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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there any genuine older women or couples looking for a younger lad? I thought this would be a good place to find this… just had so many time wasters

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids


"Is there any genuine older women or couples looking for a younger lad? I thought this would be a good place to find this… just had so many time wasters"

Are they time wasters because they say no?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why would you even comment that like trying to argue? Lol no they are time wasters because they plan a meet and then dissapear or tell you they want to do this/that then dissapear

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

How are your chats going with people, are you approaching people with verifications from meets etc?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Pretty well generally and yeah I usually always use this as a judgement wether people are serious…. Probably doesn’t help i dont have veris but how am I supposed to get verified if people dont chat or meet, its crazy haha

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Your bio would put me off

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

What do u class as a time waster? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good job im not messaging you then aye?

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Good job im not messaging you then aye?"

Deffinately. It would be a no

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We'd say the best thing for single guys is to just go to a club so they get a good understanding of the scene.

You'll struggle to get someone to verify you with how your profile is at the moment so you'd stand more chance in a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good job im not messaging you then aye?"

If people see this sort of post on the forum if would be a bit off putting, don't you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fantastic reply. I have always thought so. Though I have and can provide pictures and all. It’s more safer I guess but your advice is noted. Will go to one of those. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmao nice one

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By *exyGC69Couple
over a year ago

truro

Now you just come across as rude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice guys, guess ill be going to a club soon!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yh if people wish to be rude they get what they give no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yh if people wish to be rude they get what they give no?"

Somebody highlighting your bio currently would put them off is not rude in the slightest It was constructive criticism that if taken correctly could have helped you.

Your response on the other hand was definitely immature and rude and will do you no favours whatsoever.

Good luck on your fab journey.

KJ

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock


"We'd say the best thing for single guys is to just go to a club so they get a good understanding of the scene.

You'll struggle to get someone to verify you with how your profile is at the moment so you'd stand more chance in a club."

We’d totally agree with that !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the useful advice guys i appreciate it!

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Yh if people wish to be rude they get what they give no?"

I wasn’t rude. I said your bio was rubbish which it is. If that’s the best bio you can write then good luck to you

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It can be your profile, your interests or anything.

I only like younger men, but not ass eating

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And shes still going on….. give it a rest darling

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah maybe that to thanks

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"And shes still going on….. give it a rest darling"

Been on over a year mmmm!

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Is there any genuine older women or couples looking for a younger lad? I thought this would be a good place to find this… just had so many time wasters"
. As others have already said a club maybe your best bet.As you are looking / interested in older ladies it maybe worth checking out the club reviews sections on Fabs and then checking which ones do a Cougars and Cubs / Young Guns and Mums events as I know there are these type of events in the North of England but I am not sure what there is in the South of England.Best of luck with your search.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou very much buddy I appreciate it and i am definitely looking into attending a club

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And shes still going on…. Clearly so bored of my profile u cant stop going on about it lol….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And shes still going on…. Clearly so bored of my profile u cant stop going on about it lol…. "

Well she is right lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay well im sorry that some people seem

To expect a fucking life story and exciting profile to even consider talking to a person and really seeing what they are about… this site really is becoming humour more then anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are being very rude to the lady. Who is try to help you.

People will see how you have responded to her and will remember your name and give you a wide birth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That is perfectly fine because anyone that i have and am currently am speaking to knows i am not rude and am genuinely a nice person so people can assume as they please

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

To be fair, the woman was rude too after her first post, lets not call one out without the other or it looks like double standards

Back to the OP

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids


"Okay well im sorry that some people seem

To expect a fucking life story and exciting profile to even consider talking to a person and really seeing what they are about… this site really is becoming humour more then anything else "

You aren't giving a good impression of yourself OP. We don't honestly care as we don't meet single guys, but after all the lady was right about your bio-it hardly exists, surely you know that? People aren't expecting a life story, but a little bit about yourself might be good.

Maybe it is the apparent attitude that is attracting timewasters? You may be a nice guy underneath it all, but people will judge by what they see.

And the green arrow tells everything.

Good luck!!

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By *wingcouple30Couple
over a year ago

Newport

Im in to younger guys

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

More advice would be that if you can't take honestly from people then the site probably isn't for you.

The lady commenting on your bio is correct and why would any say otherwise?

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By *inja 636Man
over a year ago

Grays

As a guy of 42 I would love to meet a lady 60 plus however it's tough for many reasons be patient and or visit clubs I've had some cheeky kisses over time with some fine older ladies through the club scene mind blowing ain't the word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are looking for the right one.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"More advice would be that if you can't take honestly from people then the site probably isn't for you.

The lady commenting on your bio is correct and why would any say otherwise?"

Because that wasn't the only post

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By *octordigitsMan
over a year ago

nearby

Older guy always happy to talk to younger lady

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By *MCMan
over a year ago

London/EA

First ‘error’ was assuming this would be a good place to find olders into youngers.. it’s a site with the majority of the members being male, there’s probably at least one of these threads a week.

Secondly the bio which everyone has mentioned.. they aren’t saying write a story but for a single male it’s very much you get out what you put in.. Give it a little more depth.

Finally, you’ve got one public photo, granted its face picture so that will help, however no harm adding some more public.. think, basically putting yourself in the window to try attract people.

Take the feedback how you’d like.

All the best getting a meet.. We’re the same age bracket and location.. there’s people looking for younger males in Norwich trust me.

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