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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, I am back. Not new to the site and forum, though I have never really had much success with here anyway. I firmly believe this is down more to me having an alternative image with stretched piercings, and having a beard (I have dysmorphophobia so I like to try and cover my face up). It's definitely not my messaging style, I once accidentally messages a friend, because her profile photo was her eye, and that was her only photo. She was surprised how well written and respectful it was. I just wrote a message like I normally do to anyone.

Anyway, I digress. I am interested in at least talking to women who have a thing for alternative/metal guys. Though it seems like all I attract is men who have no clue how to present themselves (good lord men, if you are like that with me, I pray to God for the women on here)

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Me personally I would be put off by you having a partner rather than the way you look

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

OP, you have one lady that you're quite serious with and another that you are dating/seeing casually. I'd wonder if you'd even have time for me...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Alopogies, I didn't reply with quotes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, you have one lady that you're quite serious with and another that you are dating/seeing casually. I'd wonder if you'd even have time for me... "

To be honest, I feel it's the distance more than anything. I don't see my partner, since we're far apart and they have other relationships and responsibilities that trump me. The casual thing is like, super casual, like a once in a blue moon thing. But still, thank you for your comment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Me personally I would be put off by you having a partner rather than the way you look"

That is understandable. Some people are not ok with poly people, and I respect that. Though even on my old profile when I was a single human, I did struggle and not meet anyone from here, so I do speak from prior experiences. But thank you, it is flattering at least for you to write this reply

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

nr Stamford

Shame you're not local to us...you're very much Char's type, and you come across really well both here and on your profile.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Shame you're not local to us...you're very much Char's type, and you come across really well both here and on your profile.

(Bry)"

Thank you for your comment. I have always found on sites and apps, that a lot of people who seem to hold interest are miles away, in places that aren't easily reachable by public transport. It's weird, because I remember years a go reading an article that listed major UK cities and their most popular kinks, and Leeds had swinging as their most popular kink/sexual activity/community.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

nr Stamford

My son lives in Leeds and we were there a month or so ago. Managed a trip to Quest on the Sunday afternoon and very much enjoyed it.

We're back on the 4th/5th May and intending to revisit Quest on the afternoon of the 4th.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My son lives in Leeds and we were there a month or so ago. Managed a trip to Quest on the Sunday afternoon and very much enjoyed it.

We're back on the 4th/5th May and intending to revisit Quest on the afternoon of the 4th.

(Bry)"

Playing out on a weekday. I suppose if you're in Leeds, visiting, it really doesn't matter at all for the next day, if you decide to go out and have some fun

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