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By *weetandHung OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Hi everyone thanks for reading just looking for a bit of genuine advice.

Been on here quite some time now, but finding it very difficult to connect with ladies or couples.

I know there is a lot of men snd it’s like fighting a needle in a haystack, but I’m wondering whether my profile actually stands out.

I’m a polite friendly guy maybe too friendly for fab, I’m very well mannered, just not getting any responses.

Any advice will be appreciated, no abuse though please

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Well I'd say you've been doing ok given by your meets bio looks good have you tried connecting with your old meets for a social

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By *weetandHung OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"Well I'd say you've been doing ok given by your meets bio looks good have you tried connecting with your old meets for a social"

Thanks mate for being honest.

I have tried reconnecting but not interested in me anymore such a shame though

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford

Looks like you have made effort in the past and, by lack of any veris past 2019, decided that was enough, no more effort needed. Clubs have already been open for a little while, and socials are restarting, too.

Your profile is very informative and most of it is clear, but there are some small parts where a little bit of rewrite might be needed.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Well I'd say you've been doing ok given by your meets bio looks good have you tried connecting with your old meets for a social

Thanks mate for being honest.

I have tried reconnecting but not interested in me anymore such a shame though "

Welcome pal

You could add more pictures smartly dressed as you've got few then try using the meet section for a social it might catch someone's attention.

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By *weetandHung OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"Looks like you have made effort in the past and, by lack of any veris past 2019, decided that was enough, no more effort needed. Clubs have already been open for a little while, and socials are restarting, too.

Your profile is very informative and most of it is clear, but there are some small parts where a little bit of rewrite might be needed. "

Which bit would you suggest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are quite a few grammatical errors in your bio, I always feel like I’m being harsh on someone when I point out grammatical errors, and also think it makes me look like a bit of a dick for doing it, but I’m just giving you the feedback you’ve asked for and I never pick someone up on errors otherwise.

It would be interesting to know whether women actually care if there are errors in a bio and if it has any influence over whether they decide to reply or not.

Anyway, I’d be happy to go into more detail and list the errors if you want me to?

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By *weetandHung OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"There are quite a few grammatical errors in your bio, I always feel like I’m being harsh on someone when I point out grammatical errors, and also think it makes me look like a bit of a dick for doing it, but I’m just giving you the feedback you’ve asked for and I never pick someone up on errors otherwise.

It would be interesting to know whether women actually care if there are errors in a bio and if it has any influence over whether they decide to reply or not.

Anyway, I’d be happy to go into more detail and list the errors if you want me to?"

Please

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford


"Looks like you have made effort in the past and, by lack of any veris past 2019, decided that was enough, no more effort needed. Clubs have already been open for a little while, and socials are restarting, too.

Your profile is very informative and most of it is clear, but there are some small parts where a little bit of rewrite might be needed.

Which bit would you suggest"

Look towards the end of your profile, starting with "I'm like being the dominator".

As another poster has stated, there are some grammar mistakes (sorry, former ESOL teacher), particularly with the use of "there/they're/their".

Try smoothing it out a little bit.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Your dick pic is not very flattering. I would try go to clubs again. Club sx is now club play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your dick pic is not very flattering. I would try go to clubs again. Club sx is now club play"

Agree with this and when you click on your photos it’s the first photo to show so put me off looking at the others

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Definitely get rid of the first pic. A dick pic is okay in a profile but yours isn't very flattering and it shouldn't be the first pic

All your paragraphs begin with an "I" which gives the impression that it's all about you and not what you can offer someone else.

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We are not looking for single men but hope you don't mind me posting? As others have said get rid of the dick pic or set it to friends only,there are some spelling mistakes that do catch the eye but if we were looking and you did message us then we would reply as you do look and seem a genuine guy.

k

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By *weetandHung OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Changed a few things around now, thankyou everybody for the advice much appreciated.

Hope my profile seems a lot better now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are quite a few grammatical errors in your bio, I always feel like I’m being harsh on someone when I point out grammatical errors, and also think it makes me look like a bit of a dick for doing it, but I’m just giving you the feedback you’ve asked for and I never pick someone up on errors otherwise.

It would be interesting to know whether women actually care if there are errors in a bio and if it has any influence over whether they decide to reply or not.

Anyway, I’d be happy to go into more detail and list the errors if you want me to?

Please"

I’ve sent you a private message listing them

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