FabSwingers.com forum: How to make my profile more attractive to women?

By *lujiz94 OP Man
over a year ago

Bishop's Stortford

Hi all,

This is for the women on here (be as mean as you like)

What do you like to see on a guy's profile? I've messaged quite a few women on here, and usually I just get read, no reply or a polite no thanks. (I fully recognize I'm not owed a reply, but I would like some help)

What would make my profile more attractive to you?

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By *ickAlotAPuzzMan
over a year ago

Kettering

"Hi all,

This is for the women on here (be as mean as you like)

What would make my profile more attractive to you?"

Alot more substance to the profile.

What you are in too.

What you are looking for.

Some likes and dislikes.

And a little about yourself.

And don't try sell yourself to be something your not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your photo. You in a nice suit would be better

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Get something from the doctor to clear up that blue jizz.

(Bry)

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Hi all,

This is for the women on here (be as mean as you like)

What would make my profile more attractive to you?"

To actually write a decent bio. Some nice pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all,

This is for the women on here (be as mean as you like)

What would make my profile more attractive to you?"

How to make your profile more attractive to women?

Actually have one.

Lady Astor

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

Spend some time looking at other profiles. You will see that most people who are successful have a detailed bio, good pictures and have tailored what they’re looking for to not just include anyone and everyone.

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

"Hi all,

This is for the women on here (be as mean as you like)

What would make my profile more attractive to you?"

Updating and having an attractive profile will NOT get you instance meets.

If you think that you are on the wrong site.

FAB is part of the wider swinging community. You need to be a seen to be active in the community.

Networking and gaining membership trust will go along way to having a fuller experience.

Online and offline interaction. Forums, chat rooms, social events, clubs etc.

Be seen. Be active. Be attractive. Gain trust. Doors open.

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By *andi_kinkygramTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

As others have said you need to have a profile bio that says more about you.

Usually expectations are too high among guys here, given effort invested.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"Hi all,

This is for the women on here (be as mean as you like)

What would make my profile more attractive to you?"

Actually coming back to your post and acknowledging those that have offered help would at least show you have some manners. It's not like you've not logged on to Fab since asking your question....

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More photos! One pic you could be anyone

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Hi all,

This is for the women on here (be as mean as you like)

What would make my profile more attractive to you?

Actually coming back to your post and acknowledging those that have offered help would at least show you have some manners. It's not like you've not logged on to Fab since asking your question....

(Bry)"

Or taken the advice on board. Same old same old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually coming back to your post and acknowledging those that have offered help would at least show you have some manners. It's not like you've not logged on to Fab since asking your question....

(Bry)"

Totally this! I have given up offering help on these types of posts as the OP’s rarely reply or act on the advice they have been given

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By *lujiz94 OP Man
over a year ago

Bishop's Stortford

THanks for the advice guys, I'll update my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"THanks for the advice guys, I'll update my profile"

Cant wait.....

Lady Astor

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

More photos. More text that states what you have to offer - it has to sell you!

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