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By *hinami421 OP   Man
over a year ago

Greenwich

Hi Everyone,

I joined the site recently, and I’m very new to the scene. A lot of the newbie advice posts on the forum tell that introducing myself on here is the best way to get started, so here I am. Hello to you all!!!

If any of you have the time, I’d love some advice/feedback on my profile.

And I’ve also read that going to socials is great way to get to know people in the community, and for single guys to get verified. Are there any events that are particularly good for newbies? I’m based in S.E. London, but don’t mind travelling.

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

Looks good to me

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By *hinami421 OP   Man
over a year ago

Greenwich

Brilliant! Thank you

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

An excellent profile and pics. Wishing you success on here

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By *hinami421 OP   Man
over a year ago

Greenwich

Thank you! That's so kind

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Welcome

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By *hinami421 OP   Man
over a year ago

Greenwich

Thanks! It seems like a really great community, and I'm looking forward to being a part of it.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Hi OP. Very little wrong with your profile (except, and we might be in the minority, we like to see one totally naked pic so we can see the whole package. Nothing too graphic, mind) so really it's just a case of two things:

Get meet verified - you mentioned socials so just keep plugging away at those, or go deep end first and head to a club. You'll get people verifying you there and they mean a lot more than webcam veris.

Then just set realistic expectations. Single guys are in the huge majority here so you're simply up against it with numbers. We meet no more than once each week, often less. Say four times a month, and half are with people we already know. So we really only *need* two or three new guys each month.

Fab has slowed right now for us lately (guess we sound too negative in our profile) but we still get ten offers each day. That's 300 per month, and we need three at the most. That's just 1% of the offers we get are ever going to end in a meet.

Read profiles, message only those that match, and good luck.

(Bry)

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By *hinami421 OP   Man
over a year ago

Greenwich

Thanks so much for the advice Bry, I really appreciate it.

From what you're saying, and what I've read on the forum, it sounds like I've got my work cut out for me. But it seems like a really great community, so I'll persevere. Knowing me, I'll probably end up jumping head first into the deep end, and head to a club just to be social .

P.S. I did have a naked shot on my profile, then a "bulge shot" in boxers, but all of the anti-cock pic newbie advice I've seen on the forum made me think twice, so I put them in my private gallery. But now that you've said it, I might mention that they're there in my bio.

Thanks Again!

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