FabSwingers.com forum: Newbie seeking advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’d appreciate a little advice … as a new guy to the site , feeling somewhat overwhelmed , I’m conscious my profile is sparse to say the least . I understand this may not be widely appreciated and the more I look into things the more I understand that this is a lifestyle choice rather than a quick fix with the chore members here . As I don’t know what it is that I’m truly into/seeking and I’m driven by intrigue and a desire to experience things before I start listing requirements I really don’t know where to start with a bio . I guess my question is am I perceived to be a time waster as I only seem to have gained the attentions of men and thats one thing I know I’m not looking for ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re not looking for men OP change your “looking for” settings to reflect that.

What do you normally look for in a woman?

What do you enjoy sexually?

I know you’re saying that you don’t know what you want but your life experiences and relationships to this point must surely have given you some idea of what you’re looking for?

A well written and informative profile are essential on Fab if you are to stand out from the thousands of other guys on here.

Maybe a few more informal pics as well.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am in the same boat! Any advise how to start speaking to people haha

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

With your Hollywood looks, you don't need a lot of work on profile, just get in right circles (socials, clubs)

Hit us up when/if you join fab as a couple xxx

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

OP the profile has good pics but definitely no content that will help someone choose you or not.

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By *ewfie02Couple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Single guys have a lot of competition. Just be friendly and chatty

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"I am in the same boat! Any advise how to start speaking to people haha"

Bad form to hijack someone's post to ask for advice.

(Bry)

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

OP....please, please don't take this the wrong way. Those of us that have been here a while have got used to spotting pics taken from web sites. A quick reverse image search of yours didn't bring any results up, but they are so good and you're so good looking that they *look* too good to be true.

Maybe scatter a few more casual pics and at least one teasing/nude torso pic just to make you look a bit more "achievable"

(Bry)

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"Single guys have a lot of competition. Just be friendly and chatty"

Got that right. With the number of meets we do, compared to the number of messages we get, just 1% are going to end in a meet. It's hard work for single guys, just be a decent person though.

(Bry)

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We'd suggest going to a club to see if the scene is for you. Could be a real eye opener for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh the pics of this man, wouldn't strike me as someone who would struggle with a bio on a site like this

Pretty sure a guy who looks as good as that, had more difficult challenges in his life.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d appreciate a little advice … as a new guy to the site , feeling somewhat overwhelmed , I’m conscious my profile is sparse to say the least . I understand this may not be widely appreciated and the more I look into things the more I understand that this is a lifestyle choice rather than a quick fix with the chore members here . As I don’t know what it is that I’m truly into/seeking and I’m driven by intrigue and a desire to experience things before I start listing requirements I really don’t know where to start with a bio . I guess my question is am I perceived to be a time waster as I only seem to have gained the attentions of men and thats one thing I know I’m not looking for ??"

Adding little bit to your profile would definitely help. Although competition between single male is massive. Empty profile doesn’t really help

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve made some changes to the bio .. haven’t gone crazy , just thought I could add a bit at a time n try to gauge reactions . Also uploaded a couple more relaxed shots hoping to increase interest via photos .. alas NO

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"I’ve made some changes to the bio .. haven’t gone crazy , just thought I could add a bit at a time n try to gauge reactions . Also uploaded a couple more relaxed shots hoping to increase interest via photos .. alas NO "

Still confusing as your last pic is STILL on a model agent's website under a different name.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That is me .. should I not be including any of my work shots ?

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"That is me .. should I not be including any of my work shots ? "

Absolutely include them, but you should mention it in your profile because people will do reverse image searches and will assume they are stolen photos. It's far, far more usual for pics to be stolen than for models to sign up to Fab

(Bry)

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"That is me .. should I not be including any of my work shots ? "

And are you sure you want your real name (or at least your modelling name) associated with your Fab account?

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good points made , I guess I’ve been nieve in assuming people wouldn’t do as much background checking .. but then again it would be foolish to think due diligence doesn’t go on . I’m not especially trying to hide anything however I’m pretty sure some of my clients wouldn’t want to book me for jobs if they saw an association here !!

Thank you got taking the time to advise me

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"Thank you got taking the time to advise me "

You're welcome. And hope there's no hard feelings on calling you out

You're probably not Char's type but if you find yourself passing Stamford/Peterborough then shout. Maybe pop in for a coffee and we can give you a meet verification.

(Bry)

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