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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi we are excited and starting in this new world! We are open to others first time stories, is it better to meet other couple as a private thing or to attend a party with lots of people? Thanks fabs

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We just go to a club and if you want to ease yourself in go on a quieter day/night first to get the feel of it. Good luck and enjoy.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We would advise to go to a club. If it's your first time you can just observe and learn what they're all about. In a club you can always use a well used line "we're just going to get a drink" if you want to move away from anyone. It's a bit more awkward at a private meet. If you don't click with anyone in a club you can still have a good night. Enjoy anyway

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By *indictiveMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

We are pretty new to the scene and had this discussion.

We found it was easier to dip your toes in with a club visit. You can go there, have a few drinks and have some fun with no pressure to play. If you come across someone that takes your fancy and you both are keen you can then go for it!

With a couple meet for the first time unless you have a social to see if there is any mutual attraction I could see it getting awkward. We had a couple meet after going to a club and it was awesome though and would of been a great first meet!

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By *uicypeaches77Couple
over a year ago

Torquay

Clubs and organised socials ...much easier (and still not easy) to find couples you both click with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd strongly advise going to clubs, we avoided them when we started but when we started but visiting them we found it far less daunting than couples meets which can be very expectant on following through.

Clubs you can watch what's going on and get a feel for what's going on and always find different people to talk to. Many people in clubs will meet outside of them if you all get along.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Definitely go to a club as you'll it'll give you a better understanding of the lifestyle.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Everybody’s has a different slant on this .. some like social meets .. some clubs .. little steps over time make for a saucy journey finding out about yourself and what you both want ... & don’t ... goal posts can move as your confidence grows and comfort zones / limits challenged .. different strokes for different folks

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By *ewstaffscoupleCouple
over a year ago

cannock

We started off going to clubs first time august last year. We have never met anyone privately

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By *hris 62Man
over a year ago

HEREFORD

I say now a days best to go to a club for ladies and couple, or meet at a club.and see if not like you can carry the nite in the club and may get to meet or joy in joy the nite

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By *hris 62Man
over a year ago

HEREFORD

I say now a days best to go to a club for ladies and couple, or meet at a club.and see if not like you can carry the nite in the club and may get to meet or joy in joy the nite ,the couple in Gloucester you have a good set of clubs with in.90mins drive from small to big ones ,check out the club page and you can find out which one you may like

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks you very much for all the replies you are fabs! We will probably visit swindon swingers for wicked or social

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

wolves

Club, for all the reasons outlined above.

Easy to move away from people without being rude, gives you a chance to see what it’s like, to watch / observe the social side and the naughty side.

And clubs are not as scary as you may think they are.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Clubs 100%. A great night out and no wasted time or disappointment. Arranging private meets is full of pitfalls. They don't turn up. Or when you meet the chemistry may just not be there and it may just get awkward.

At a club you go with the excitement of opportunities. You meet people on neutral ground and know pretty soon if it's going to work or not. If so, great and you also have the opportunity to get physical then and there. If not no biggy, no awkwardness, just move on until you find something that does work. Or maybe even a couple of encounters with different people on the same night. Its also great for networking on the scene (the scene extends beyond FAB). Plus there is the opportunity to meet people you hook up with outside of the club in future. It's the easiest, safest and most successful way of doing things.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry


"Thanks you very much for all the replies you are fabs! We will probably visit swindon swingers for wicked or social"

Good option. Hope its a success.

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By *aulj69Man
over a year ago

dunstable

Clubs 100 percent, I've done both but as a single guy now it's a lot harder, clubs have closed, friends have moved etc etc, my first couples meet was in Archway London and was somewhat awkward as there was a woman there who as it turned out wanted her first gangbang she wore a short skirt and was commando, In hindsight it was obvious but as most of us were relative newbies no one knew where to look. In a club it is a much more relaxed atmosphere and everyone is there for the same thing, just be yourself and get chatting no standing there wanking. Lol, you will soon get invited to join someone I'm sure just remember to check what's on that eve, if you're bi or gay into a particular fetish etc, don't go to what's called a horse fair ( a story for another night/ don't ask ) sending hugs and love. Paul X

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Both have there advantages and disadvantages. Our first meet was with another couple but was a total disaster but we have gone on to have some very good couples meets.

Our first club visit was fantastic but we have also had some poor club nights.

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