FabSwingers.com forum: Hello Fab People !

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thought I would introduce myself on the forums.

Feel free to share some of your wisdom and kind words....

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids

"Thought I would introduce myself on the forums.

Feel free to share some of your wisdom and kind words.... "

Our words of wisdom would be to get any results whatsoever you first need to put in some effort.

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By *lex199169Man
over a year ago

tamworth

Just chill it is what it is. A lot of men make it doubly as difficult for the decent ones on here. Like it’s not hard enough standing out in an inbox full of hundreds of fancy a fucks

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Don't just trying and connect with anyone.

Only attempt with those who may have similar interests.

Be patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above.

Read the forum threads - you’ll get some helpful hints and tips.

Avoid sending dick pics in that all important opening message (unless you know the person your messaging has in their profile they’re happy to receive them).

Read a profile.

I dread to think what the ratio of single men to women is on here now. Many single females get an overwhelming volume of messages and it’s tricky to keep up. Bear that in mind if you don’t get a reply.

But enjoy the fab experience and don’t take it too seriously x

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By *omDecMan
over a year ago

morpeth

Hi...be you..well mannered,respectfull,honest,make an effort to sell yourself with a thorough well presented profile ie photos & stuff you seek other friends for etc etc...happy fabbing young un

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm very quickly learning the do's and don'ts of the site.

I have set my expectations quite low so anything more will be a bonus ....

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Welcome!

Beware of any institutions or those pesky newspapers stealing your pictures, oh no need to worry as you are already covered with a disclaimer........

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Disclaimers seem to be a trend. Does anyone even read newspapers anymore.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"Disclaimers seem to be a trend. Does anyone even read newspapers anymore. "

Also look out for Sydney University as we hear they are buggers, stealing pictures and selling them on the Chinese Black Market....

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By *ob08Man
over a year ago

Macclesfield

Leave now bro, run while you still can.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You almost make it sound like it would be 'The great escape'

I only got here. Let me reach a few levels before I run.

Thanks anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I can jump in, also been here a while… so frustrating

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

With all the lovely profile and lots of potential.

I see 'Satisfaction'

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"Thought I would introduce myself on the forums.

Feel free to share some of your wisdom and kind words.... "

Words of wisdom - get rid of the pointless legal stuff at the end of your profile text. It's meaningless, takes up server space and makes you look like a sheep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Words of wisdom - get rid of the pointless legal stuff at the end of your profile text. It's meaningless, takes up server space and makes you look like a sheep

Did someone say sheep ?

Sorry can't help myself, I'm welsh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thought I would introduce myself on the forums.

Feel free to share some of your wisdom and kind words.... "

Best advice I ever read, don't be a cunt.

It's good advice and stands the test of time.

Lose the legal warning.

Winston

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"Did someone say sheep ?

Sorry can't help myself, I'm welsh

Bring a shoulder to roast when you visit

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"Best advice I ever read, don't be a cunt."

^-- This

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Glad it was sheep and not donkey lol

The 'C' word don't like that much so remain respectful.

The disclaimer was a suggestion, to which I made an informed decision to put on profile

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Welcome to the Jungle........

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Feel free to share some of your wisdom "

Shouting is not sexy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It doesn't shout anymore. Feels sexier already

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Thought I would introduce myself on the forums.

Feel free to share some of your wisdom and kind words.... "

In this order...Read the profile, carefully.

Write a respectful, decent message and attach a face picture. Hit send and then forget about it, you'll get a reply or you won't.

In the meantime, join in the forums and check for socials and clubs you can go to.

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Hiya and welcome.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"In the meantime, join in the forums and check for socials and clubs you can go to."

Can I come to your next one?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"In the meantime, join in the forums and check for socials and clubs you can go to.

Can I come to your next one?

Of course! In fact it wouldn't be the same without you

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"In the meantime, join in the forums and check for socials and clubs you can go to.

Can I come to your next one?

Of course! In fact it wouldn't be the same without you

The Winchester one is a bit far for you to come though

but I bet his lordship would love to see you in Nottingham.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What are socials like to attend ?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"What are socials like to attend ? "

Ever been to a pub and chatted to people?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have, not much of a pub goer but I catch your drift.

How many usually attend ?

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"The Winchester one is a bit far for you to come though

but I bet his lordship would love to see you in Nottingham. "

Let's go to (the) Winchester, have a nice cold pint, and wait for this all to blow over.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are socials like to attend ? "

If you like cake, socials are excellent fun.

Lady Astor

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I like cake but my Doctor doesn't like me having any.

spoilsport lol

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Don't fall in love

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"What are socials like to attend ? "

Bit of swingers speed dating for some, for others just that a social.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are you even allowed to use the 'Love' word on Fab ?

Think my hopeless romantic days are over for me.

It never ends well, but then it can't have been 'Love'.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Also look out for Sydney University as we hear they are buggers, stealing pictures and selling them on the Chinese Black Market...."

...and issuing writs for libel!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't fall in love

Dammit! Too late.

I never got the memo.

Lady Astor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello and welcome

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Don't fall in love

Dammit! Too late.

I never got the memo.

Lady Astor"

Well if you are gonna then fall in love with a few (for backup)

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"The Winchester one is a bit far for you to come though

but I bet his lordship would love to see you in Nottingham.

Let's go to (the) Winchester, have a nice cold pint, and wait for this all to blow over.

(Bry)"

I'll bring the cake

The lemon and basil are a fave.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"What are socials like to attend ?

If you like cake, socials are excellent fun.

Lady Astor"

Have you taught him how to bake yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are socials like to attend ?

If you like cake, socials are excellent fun.

Lady Astor

Have you taught him how to bake yet?"

He still tells people his cakes are an old family recipe.

If people got to the social earlier they'd see the old family name on the boxes. Kipling......

Lady Astor

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By *ornyinConwyMan
over a year ago

Conwy

"What are socials like to attend ?

If you like cake, socials are excellent fun.

Lady Astor"

Do they really have cake? Homemade?? Now I'm interested!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are socials like to attend ?

If you like cake, socials are excellent fun.

Lady Astor

Do they really have cake? Homemade?? Now I'm interested!"

We only go to socials where there's cake.

Lady Astor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are socials like to attend ?

If you like cake, socials are excellent fun.

Lady Astor

Have you taught him how to bake yet?

He still tells people his cakes are an old family recipe.

If people got to the social earlier they'd see the old family name on the boxes. Kipling......

Lady Astor"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thought I would introduce myself on the forums.

Feel free to share some of your wisdom and kind words.... "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Nothing kinder than sharing a smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just chill it is what it is. A lot of men make it doubly as difficult for the decent ones on here. Like it’s not hard enough standing out in an inbox full of hundreds of fancy a fucks"

Agreed. Be natural. If they like you. You will know about it!

Of silence. Leave them well alone.

Next please!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys.

Noting all this good advice

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London

"Do they really have cake? Homemade?? Now I'm interested!"

Yes they do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm sure I can manage a cheeky slice of cake

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