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By *ineBigOnes OP   Man
over a year ago

Corwen

Hi, I get a lot of attention from guys but not women. Any adive to change that? Yes I know all my pics are practically the same, I assume just diversify my pics? Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice would be to take off the photos that appeal to guys… cock pictures

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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

You're going to get attention from guys regardless, a lot don't read profiles or respect preferences so the only guaranteed any is to filter them out from messaging you.

Having said that the 'straight but happy to talk to anyone' isn't exactly going to discourage them and straight is pretty meaningless on fab.

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By *ineBigOnes OP   Man
over a year ago

Corwen

It's not that I'm trying to discourage guys from messaging me, but to get more attention from women

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

14 October pic

the cabinet in the background is filthy and puts me off

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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Women generally don't need to message men. They get inundated with messages and can be more passive. Having a well written profile and being engaged and engaging on the forums will improve your odds, but you're going to have to be prepared to be proactive. Going to events is your best bet, failing that send respectful, tailored messages after reading profiles. That'll make you stand out more because messages like that are rare.

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By *ineBigOnes OP   Man
over a year ago

Corwen

I don't send out a lot of thought out messages but rarely receive replies but I know a lot of women get hundreds of messages. Also that Oct. 14th pic is my most fabbed haha

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

If you are only going to have dick pics then at least be creative with them.

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By *ineBigOnes OP   Man
over a year ago

Corwen

I know I've been meaning to, think that's my best angle tho haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In 19 October pic you've got a moustachioed guy right next to your cock. Could be cause of all the confusion.

Maybe try some food related item that doesn't have a man on it. Aunt Bessies Yorkshire puddings. Try those instead.

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare

Your pics are just 10x bog standard, stereotypical dick picks, all taken from the same angle. Not only do they look like each other, they look like most of the other dick pics on this site. If you're going to put dick pics in your profile, be a little creative with them.

Also, what about the rest of your body? Do you not think women might be interested in what the rest of you looks like?

Pick up a cheap tripod from amazon (one with a Bluetooth shutter remote). Take a varied range of photos (dressed, undressed, stood up, laid down, casual attire, smart attire, serious ones, fun ones etc). Apply different colour filters to them to make them stand out.

There are 1,000's and 1,000s of other guys in your area that you are competing with, you can't rely on half-assed, bog standard pics to get yourself noticed.

Hope some of this helps.

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By *ineBigOnes OP   Man
over a year ago

Corwen

Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't send out a lot of thought out messages but rarely receive replies but I know a lot of women get hundreds of messages. Also that Oct. 14th pic is my most fabbed haha"

By who OP?

I’d be surprised if it’s women. The comment Sally made should be your guide to what women notice about profiles. Photo backgrounds reveal a lot.

Also, bobbly sweatpants and socks are neither appealing or sexy.

The Pringle’s tube is as bad as a tv remote used as a penis measuring guide.

You have to be imaginative to stand out from every other guy on here. There are plenty of men with large dicks on Fab.

Take some of the advice you are being offered by forum users.

V

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Hi, I get a lot of attention from guys but not women. Any adive to change that? Yes I know all my pics are practically the same, I assume just diversify my pics? Thank you! "

Search the forums from previous folk whom have asked similar questions is your goal remember everyone is looking for someone so it's important that what you learn via previous posts and able to make your profile and bio to fit around you and not something that doesn't

Good luck pal

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By *ineBigOnes OP   Man
over a year ago

Corwen

Thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone of your pics focuses on ur dick, a wee bit more imagination is needed

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Too many dick pics and not great photos.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

You've made the classic mistake of assuming women will want to fuck you because you have a cock.

So far, your profile tells me that you define yourself with your cock so I doubt very much you'll get any interest from women but as you've found out, men love that stuff.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"You've made the classic mistake of assuming women will want to fuck you because you have a cock.

So far, your profile tells me that you define yourself with your cock so I doubt very much you'll get any interest from women but as you've found out, men love that stuff."

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By *atureguy1970Man
over a year ago

Coventry

No face pic and verifications

That simple

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