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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The 'wooden leg' issue, referred to by Eric Bern? . 'If it wasn't for my wooden leg, I'd be able to...'
Didn't you post some time ago about issues getting meets and people gave suggestions? Some mentioned the cartoon face pic that you have, didn't they, I think I recall.
There are many reasons single men struggle to get meets, which includes the sheer volume of them and how they conduct themselves
They don't get replies because they don't meet the stringent requirements of others, they are not attractive to them etc or even due to not having a verification.
People can cam freely in fab chatrooms, so expecting them to leave the site to do it for your benefit, suggests that you may misunderstand the importance of it and maybe have slightly unrealistic expectations here for others' engagement with you
If you go into the chat rooms and be friendly, ask nicely and someone may help you. Otherwise, I encourage you to visit clubs, where many people will help you out. It's not a key to endless, successful message replies. Your expectations here may still benefit from a rethink, so that you remain focused on what efforts you'll need to invest, whilst there are no guarantees of anything. "
Hey. Thanks for your suggestions.
To clarify a couple point;
I am not saying if I am verified I would get laid immediately. I have been rejected multiple times since I dont have verification. Wrong analogy I guess.
What about my cartoon face? I like it, I am keeping it. Some people like it, the others dont.
The other issue, I have already tried chatrooms but it didnt work for me. I offered google meet which you can be anonymous, and easy to use; it is better than skype or anything I guess. Also, I specified that if you have an option, I would like to hear. Therefore, I dont want anyone to do something for my benefit, I am saying that I would do whatever they would suggest.
I dont like clubs. Thank you for the suggestion again but they are not for me.
These are things I would like to point. Thanks anyway. |
