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By *uteguyhere OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Struggling to get any replies here on the website. Is it because it’s an old profile that I’ve used just to browse for a long time? Any advice would be cool

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Ok your photos are from 2013, you have one line on your bio says your semi attached and you have been on here a long time without any verifications.

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By *uteguyhere OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Hmmm yes. Those are very good points. So I need to give the profile some care. Makes sense. And feel a bit daft for not spotting that actually. Think I wrote that a long time ago.

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Definitely delete and start a fresh profile.

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By *uteguyhere OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Yeah ok. I was thinking that. And buy gold

Membership maybe

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By *ntman83Man
over a year ago

Walsall

I struggle too, maybe poor profile maybe not a look people like or maybe just not sending enough messages. Who knows but still hopefully meet some nice people at some point

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By *uteguyhere OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

I think maybe making more of an effort will help in terms of the profile. Can’t hurt

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By *JcouplemidlandsCouple
over a year ago

Peak District

Not saying that you aren't genuine but we like to chat to people that actually meet so if it is an old profile with no verifications we tend to ignore it. Not just for single men either, if we get a message of a couple who's last verification was 8 years ago chances are they are no longer a couple. It has happened to us previously, just before a meet the "only the male can make it" comment comes through.

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By *yselfAndHerCouple
over a year ago

Coventry


"I think maybe making more of an effort will help in terms of the profile. Can’t hurt "

Is this your renewed better effort??

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

You state you don't put up your verifications, but you don't have the green tick so you're not meet/cam verified

Need some more pictures and a better bio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are the best ways to start messaging people? “Hi how you doing” is a bit dull and boring

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By *nytime2023Couple
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Let us give some advice which we seen written 100 times already.

As a couple, we get 30+ messages everyday from guys and couples. If the message is one word or line, we delete. If they’ve clearly not read our profile, we delete. If the message references our profile we THEN look at their profile. Look at ours and you’ll see a lot of time and effort has gone it to explain what we’ve done and what we are looking for. Guys without verification are always risky, our advice it get to a social or club and meet people. Once verified a few times you’ll get more responses. We see it as if you make an effort with your profile, you probably make one with the way you look and in the bedroom. We’ve had some great meets with guys and couples from Fab, out the effort in and you’ll get rewards. M&F xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good advice it works

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