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Socials, meets, clubs and all the above

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey all,

Pretty new to this site, attempting to navigate the best way to meet.

Personally I’m 10000% better communicating in person. My body sells the words which come out of my mouth, however it seems (could be covid related) but people treat a social as me trying to get a quick leg over

So my question(s) would be, do socials work? Am I flogging a dead horse with this. Should I be aiming for clubs?

Feel like going straight for a meet is too hard too quick :/

Thanks in advance

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I mostly go to clubs. Outside of that deffinately a social first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeh I think clubs may be the best way for me to get that face 2 face conversation going. But I feel a social has that intimate vibe as opposed to talking to someone at a club but eyeballing someone else that’s walking past hahaha

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Yeh I think clubs may be the best way for me to get that face 2 face conversation going. But I feel a social has that intimate vibe as opposed to talking to someone at a club but eyeballing someone else that’s walking past hahaha"

A social in a club isn’t really a good idea. Talk to people yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely get to a couple of socials! Great icebreakers and you can talk with no-one swinging past and distracting you (or them)..

Then you can maybe organise a meet up or get to a club!

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks average, that’s good advice. Almost what I’m already aiming for!

Wish me luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks average, that’s good advice. Almost what I’m already aiming for!

Wish me luck "

As Ms Blue stated, a Social not at a Club is best! Quite a few coming up soon. Then a Meet or Club (Amigos in Leicester is a great first club!)

But good luck

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