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"As a member of a large women's group on kik us girls chat all the usual stuff and 'Bellies and Bodies often come up. Most of us females bodies will show a history and Bellies has to be the no 1 dislike (by ourselves) The harsh reality is we have them.. Many of the girls don't like them. I love a Dad bod myself, but wonder what's the real thoughts from a guys view on a Mum Bod. " I absolutely love a good mum bod and bit a curvy belly/tummy and big turn on! | |||
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"As a member of a large women's group on kik us girls chat all the usual stuff and 'Bellies and Bodies often come up. Most of us females bodies will show a history and Bellies has to be the no 1 dislike (by ourselves) The harsh reality is we have them.. Many of the girls don't like them. I love a Dad bod myself, but wonder what's the real thoughts from a guys view on a Mum Bod. " You’re beautiful tummy is pleasure giving in many ways ha Love the woman curves and folds ! | |||
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"As a member of a large women's group on kik us girls chat all the usual stuff and 'Bellies and Bodies often come up. Most of us females bodies will show a history and Bellies has to be the no 1 dislike (by ourselves) The harsh reality is we have them.. Many of the girls don't like them. I love a Dad bod myself, but wonder what's the real thoughts from a guys view on a Mum Bod. " Not a fan, although not a deal breaker, have been with many curvy/obese girls in the past, i personally couldnt be with someone long term who cant seem to gain control of their health. Whether thats through diet or exercising. I personally couldnt allow myself to get a belly, wouldnt be able to look myself in the mirror. | |||
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"As a member of a large women's group on kik us girls chat all the usual stuff and 'Bellies and Bodies often come up. Most of us females bodies will show a history and Bellies has to be the no 1 dislike (by ourselves) The harsh reality is we have them.. Many of the girls don't like them. I love a Dad bod myself, but wonder what's the real thoughts from a guys view on a Mum Bod. Not a fan, although not a deal breaker, have been with many curvy/obese girls in the past, i personally couldnt be with someone long term who cant seem to gain control of their health. Whether thats through diet or exercising. I personally couldnt allow myself to get a belly, wouldnt be able to look myself in the mirror. " Bellys are not aquired just by not looking after yourself, being unhealthy or over indulging.. Child bearing plays a major part. Obese and mum bod does not always go hand in hand. Carrying twins later in life when the body has less elasticity to full term has added to my current figure, I can't see how that's unhealthy... Do you? | |||
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"As a member of a large women's group on kik us girls chat all the usual stuff and 'Bellies and Bodies often come up. Most of us females bodies will show a history and Bellies has to be the no 1 dislike (by ourselves) The harsh reality is we have them.. Many of the girls don't like them. I love a Dad bod myself, but wonder what's the real thoughts from a guys view on a Mum Bod. " Personally, I like a woman to have curves, not into skinny women at all | |||
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"How ignorant you are, women's bodies are designed to carry and feed babies not everyone can ping back to a size 10 no matter how much diet and exercise they do. Medications men or women take can play a part in weight gain too. Please tell me after having 3 children by c-sections and a hysterectomy also by a section I can gain no weight on my tummy. " He's probably not much to look at in general Kaz haha. I think we're all beautiful regardless. Most women's tums tell their stories, childbirth etc. Not always due to being unhealthy. Unfortunately some people are just idiots aren't they. | |||
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"How ignorant you are, women's bodies are designed to carry and feed babies not everyone can ping back to a size 10 no matter how much diet and exercise they do. Medications men or women take can play a part in weight gain too. Please tell me after having 3 children by c-sections and a hysterectomy also by a section I can gain no weight on my tummy. He's probably not much to look at in general Kaz haha. I think we're all beautiful regardless. Most women's tums tell their stories, childbirth etc. Not always due to being unhealthy. Unfortunately some people are just idiots aren't they." No photos in profile or veris.. I can see he's popular  | |||
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"As a member of a large women's group on kik us girls chat all the usual stuff and 'Bellies and Bodies often come up. Most of us females bodies will show a history and Bellies has to be the no 1 dislike (by ourselves) The harsh reality is we have them.. Many of the girls don't like them. I love a Dad bod myself, but wonder what's the real thoughts from a guys view on a Mum Bod. " Mum bods are awesome. Soft sensual and so much pleasure. | |||
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"Mum's belly here and includes big ass Hope you all like x " You know we do xx | |||
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"As a member of a large women's group on kik us girls chat all the usual stuff and 'Bellies and Bodies often come up. Most of us females bodies will show a history and Bellies has to be the no 1 dislike (by ourselves) The harsh reality is we have them.. Many of the girls don't like them. I love a Dad bod myself, but wonder what's the real thoughts from a guys view on a Mum Bod. Not a fan, although not a deal breaker, have been with many curvy/obese girls in the past, i personally couldnt be with someone long term who cant seem to gain control of their health. Whether thats through diet or exercising. I personally couldnt allow myself to get a belly, wouldnt be able to look myself in the mirror. " Im not sure I understand why you would have sex with girls that you seem to have such low opinions of. That doesn’t seem right or fair to either of you  | |||
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"Not a fan, although not a deal breaker, have been with many curvy/obese girls in the past, i personally couldnt be with someone long term who cant seem to gain control of their health. Whether thats through diet or exercising. I personally couldnt allow myself to get a belly, wouldnt be able to look myself in the mirror. " Spare a moment if thought for some of us that have issues that 1. Make me unable to have children and 2. Make me a bbw. No amount of exercise or diet help as its a hormone issue. But its great to see you're havung sex women you don't actually like being with. Is the bar really that low? I swear guys I see like this and they are the ones that want a big arse and big tits but forget they are either surgically enhanced or belong to bbws, majority of the time anyway. This isn't build a bitch  | |||
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"As a member of a large women's group on kik us girls chat all the usual stuff and 'Bellies and Bodies often come up. Most of us females bodies will show a history and Bellies has to be the no 1 dislike (by ourselves) The harsh reality is we have them.. Many of the girls don't like them. I love a Dad bod myself, but wonder what's the real thoughts from a guys view on a Mum Bod. Not a fan, although not a deal breaker, have been with many curvy/obese girls in the past, i personally couldnt be with someone long term who cant seem to gain control of their health. Whether thats through diet or exercising. I personally couldnt allow myself to get a belly, wouldnt be able to look myself in the mirror. " We all have different thoughts and preferences on what physique we find attractive. At least you’re honest. Perhaps consider and appreciate how complex, beautiful, amazing and frustrating to us our bodies are. There are so many conditions women are susceptible to which we show in our bodies. PCOS, thyroid issues, steroid use, diabetes, child birth!!! All these can change our bodies and most of the time not in the way we want. A healthy diet or exercise sometimes isn’t the solution. I think you’ve got a little bit of a roasting with your comment but you have your preference and I hope some of the comments have been a bit of an education | |||
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"As a member of a large women's group on kik us girls chat all the usual stuff and 'Bellies and Bodies often come up. Most of us females bodies will show a history and Bellies has to be the no 1 dislike (by ourselves) The harsh reality is we have them.. Many of the girls don't like them. I love a Dad bod myself, but wonder what's the real thoughts from a guys view on a Mum Bod. Not a fan, although not a deal breaker, have been with many curvy/obese girls in the past, i personally couldnt be with someone long term who cant seem to gain control of their health. Whether thats through diet or exercising. I personally couldnt allow myself to get a belly, wouldnt be able to look myself in the mirror. Bellys are not aquired just by not looking after yourself, being unhealthy or over indulging.. Child bearing plays a major part. Obese and mum bod does not always go hand in hand. Carrying twins later in life when the body has less elasticity to full term has added to my current figure, I can't see how that's unhealthy... Do you? " Hey from another twin mum  | |||
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"It's the part of me I hate and why I try and find outfits that cover the tum at clubs
Nice to see some mum bod appreciation tho "love a mum belly, it’s nice to touch and ?? | |||
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But I mainly checked out this topic to see what will the first guy who dares to say that bellies are not for him receive - after being asked for an HONEST view by OP. And you girls did not surprise me. | |||
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"It's lovely to see that how different are the opinions on what is "beautiful" or "sexy". One can't be everyone cup of tea, but almost surely will be someones!
But I mainly checked out this topic to see what will the first guy who dares to say that bellies are not for him receive - after being asked for an HONEST view by OP. And you girls did not surprise me. "It isn't his preference that was the issue for me. | |||
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"As a member of a large women's group on kik us girls chat all the usual stuff and 'Bellies and Bodies often come up. Most of us females bodies will show a history and Bellies has to be the no 1 dislike (by ourselves) The harsh reality is we have them.. Many of the girls don't like them. I love a Dad bod myself, but wonder what's the real thoughts from a guys view on a Mum Bod. Not a fan, although not a deal breaker, have been with many curvy/obese girls in the past, i personally couldnt be with someone long term who cant seem to gain control of their health. Whether thats through diet or exercising. I personally couldnt allow myself to get a belly, wouldnt be able to look myself in the mirror. We all have different thoughts and preferences on what physique we find attractive. At least you’re honest. Perhaps consider and appreciate how complex, beautiful, amazing and frustrating to us our bodies are. There are so many conditions women are susceptible to which we show in our bodies. PCOS, thyroid issues, steroid use, diabetes, child birth!!! All these can change our bodies and most of the time not in the way we want. A healthy diet or exercise sometimes isn’t the solution. I think you’ve got a little bit of a roasting with your comment but you have your preference and I hope some of the comments have been a bit of an education "I wiuldn't roast this guy if he's not attracted to big girls, everyone has their preferences. But what he seems to be saying is big girls are okay for fucking but nothing else. And that offends me. Because it's an attitude many bigger girls have struggled with all our lives, the notion that guys will fuck us but wouldn't date us. Guys like this will try to make us feel unworthy in all sorts of ways, then tell us it's our fault because we "can't get control of our health". Either accept the curves. Or keep your damn hands off them! | |||
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"It's lovely to see that how different are the opinions on what is "beautiful" or "sexy". One can't be everyone cup of tea, but almost surely will be someones!
But I mainly checked out this topic to see what will the first guy who dares to say that bellies are not for him receive - after being asked for an HONEST view by OP. And you girls did not surprise me. "The guy in question didn't say bellies are not for him. He said he wasn't a fan but it wouldn't stop him fucking them. They just would never be good for anything else... A whole different kettle of fish I'd say. If he has such a low opinion of bigger people then why is he "lowering himself" to fuck them? | |||
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"As a member of a large women's group on kik us girls chat all the usual stuff and 'Bellies and Bodies often come up. Most of us females bodies will show a history and Bellies has to be the no 1 dislike (by ourselves) The harsh reality is we have them.. Many of the girls don't like them. I love a Dad bod myself, but wonder what's the real thoughts from a guys view on a Mum Bod. Personally, I like a woman to have curves, not into skinny women at all" It's not really nice to call slimmer women skinny either. You are staying your preference but no need to big up one body type while putting down another. (Big up... No pun intended ) | |||
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"I wiuldn't roast this guy if he's not attracted to big girls, everyone has their preferences. But what he seems to be saying is big girls are okay for fucking but nothing else. And that offends me. Because it's an attitude many bigger girls have struggled with all our lives, the notion that guys will fuck us but wouldn't date us. Guys like this will try to make us feel unworthy in all sorts of ways, then tell us it's our fault because we "can't get control of our health". Either accept the curves. Or keep your damn hands off them! " I might be the one to be roasted next but the thing you mentioned is nothing different from that when very attractive girls are happy to shag with me in a club or even after a tinder date, but would never even think about me as a potential serious partner as I'm not a city professional but living in a shared flat at the age of 40. I'm still good for a fun night out but a second-class man if it comes to something more serious. And those who know that they are "strong enough in the market" to be able to pick and choose will wait for better. But you know what? I am not feeling offended about it as at the end of the day they are right. Rather try to change it and play up my own level, even if I'm a bit late at 40.
I don't say at all, that bigger girls have lower value in general, as I said in my previous comment, that's the beauty of life how we find different things attractive.
On the other hand, I think it's normal to have higher "standards" for something serious than for some occasional fun. (Again, higher standards = closer to your personal preferences, not general value as a human!)
I would never have sex with someone who doesn't attract me physically, and being in a swinger club doesn't make any difference in this. (I've been roasted and been called "sexist" here for saying this and being "picky" many times...)
But, yes, I met and played with girls in clubs I was not about to call for a date and yet we still had some great time together, while I also met girls I'd love to marry in the nearest church right after the party if that was my choice. So this is a real thing, and I don't think it's so terrible to feel like this.
I'm also sure girls have the same feeling, and they "rate" guys too. Not only about money or profession but also by the look. I bet many of you (who like those kind of scenarios in general) have grabbed some cocks in a glorywhole that you were happy to play with for a minute but would not be interested in cuddling, hugging, kissing all-night-long sex marathon with the owner of that dick. Am I wrong? | |||
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"When asking for people's views it has to be accepted that they aren't all going to be positive, accept that.... Me, I hate my stomach and no amount of people saying they love them would change that but nor does someone expressing their honest opinion upset me. " You do have many other attributes physical and sensual style You’re obviously confident that’s hot | |||
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"How ignorant you are, women's bodies are designed to carry and feed babies not everyone can ping back to a size 10 no matter how much diet and exercise they do. Medications men or women take can play a part in weight gain too. Please tell me after having 3 children by c-sections and a hysterectomy also by a section I can gain no weight on my tummy. He's probably not much to look at in general Kaz haha. I think we're all beautiful regardless. Most women's tums tell their stories, childbirth etc. Not always due to being unhealthy. Unfortunately some people are just idiots aren't they. No photos in profile or veris.. I can see he's popular ""....but wonder what's the real thoughts from a guys view on a Mum Bod....." You asked for real thoughts and the guy gave his. Whilst I don't have a belly, my two sucked the life out of my tits. I wouldn't lambast someone for providing an honest opinion when it's exactly what I asked for. | |||
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"I love a soft tum on other women, I find it really sexy and attractive. But I’m not a fan of my own, 2 c sections and 9lb babies xx" It's a shame we can find something attractive in others but don't see it in ourselves. We really are too harsh on ourselves x | |||
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"I love a mum bod. Because it's more natural, curvy, beautiful. " Why is it more natural? Do you mean when a woman hasn't had any kind of surgery? | |||
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"It's lovely to see that how different are the opinions on what is "beautiful" or "sexy". One can't be everyone cup of tea, but almost surely will be someones!
But I mainly checked out this topic to see what will the first guy who dares to say that bellies are not for him receive - after being asked for an HONEST view by OP. And you girls did not surprise me. "It wasn't his preference that caused offence. It was the way he said he'd have sex with a lady with a belly but couldn't bring himself to have a relationship with one. Also his assumption that a woman with a belly was unhealthy and not taking care of herself. | |||
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"How ignorant you are, women's bodies are designed to carry and feed babies not everyone can ping back to a size 10 no matter how much diet and exercise they do. Medications men or women take can play a part in weight gain too. Please tell me after having 3 children by c-sections and a hysterectomy also by a section I can gain no weight on my tummy. He's probably not much to look at in general Kaz haha. I think we're all beautiful regardless. Most women's tums tell their stories, childbirth etc. Not always due to being unhealthy. Unfortunately some people are just idiots aren't they. No photos in profile or veris.. I can see he's popular
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You asked for real thoughts and the guy gave his. Whilst I don't have a belly, my two sucked the life out of my tits. I wouldn't lambast someone for providing an honest opinion when it's exactly what I asked for."It was his suggestion that larger women are OK for fucking but not for any other sort of relationship that wound people up not his preference. | |||
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"It wasn't his preference that caused offence. It was the way he said he'd have sex with a lady with a belly but couldn't bring himself to have a relationship with one. Also his assumption that a woman with a belly was unhealthy and not taking care of herself. " If I asked my Grandma she would have said that I should only have sex with those I'm happy to marry (or get in a relationship). But we are in a swinger's page, and looking at your veris you've touched a couple of dicks yourself too.  I doubt you would be interested in a relationship with all of those men.
Let's be honest, for most of us to have sex with someone is one standard, start a relationship is another, and I think it's absolutely right like this. (It doesn't mean that the individual is less worthy as a human. Only meanst that she/he doesn't match that much their personal preferences)
Due to the question of health, I do not doubt that hormone, or genetic factors exist, but looking at those overweight people I know in person (men and women), laziness and unhealthy diets are much common issues. Or the combinations of these with the genetics.
Don't take it wrong or personal, but if I can ask you, how many times a week are you doing exercises and how much attention do you pay eating healthy? Not to attract men more, but for being healthy, which is extremely important these days anyway coz of the virus... | |||
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"It wasn't his preference that caused offence. It was the way he said he'd have sex with a lady with a belly but couldn't bring himself to have a relationship with one. Also his assumption that a woman with a belly was unhealthy and not taking care of herself. If I asked my Grandma she would have said that I should only have sex with those I'm happy to marry (or get in a relationship). But we are in a swinger's page, and looking at your veris you've touched a couple of dicks yourself too. I doubt you would be interested in a relationship with all of those men.
Let's be honest, for most of us to have sex with someone is one standard, start a relationship is another, and I think it's absolutely right like this. (It doesn't mean that the individual is less worthy as a human. Only meanst that she/he doesn't match that much their personal preferences)
Due to the question of health, I do not doubt that hormone, or genetic factors exist, but looking at those overweight people I know in person (men and women), laziness and unhealthy diets are much common issues. Or the combinations of these with the genetics.
Don't take it wrong or personal, but if I can ask you, how many times a week are you doing exercises and how much attention do you pay eating healthy? Not to attract men more, but for being healthy, which is extremely important these days anyway coz of the virus..."In regards my own health I eat a reasonable healthy diet have a very active job (as a nurse) and get the recommended amount of exercise to be healthy. I have normal blood pressure but also some medical conditions that makes losing weight very difficult. I have come to terms with how I look and finally after many years of depression linked to my own body image have finally accepted that this is who I am. I only meet with people I at least find attractive or have a connection with but the way he worded his comment was that he finds larger women unattractive but will have sex with them anyway but inferred that's all they are good for. That to me is insulting. | |||
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"In regards my own health I eat a reasonable healthy diet have a very active job (as a nurse) and get the recommended amount of exercise to be healthy. I have normal blood pressure but also some medical conditions that makes losing weight very difficult. I have come to terms with how I look and finally after many years of depression linked to my own body image have finally accepted that this is who I am. I only meet with people I at least find attractive or have a connection with but the way he worded his comment was that he finds larger women unattractive but will have sex with them anyway but inferred that's all they are good for. That to me is insulting. " Sorry to hear that you had depression! It's my personal experience with my mates who are overweight. I have a girl flatmate, heavily overweighted, she always says she wants to lose weight. She wants to look after her appearance, even did botox at the age of 30, which is (in my opinion) stupid. But then sandwiches, a cake and some for dinner every day... That's not gonna happen like this. I lost almost 30kg myself in a year after I changed diet and lifestyle, and feel way better, not only when I'm in the swinger club and take off my shirt, but in general. But I forgot the everyday beer, eat almost only fish and pure chicken with rice plus fruits and vegetables and work out 3-4 times a week at least. I don't say at all that everyone should do that, I say that some sort of result is possible to reach for everyone, but there is a price for that in terms of hard work and ondiscipline. Now I need to work on my wallet next, as even girls are happy to shag with me in a club or after a date, a man who lives in a shared flat and doesn't have a decent income is not a man in the eyes of women, if it comes to a serious relationship. So, I'm in a similar situation like those big girls, just for another reason. But I don't feel offended, try to work up my level instead. Yes, I agree that he had a poor choice of words, that's true. Best wishes. | |||
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"mum bods = superb real lady with a story to tell and love it when they have a cracking smile too x " As much as I love the fact that different people have different preferences in body types, so everyone can find their true match, I really dislike when someone calls women "real" BECAUSE they have belly, overweight, or anything like that. Of course, they are real, but trust me those who are fit as fuck after 2-3 kids in their late 40s or later are at least as real too. I've met ladies like that, and trust me there were not made by plastic... I don't like the duck-face type at all, and if the boobs are fake, then for me those are the good ones which I can't tell. So I don't talk about "that" type of women. I talk about the real one who works hard for her shape, rather goes for a run at the evening instead of netflix, rather choose the mineral water instead of the red wine/beer every single day and then they (and their partner) enjoy the fruits of this hard work. And I have big respect for them, that is why I don't like if someone suggests that they are "not real"... | |||
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"Jelly belly , Big bum , hips with good size handles and big natural boobs are all amazing. It’s Natural and beautiful , all you larger lady’s out there should be proud of your body’s you are far more attractive and real . " Attraction is subjective, but women of all body shapes are "real". | |||
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"Jelly belly , Big bum , hips with good size handles and big natural boobs are all amazing. It’s Natural and beautiful , all you larger lady’s out there should be proud of your body’s you are far more attractive and real . " Far more attractive and 'real' than what or who? | |||
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"Jelly belly , Big bum , hips with good size handles and big natural boobs are all amazing. It’s Natural and beautiful , all you larger lady’s out there should be proud of your body’s you are far more attractive and real . Far more attractive and 'real' than what or who?" My point exactly! | |||
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"As a member of a large women's group on kik us girls chat all the usual stuff and 'Bellies and Bodies often come up. Most of us females bodies will show a history and Bellies has to be the no 1 dislike (by ourselves) The harsh reality is we have them.. Many of the girls don't like them. I love a Dad bod myself, but wonder what's the real thoughts from a guys view on a Mum Bod. " Love them to bits omg especially if they have stretch marks just to know that they have had created a person inside just drives me crazy | |||
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"I personally love the natural body don't matter if there's a belly or stretch marks I just see these as the real thing no fakes or air brushing. Be proud of Ur body as nature intended. no body is perfect that's what makes us individuals xx "How do you have a “fake belly”? Strap one on? | |||
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"Photo shopping!" It’s actually quite difficult for most people to photo shop their belly without it being very obvious (the background becomes skewed) unless you have professional photo shopping software and major skills (and a lot of time on your hands). So I wouldn’t worry much about that. | |||
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"Big belly lady here x" We love it xxx very sexy | |||
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"As a member of a large women's group on kik us girls chat all the usual stuff and 'Bellies and Bodies often come up. Most of us females bodies will show a history and Bellies has to be the no 1 dislike (by ourselves) The harsh reality is we have them.. Many of the girls don't like them. I love a Dad bod myself, but wonder what's the real thoughts from a guys view on a Mum Bod. " Im a dad bod without the dad lol.. chexk me out if intrested | |||
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"I hate mine. I hide it or try to while having sex and if it's possible and it's dark it's sex with the lights off. I'm 19 years post baby and if I could afford it I'd get a tummy tuck "You are gorgeous and any man would be lucky to have you | |||
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"As a member of a large women's group on kik us girls chat all the usual stuff and 'Bellies and Bodies often come up. Most of us females bodies will show a history and Bellies has to be the no 1 dislike (by ourselves) The harsh reality is we have them.. Many of the girls don't like them. I love a Dad bod myself, but wonder what's the real thoughts from a guys view on a Mum Bod. " Looking at your photos you are just perfect ,, we all have things we dont like about ourselves but as its said beauty is in the eye of the beholder | |||
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"Definitely a mum bod here, big hips, arse, and tummy xx" Love your arse its fucking gorgeous | |||
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"Hate my tummy after being cut open top to bottom ive no muscle there ...." Ok you have a tummy you dont like but you have the face of an angel | |||
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"I have wobbly mummy belly which hangs down " May it hang on my forhead everyday! Amen! | |||
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"I have wobbly mummy belly which hangs down May it hang on my forhead everyday! Amen!" Thanks hun got mummy droopy belly and big gutt | |||
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"I have wobbly mummy belly which hangs down May it hang on my forhead everyday! Amen! Thanks hun got mummy droopy belly and big gutt "Just sit on my face and give me air from time to time and will be ok | |||
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"As a member of a large women's group on kik us girls chat all the usual stuff and 'Bellies and Bodies often come up. Most of us females bodies will show a history and Bellies has to be the no 1 dislike (by ourselves) The harsh reality is we have them.. Many of the girls don't like them. I love a Dad bod myself, but wonder what's the real thoughts from a guys view on a Mum Bod. " I absolutely love my Mrs body,but unfortunately like you say…..she doesn’t. I wish SHE could see the beautiful woman I see,every time I look at her!! | |||
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"I have a huge belly! It's caused by Cushings disease. I hide it in my photos. Almost all my partner's have ignored that part of my body. Some of the most amazing sex I've had was when that most sensitive/shameful part of my body was touched, kissed, even worshipped. I have terrible body dysmorphia as a result of the pressure to look a certain way so pushing against that is something that I crave in my interactions. "This real struck a cord with me ?? | |||
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"As a member of a large women's group on kik us girls chat all the usual stuff and 'Bellies and Bodies often come up. Most of us females bodies will show a history and Bellies has to be the no 1 dislike (by ourselves) The harsh reality is we have them.. Many of the girls don't like them. I love a Dad bod myself, but wonder what's the real thoughts from a guys view on a Mum Bod. " Show me the Mum Tum and expect it to be kissed, massaged, licked and worshipped!! Embrace what you have and don’t ever be afraid to show it off!!  | |||
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"There's hope for me yet then haha" Definitely | |||
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"As a member of a large women's group on kik us girls chat all the usual stuff and 'Bellies and Bodies often come up. Most of us females bodies will show a history and Bellies has to be the no 1 dislike (by ourselves) The harsh reality is we have them.. Many of the girls don't like them. I love a Dad bod myself, but wonder what's the real thoughts from a guys view on a Mum Bod. " Personally I love a mum bod as more to kiss and cuddle. It turns me on loads. Mum bods are sexy | |||
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"As a member of a large women's group on kik us girls chat all the usual stuff and 'Bellies and Bodies often come up. Most of us females bodies will show a history and Bellies has to be the no 1 dislike (by ourselves) The harsh reality is we have them.. Many of the girls don't like them. I love a Dad bod myself, but wonder what's the real thoughts from a guys view on a Mum Bod. " love a mum bod so sexy xx | |||
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"Not a fan, although not a deal breaker, have been with many curvy/obese girls in the past, i personally couldnt be with someone long term who cant seem to gain control of their health. Whether thats through diet or exercising. I personally couldnt allow myself to get a belly, wouldnt be able to look myself in the mirror. Spare a moment if thought for some of us that have issues that 1. Make me unable to have children and 2. Make me a bbw. No amount of exercise or diet help as its a hormone issue. But its great to see you're havung sex women you don't actually like being with. Is the bar really that low? I swear guys I see like this and they are the ones that want a big arse and big tits but forget they are either surgically enhanced or belong to bbws, majority of the time anyway. This isn't build a bitch "I think I may have developed a serious girl crush on your profile  x you're gorgeous x | |||
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"As a member of a large women's group on kik us girls chat all the usual stuff and 'Bellies and Bodies often come up. Most of us females bodies will show a history and Bellies has to be the no 1 dislike (by ourselves) The harsh reality is we have them.. Many of the girls don't like them. I love a Dad bod myself, but wonder what's the real thoughts from a guys view on a Mum Bod. " Once they are comfortable with themselves that's all that matters.. love all types myself | |||
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"More cushion for the pushin' "Plenty to push against here xx | |||
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"I love this thread. I'm a mum of 5 so I defiantly have the mum bod. It's something like the OP said that I despise about my body, my hubby says he loves it and it's refreshing to see that it's quite a popular choice. But unfortunately it's society that puts play to alot of how we feel about our bodies. I personally hate the term BBW because it's categorising us and making us a fetish when we have what ever other woman has just slightly more of it. You never see the term SBW (skinny/slim Beautiful woman) I honestly wish I could have the confidence to stand up compleatly naked and post a picture of that..but I just can't bring myself to do it. " I LOVE your body xx | |||
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Plenty to push against here xx"Such a beautiful shape too x x | |||
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"I don't know one female friend who's had kids who doesnt at least have a 'niggle' about her stomach, myself included x" I’m with you there Miss pc | |||
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