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By *GoodTimeMan1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Altrincham

Been on here a year or so and some fun chats / meets. But any advice on what can my make my profile more attractive?

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Been on here a year or so and some fun chats / meets. But any advice on what can my make my profile more attractive? "

Have you considered writing more than eleven words on your profile?

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By *GoodTimeMan1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Altrincham

Consider it done!

But any suggestions would be more than welcome

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Have you ever considered browsing the site for suggestions other bio then if you see something that fits around you in ideas.

Not copy and paste but worded it differently

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By *w5kerriTV/TS
over a year ago

SIN BIN CITY

Veris. If you’ve had a couple of meets why don’t you at least have a verification summary? I don’t even bother communicating with those who don’t anymore because they generally bottle it

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By *GoodTimeMan1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Altrincham

Well I live and learn! Probably should of asked for a verification, but that was the last thing on my mind ?? but thank you all for the advice much appreciated

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Their has been many others asking the same question. so you could check the forum for previous posts/threads which also has advice.

Good luck

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By *iscreet UnicornWoman
over a year ago

Windsor-ish


"Well I live and learn! Probably should of asked for a verification, but that was the last thing on my mind ?? but thank you all for the advice much appreciated "

Your profile is great now

Well done for taking the advice offered xx

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By *GoodTimeMan1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Altrincham

Well if I don't learn from past mistakes that would make me the biggest looser. Plus there is no shame in asking for advice

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I did say it wouldn't be a good idea to copy and paste but that's entirely your choice just hope that it fits around you as a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need better photos

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By *iscreet UnicornWoman
over a year ago

Windsor-ish


"Well if I don't learn from past mistakes that would make me the biggest looser. Plus there is no shame in asking for advice "

Absolutely agree xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here a year or so and some fun chats / meets. But any advice on what can my make my profile more attractive? "

Have you thought about deleting it?

Lol

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"You need better photos"

This

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes definitely better photos. Maybe don't use the word "lad". You seem to have random commas scattered throughout your profile.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Add pics that give a very clear understanding for the viewers of just how you look. You say you mainly want a single person but I can't see most people really wanting to consider that with anyone, when they have almost no clue about how you look. People will generally not rush to ask someone for pics, just incase they may be the 1 who looks more suitable than the dozens of profiles that have messaged them, who do have high grade photos.

Your profile doesn't say much other than that you want 1 person, including for visiting clubs. That doesn't sell you, it just puts a requirement out there.

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By *GoodTimeMan1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Altrincham

Thanks for all the advice I shall be getting some better pictures! Not much of a photo taken but I'll see what I can do!

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I agree re pictures.

Your profile text is hard to read because of the punctuation and the first proper sentence doesn’t make sense. It might sound picky but lots of people are put off by a badly written profile so it’s worth you giving it your attention.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

You have been here more than a year and your profile says you are just getting round to sorting it out. That would put me off.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"You have been here more than a year and your profile says you are just getting round to sorting it out. That would put me off. "

Agreed.

OP, telling people that in over a year you haven't bothered to do something you should have done on joining doesn't make a great first impression.

Whilst it's nice to see more than eleven words on your profile today, there still seems more you could add. In fact in some parts of your profile it's as if there are words missing!

Consider reading each line out load exactly as it is written on the screen and it will help you to work out the punctation and missing words better.

At present it looks like a list of bullet points, some of which are the same opoint spread over two lines. Consider expanding them so you don't just have throw away lines of text.

For example 'I’m very open minded and willing to try most things, with the right person' might read well to you. But I would want to know what your experience is and what you are willing to try, but I wouldn't be tempted to write to you as the line leaves me with the impression that you don't really know what you want.

I echo the sentiments of others in regards to your photo. Just one is seldom going to satisfy the curiosity of others. Especially as it doesn't show anything more than you stood in an unironed swaeter. Next time it's a nice day get outside and take soem nice selfies in some local parks or landmarks.

Above all, don't just rely solely on your profile. Use the forums and chatrooms to make a connection on site with people, and if your feeling brave then why not sign up to local socials or other events.

Good luck OP

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By *GoodTimeMan1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Altrincham

Again thank you for all your comments and advice it's much appreciated

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By *layTogetherCouple
over a year ago

Hull

You need verification. They actually mean a lot so get out to clubs and socials. I’m often put off from ppm who aren’t veried.

Your messages need to gain interest so “do you want a mmf tonight” isn’t going to cut it. Make it interesting at least. Good luck to you, happy fabbing

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By *uriouspezalaMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Hi all. Really pissed off with this site. Been on and off for well over a year now. Spoke to a few people but don't know what I'm doing wrong? I'm legit and can easily prove that. 90% of people never reply and I always open a message respectfully. Never sent a dick pic yet no one replies...

Am I that vulgar and not your cup of tea? I don't get it ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all. Really pissed off with this site. Been on and off for well over a year now. Spoke to a few people but don't know what I'm doing wrong? I'm legit and can easily prove that. 90% of people never reply and I always open a message respectfully. Never sent a dick pic yet no one replies...

Am I that vulgar and not your cup of tea? I don't get it ?? "

Scrap the PM’s and hit the threads and you’ll meet lots of people

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley

Say you have dollar to spend some find that attractive they may be shallow but only you know that.

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Look at me thread

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There


"Hi all. Really pissed off with this site. Been on and off for well over a year now. Spoke to a few people but don't know what I'm doing wrong? I'm legit and can easily prove that. 90% of people never reply and I always open a message respectfully. Never sent a dick pic yet no one replies...

Am I that vulgar and not your cup of tea? I don't get it ?? "

If you want profile advice you need to start your own thread.

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By *GoodTimeMan1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Altrincham

Head advice from other people, take note and improve your profile

I've already got more people viewing my profile from the advice above.

Can't wait to get some new photos added and a few verifications from previous meets

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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago

Princess Risborough

Happy for anybody to pm me with how to improve my profile

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

A few more photos

& a bit more about yourself on your bio, it's all a bit I want (a regular meet, to try a club, someone to take me to a club) which makes you sound like you'd be hard work & nothing about what you can offer someone/a couple

I've never understood the need to be accompanied on a first club visit, if I can go alone, anyone can, going with someone you don't really know could potentially lead to lots of awkward situations

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