual experiences......if your genuine and up for a good time, please do not hesitate to get in touch.....keep the faith!!!!"

Here we go again! Another Single guy who thinks this site is an "Instant Fix" site.

You've only been on here 5 weeks. You are a mere beginner!

Your Profile consists of 3 lines; even the legal warning is longer - and whilst on that matter, get rid of it, as it serves no purpose at all!

You are competing against many other single guys, so you have to "sell" yourself. Expand what you like, whom you are seeking and so on.

Get a facial pic onto the Profile. Get involved with the Forums and go to socials or clubs in your region - you have to get noticed first to get anywhere!

Patience is the key word to remember. It takes time and doesn't occur overnight!

Good luck - at the moment you need it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you send 100 messages you`ll prob have god nose how many deleted without contact straight away because the profile dosent catch there eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Two weeks!!! You should have met at least 4 by now!! Report it to admin x"

Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worrie mate I been here months and woman bearly talk to me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't go looking for a meet, let the meet find you. Its so much easier and less time consuming "

Your so right mrmessy

I've only messaged two ladies first in the last year . All my meets have been ladies contacting me. And of the two I've messaged I'm taking one to the zoo Friday and the other for a pint of bitter .

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By *tehalifaxMan
over a year ago

halifax

Hi everyone im steve 26 single genuine honest guy from halifax im a security officer n a head doorman ive been on this site 4 months n ive not had one meet ? People hae told me to change me profile n my pic and ive done that n still nothing n how am i realy suppose to get verified when people will not meet me ? Someone really explain or is this site shit or is it the stupid people on here lookin im single n up for lots of fun ok n safe sex always so im looking for couples n single ladies so write to me please or do i delete this site for good ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone im steve 26 single genuine honest guy from halifax im a security officer n a head doorman ive been on this site 4 months n ive not had one meet ? People hae told me to change me profile n my pic and ive done that n still nothing n how am i realy suppose to get verified when people will not meet me ? Someone really explain or is this site shit or is it the stupid people on here lookin im single n up for lots of fun ok n safe sex always so im looking for couples n single ladies so write to me please or do i delete this site for good ? "

Starting your own thread might help instead of hijacking someone else's post?

On the plus side you have loads of face pictures though you might consider getting rid of the sideways ones and replacing them with a torso and a bum picture.

Profile is a little short, consider a grammar check, spell check and getting rid of the text speak as people don't like that. You need to expand it a bit; you seem to have lots of tv's as friends but don't say why, people might think you are not really into those who are straight. And would you really shag a 78 yr old??

Also you have been here 4 months yet verified? Some people wait longer so you just need patience, use the forums and join in, get your face known for the right reasons, you might get lucky then

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"Hi everyone im steve 26 single genuine honest guy from halifax im a security officer n a head doorman ive been on this site 4 months n ive not had one meet ? People hae told me to change me profile n my pic and ive done that n still nothing n how am i realy suppose to get verified when people will not meet me ? Someone really explain or is this site shit or is it the stupid people on here lookin im single n up for lots of fun ok n safe sex always so im looking for couples n single ladies so write to me please or do i delete this site for good ? "

Head doorman and security officer. So you get d*unk women throwing themselves at you every weekend, after a bit of rough, and thought it would be the same here. Oh dear!!

You are already verified, so don't understand what your problem is.

Personally I wouldn't mail you or answer mail from you. Your profile is badly written, all about what you want, nothing about what you can give me.

You do not stand out, and that is what this game is all about for single blokes!

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Oh, an calling people stupid will really not help your cause.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull


"Hi everyone im steve 26 single genuine honest guy from halifax im a security officer n a head doorman ive been on this site 4 months n ive not had one meet ? People hae told me to change me profile n my pic and ive done that n still nothing n how am i realy suppose to get verified when people will not meet me ? Someone really explain or is this site shit or is it the stupid people on here lookin im single n up for lots of fun ok n safe sex always so im looking for couples n single ladies so write to me please or do i delete this site for good ?

Starting your own thread might help instead of hijacking someone else's post?

On the plus side you have loads of face pictures though you might consider getting rid of the sideways ones and replacing them with a torso and a bum picture.

Profile is a little short, consider a grammar check, spell check and getting rid of the text speak as people don't like that. You need to expand it a bit; you seem to have lots of tv's as friends but don't say why, people might think you are not really into those who are straight. And would you really shag a 78 yr old??

Also you have been here 4 months yet verified? Some people wait longer so you just need patience, use the forums and join in, get your face known for the right reasons, you might get lucky then"

Fully agree with the above verdict

Look, it's like this; you have to compete with loads of other guys, so to be ahead of the others, you have to "sell" yourself.

Take a good hard look at your Profile; at the same time, take a deep breath and read it back to yourself and you'll find it's written as if you had said it all in one huge breath.

Split up the content into paragraphs, but don't use text speak - it "kills" any interest in a lot of people.

Use punctuation, correct grammar and spelling; to some people it doesn't matter, but in others it does, and you could well lose out all for the sake of getting it written correctly.

You can't accommodate, but there is no reason said as to why? That tends to put people off.

On the plus side, you haven't gone down the usual route of putting up cock shots, so good for you.

Patience is the name of the game; you have to bide your time. Getting noticed in the Forum pages or at socials/clubs in your region helps.

Good Luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone....i have been on here for two weeks now and still had no meet, there seems to be a lot of people who are all talk and no action!!!! Im looking for a bit of extra spice in my life.....unshockable, open minded and not looking for anything serious.....just some good sexual experiences......if your genuine and up for a good time, please do not hesitate to get in touch.....keep the faith!!!!"

Keep the faith???? That sounds sexy! ....... not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Keep the faith???? That sounds sexy! ....... not lol"

Or a bon jovi record

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