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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Dear Fab people...

I am newish to this amazing site. Just wondering, how long did it take you to get your first meet after joining this site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dear Fab people...

I am newish to this amazing site. Just wondering, how long did it take you to get your first meet after joining this site?"

A couple of days.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dear Fab people...

I am newish to this amazing site. Just wondering, how long did it take you to get your first meet after joining this site?

A couple of days."

Really? I think that's an achievement itself..well done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dear Fab people...

I am newish to this amazing site. Just wondering, how long did it take you to get your first meet after joining this site?

A couple of days.

Really? I think that's an achievement itself..well done

Not really, having just joined there were literally thousands of women for me to message, a reasonable amount of them local so chances were I'd be able to find someone I liked the sound of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of months me. Definetly worth it!

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By *hinaManMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

"A couple of months me. Definetly worth it! "

Well said, it took a few months for me too and it was totally worth it. My advice is be patient and try first to get verified by cam in the chatrooms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't had one yet. Supposed to have one tonight but we'll see!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well said, it took a few months for me too and it was totally worth it. My advice is be patient and try first to get verified by cam in the chatrooms."

Thanks for the advice buddy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Haven't had one yet. Supposed to have one tonight but we'll see! "

wish you all the best...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haven't had one yet. Supposed to have one tonight but we'll see!

wish you all the best...

Thanks. We think it might be a time waster but hey, fingers crossed.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

A couple of hours

But after some numpties my criteria are now harder and it screens a lot of the time wasters.

I insist on a coffee meet in a public place with no guarantee of play. I'll only go as far as I'm happy to travel (usually fairly local) and then if I get.stood up.I haven't gone out of my way or spent on a hotel/fuel.

I don't give.out my number, I keep all contact on here.

I don't cam or call to confirm my identity, but I do have plenty of veris.

If you are not having any luck consider a social, you'll make friends and get veris and it is a gentle introduction.

Good luck guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met someone a few weeks after joining at a local club. Good place to start. Have fun.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I could've me within about half an hour....if I wasn't fussy lol

In the end it took me about 3 months before I chose to meet anyone from here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could've me within about half an hour....if I wasn't fussy lol

In the end it took me about 3 months before I chose to meet anyone from here"

sensible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting socially on Wednesday, in order to get verified

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

Went to a club to play and everyone kept asking if we were on FAB - once I realised this wasn't a code word for some sort of illegal Viagra, we signed up

So other way around really.

D&K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could've me within about half an hour....if I wasn't fussy lol

In the end it took me about 3 months before I chose to meet anyone from here"

Same here

Takes a little while to get everything filtered and the initial rush for 'fresh meat' to die down lol

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By *ayb1970Man
over a year ago

Somerset

It took me nine months of chatting!and going through the old ( chat and wink and then your blocked etc) lol.....but hung in there and now plenty of interest!

Dont give up

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Dear Fab people...

I am newish to this amazing site. Just wondering, how long did it take you to get your first meet after joining this site?"

The next day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dear Fab people...

I am newish to this amazing site. Just wondering, how long did it take you to get your first meet after joining this site?"

It took us about 5-6 months after joining the site three years ago, but the wait was good for us

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Havent yet.

Not sure how long I have been here, 2 years maybe.

Its not as if I have tried getting 'meets' every one of those days, or even logged in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

first few days as well,

im not amazing looking or anything but when i was meeting had a profile what showed me off in my best light, and the way i talk to everyone is ver respectfull and all i did was concentrate on getting to know people and make friends and the meets take care of themselves once people know your different from the rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it was after a couple of months and well worth the effort !!

Good luck and keep at it !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks to all of you for sharing your experiences..It surely did motivate me..

However I also learned that I will have to be little patient..

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