FabSwingers.com forum: Curious

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What is the best way to start a conversation messaging on here with out saying hello how are you doing today

By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Read the person's profile and Taylor your message to it, maybe refer to something in it.

By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Read the person's profile and Taylor your message to it, maybe refer to something in it. "

This ^^

Pay them a compliment

By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Only message profiles if you meet their preferences (both the tick boxes and what they've written). Tell them how you match their preferences and how they match yours, basically provide context for your message but don't write an essay.

There are other things that work like telling them something that is intriguing about you, or something that might make them laugh or that you can bond over.

One size doesn't fit all but a lot of people put effort into their profile and the last thing they want is for it to be ignored.