FabSwingers.com forum: Opening Message

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not sure if this is the right place but I'm hoping to get some advice from the women and couples fron this site.

What's a good opening message?

I've read profiles that say "be creative and don't just say hi." and in my head I think saying hi and asking how the other person is, is polite but what do I know.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t rely on meeting peopleo from this website

Go out to clubs and meet peopleo

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not sure if this is the right place but I'm hoping to get some advice from the women and couples fron this site.

What's a good opening message?

I've read profiles that say "be creative and don't just say hi." and in my head I think saying hi and asking how the other person is, is polite but what do I know."

Go to the club's and some of the organised swingers social events . It's a great way to make new friends that can easily turn into potential meets.

You could call it networking

Be polite and respectful at all times and I'm sure you will be fine on here .

By *inkyeroticaCouple
over a year ago

Ampthill

As someone who ran a single profile for a long time before becoming a couple, there is no magic formula, just common sense.

Read the profile! Do you match what they are looking for? Are you within a realistic distance?

Be polite in your message, but say more than “Hi” or equally banal openers. Introduce yourself, say why you might fit for them, and what drew you to their profile in the first instance. Show that you’ve read it!

Include a face photo. Unless the profile expressly requests it, do not send cock photos!

Engage as you would in real life… respect, manners, courtesy, etiquette go a long way, won’t damage your chances, and enables you to stand out for positive reasons.

It’s a numbers game! You need to be patient, stick at it, and send a lot of messages. A no reply is a no, move on. If you get a “no thank you” then just accept it.