FabSwingers.com forum: Getting started

By *teveinwitney OP Man
over a year ago

Oxford

I dont think Im too unattractive but Im finding it difficult to get girls or couples to say hi. I dont know if Im doing something wrong...any comments or suggestions. Im just a fun bloke looking for fun people.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey Steve, the simple truth is that there are a LOT of guys on here compared to the girls, so the ladies are swamped with mails, winks, messages etc. so you need to find a way to stand out from the crowd.

Speaking as a fellow newbie I have found the best thing is just take it easy, make no assumptions and be patient. From looking at others it seems that if you take the time and trouble to get a good reputation, you'll start to get the meets. But it will take time unless you're lucky or a profile-writing genius!

Hope that helps mate, good luck