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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am I that bad noone will get to know me .. couple or female

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford

Well, someone did- you have a veri for meeting in person. That's much better than a lot of men on here.

Your profile needs a lot of work though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I need to improve the profile i know

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Am I that bad noone will get to know me .. couple or female"

Your profile is not great at all. You need to sort out your photos and bio first

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Am I that bad noone will get to know me .. couple or female"

It's very hard for anyone to be motivated by a silhouette avatar, a seventeen word profile, and a dick pic.

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids


"Am I that bad noone will get to know me .. couple or female"

A cock photo and one sentence.

Very attractive.

You asked!!

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids


"I need to improve the profile i know "

You have been on here over a year.

Why haven’t you done it already? ?

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford


"I need to improve the profile i know

You have been on here over a year.

Why haven’t you done it already? ?"

Covid?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its covid as feel no one will meet.. ??

New ish to this so just asking for guidance

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

To be honest COVID is a reason not to meet, but it is not a reason to not write a profile. If you couldn't be bothered too, then fair enough, but COVID cannot be used as an excuse not to press keys on a keyboard.

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there


"Its covid as feel no one will meet.. ??

New ish to this so just asking for guidance "

Oh fella - I’m not normally one to criticise, but wow, there is nothing there at all! How are you selling yourself?

You have 10 seconds maximum to make an impression and get someone to delve deeper! There are some great male profiles around, take some inspiration!

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids


"To be honest COVID is a reason not to meet, but it is not a reason to not write a profile. If you couldn't be bothered too, then fair enough, but COVID cannot be used as an excuse not to press keys on a keyboard."

Absolutely spot on .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s no way you can have a profile like this and wonder why no one wants to talk to you, you’ve put absolutely zero effort into it. It gives the impression you don’t have anything interesting to say so chatting with you would be boring and implies that you don’t consider the needs or desires of other people because if you did you’d realise that they need and desire to see more effort being put into a profile to be interested, which indicates you’d be a terrible, selfish lover.

Your profile is the equivalent of seeing someone in a bar that you like the look of, clicking your fingers in their direction and expecting them to come running over to sit next to you.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Your bio says been here a while and then your new!!

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

I have the same problem tried changing bio but just get abuse

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

I'm sure you are a nice guy but on the strength of your profile I wouldn't reply to you

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

We can't be bothered to reply to people who can't be bothered to come up with a proper profile. It's not rocket science.

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

I’m not sure if you’ve added to your description since posting this? But I don’t think it’s too bad, it’s longer than a lot of others and doesn’t say ‘will fill in later’ still after a year! For me I wonder if the key point is you say you are a little shy! Do you think that comes across when you message? Does it stop you from really selling yourself on your profile? An avatar and more pics may help who knows! Great to see you have a had a meet though, that’s got to give you some confidence on here? Miss pc

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

Basic marketing - make something look interesting/appealing/relevant/inviting and people will respond.

"Hey, I'm a guy and here/randy/desperate, come and meet me for sex" and the endless variations thereof don't work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well who wants to deal with someone not able to interact or present himself. A lot of work to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no matter how good your profile is you'll still be faced with your number one problem .... the sheer number of you

but your profile is not good as is most others but only you know you people cant advise when they have no clue as to who you are ... you joined the site for a reason so theres your profile why are you here .....

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"Well, someone did- you have a veri for meeting in person. That's much better than a lot of men on here.

Your profile needs a lot of work though. "

yes, work on the profile, totally agree x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a forum here for the best things to put in your profile or the best photos to put up ?

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford

I've mentioned this eleswhere. Go visit some male profiles and see which one makes you think:

That's a great photo collection

The profile text is well thought out

I'm straight and I want to be like that.

Then think how you can apply that to yours.

Women love clothes, eyes, bums even SMILES and lots of them, they generally hate cock pics and need to be seduce with wit, a sense of fun and danger.

Just ask yourself, "apart from my cock what else can I offer?"

For me it's my magic fingers: they can even put the kettle on....Bonus!

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By *nblemishedhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Warwick

Possibly one of the worst on here. Is that dick picture supposed to entice women / couple's to reply to any measage you send ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I that bad noone will get to know me .. couple or female"

Your pity party won’t help !!!

Not been rude mate but we see these threads every day !!!!

Didn’t look at your profile but your not getting any attention with no profile picture !!!

A pot plant would probably get you more attention

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Am I that bad noone will get to know me .. couple or female

Your pity party won’t help !!!

Not been rude mate but we see these threads every day !!!!

Didn’t look at your profile but your not getting any attention with no profile picture !!!

A pot plant would probably get you more attention "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I that bad noone will get to know me .. couple or female

Your pity party won’t help !!!

Not been rude mate but we see these threads every day !!!!

Didn’t look at your profile but your not getting any attention with no profile picture !!!

A pot plant would probably get you more attention

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Your either a plant pot enthusiast or you think I was a tad harsh ???

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