Fab greeting in vanilla scenarios

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all, apologies if this has been covered before but I always wondered if there was a generally accepted greeting when out and about to subtly indicate you’re a fabber/swinger? Not quite the magic Freemason handshake

but something that only a fellow likeminded person could pick up on?

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

When I am out and about, I would rather people not tried to indicate in any way they saw me on a swingers site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I only meant a subtle mention not a “hey I know you from fab!”.

I didn’t mean if someone recognises you as I’d also hope for discretion, but if meeting someone and you have an inkling and having something to say that suggests you’re on the scene

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By *rthur WrightusMan
over a year ago

Round the Bend

Trying to get 'pampas grass' into the conversation quite early on could be an option

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Lots of people say "Have a Fab weekend"! Most probably aren't Swingers, but some.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes something like this which is subtle but obvious if you’re in the know

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If there is I'm oblivious to it. All those people winking, tapping the side of their nose and saying "the pampas grows in the garden of one who knows" just think I'm daft.

I think it's one of those things where discretion is key. Judge each situation on its merits and if you think they might be swingers just say that you are, they can choose then

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