FabSwingers.com forum: No meets

By *ustforfun49 OP Man
over a year ago

chesterfield

No one wants to meet me is there something wrong with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We really do need a face palm emoji.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one wants to meet me is there something wrong with me. "

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met one person in 2 years. People are incredible picky. I’m an easy going guy with many interests, can hold up a decent convo but because I won’t display a public photo and can’t accommodate I’m clearly a cheating untrustworthy man. I gave up caring a long time ago. Plus woman probably get 100s messages a day. If I get one reply a week I’m lucky haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you looking for women ? .. if so I’d say your veris could be a put off ...

plus no one wants to meet me so ..

hey ho on we go !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one wants to meet me is there something wrong with me. "

Give it another day or 2 and you'll have fanny hanging off ya like a cheap suit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one wants to meet me is there something wrong with me.

Give it another day or 2 and you'll have fanny hanging off ya like a cheap suit!

Reckon he’d wear it well ..

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"No one wants to meet me is there something wrong with me. "

Well, erm. it probably means that you are not who they are looking for or else they are looking for someone different. Or it could also mean that there aren't enough right men to go around and all the right ones have been snapped up by the available matches!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having taken a quick look at your profile I've come to the conclusion that you haven't updated it in a, well, ever frankly.

You've been on here over a year but still have a line about being 'bew to the scene'

If I've noticed it, others will notice it. You might not think it matters but you have to think about the message you're giving off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep getting blocked by people, so there must be something wrong with me

Perhaps the people here who click me can tell me why....

Yep I can be passive aggressive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I keep getting blocked by people, so there must be something wrong with me

Perhaps the people here who click me can tell me why....

Yep I can be passive aggressive.

Your profile is private so we cant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I keep getting blocked by people, so there must be something wrong with me

Perhaps the people here who click me can tell me why....

Yep I can be passive aggressive.

Reveal your profile and be all you can be...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I keep getting blocked by people, so there must be something wrong with me

Perhaps the people here who click me can tell me why....

Yep I can be passive aggressive.

Your profile is private so we cant"

I meant perhaps the person who has blocked me could tell me why.

I don't see the point in blocking people unless they've been nasty to you, but that's just me.

Hiding my profile is for the best right now.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I keep getting blocked by people, so there must be something wrong with me

Perhaps the people here who click me can tell me why....

Yep I can be passive aggressive.

Your profile is private so we cant

I meant perhaps the person who has blocked me could tell me why.

I don't see the point in blocking people unless they've been nasty to you, but that's just me.

Hiding my profile is for the best right now. "

It’s just a tool. Don’t take it personally. I block loads and it’s never personal. Could be all sorts of reasons. Live too close etc xx

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Nothing wrong with you mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I keep getting blocked by people, so there must be something wrong with me

Perhaps the people here who click me can tell me why....

Yep I can be passive aggressive.

Your profile is private so we cant

I meant perhaps the person who has blocked me could tell me why.

I don't see the point in blocking people unless they've been nasty to you, but that's just me.

Hiding my profile is for the best right now.

It’s just a tool. Don’t take it personally. I block loads and it’s never personal. Could be all sorts of reasons. Live too close etc xx"

Your such a sexy blocker though Nora...

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I keep getting blocked by people, so there must be something wrong with me

Perhaps the people here who click me can tell me why....

Yep I can be passive aggressive.

Your profile is private so we cant

I meant perhaps the person who has blocked me could tell me why.

I don't see the point in blocking people unless they've been nasty to you, but that's just me.

Hiding my profile is for the best right now.

It’s just a tool. Don’t take it personally. I block loads and it’s never personal. Could be all sorts of reasons. Live too close etc xx

Your such a sexy blocker though Nora...

Haha thanks

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"No one wants to meet me is there something wrong with me. "

My first question would be.

Would you say things are back to normal for you.

And would you think it has for people who may fit your criteria.

As I see the pandemic isn't completely over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one wants to meet me is there something wrong with me. "

Haven't nor will I look at your profile but no it isn't you, there's many reasons why single man aren't successful on Fab, alas the main one been the dreaded ratio.

Just keep trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with you, get yourself out there! Clubs and socials are on if you want to meet other swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not even met Tmontana1 ... and he is hot AF!

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By *ustforfun49 OP Man
over a year ago

chesterfield

"Nothing wrong with you, get yourself out there! Clubs and socials are on if you want to meet other swingers

Someone on here as said I should delete my pics of me flexing biceps because I've not got any do you think I should do that.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Learn how to bake Brownies and post on the forums you have done it, soon have them eating out of your hand

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"Nothing wrong with you, get yourself out there! Clubs and socials are on if you want to meet other swingers

Someone on here as said I should delete my pics of me flexing biceps because I've not got any do you think I should do that. "
biceps popping, ignore them

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By *ustforfun49 OP Man
over a year ago

chesterfield

"Nothing wrong with you, get yourself out there! Clubs and socials are on if you want to meet other swingers

Someone on here as said I should delete my pics of me flexing biceps because I've not got any do you think I should do that. biceps popping, ignore them

Do really think they are popping.

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"Nothing wrong with you, get yourself out there! Clubs and socials are on if you want to meet other swingers

Someone on here as said I should delete my pics of me flexing biceps because I've not got any do you think I should do that. biceps popping, ignore them

Do really think they are popping. "
put it this way I wouldn't want to arm wrestle you

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

Tell females etc you have always cake for them or will buy cake they want for meet . Then females will be queuing up to meet

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By *ustforfun49 OP Man
over a year ago

chesterfield

"Nothing wrong with you, get yourself out there! Clubs and socials are on if you want to meet other swingers

Someone on here as said I should delete my pics of me flexing biceps because I've not got any do you think I should do that. biceps popping, ignore them

Do really think they are popping. put it this way I wouldn't want to arm wrestle you "

Oh ok thanks I will put one as my profile pic and let's see if others agree with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's got biceps. ^

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

There are various threads on how to improve your profile and how to communicate with individuals to establish a network of swinging friends.

A quick search in the forums and the site FAQs will get you all the information you need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one wants to meet me is there something wrong with me. "

Think more positive. Just asking this question and the way you've phrased it is quite honestly a massive turnoff. Makes you sound more 14 than 49.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, some of what I am about to say may come across as mean, but is said with the best of intentions

Your profile is one amongst tens of thousands single bloke profiles

Nothing in it makes you stand out

Balance that against the last 12 months with people either not meeting or only meeting existing contacts

You come across as very needy and in need of the affirmation of others - threads about your body and your biceps

It's very unsexy

It will make many run a mile

You need to love yourself and find confidence in yourself, not from others

What you seek is very unlikely to be forthcoming from a group of random strangers on the internet

As others have said, there's probably nothing wrong with you, what's wrong is the expectations you have and, when those aren't met, how you look inwards for the answers as opposed to looking at the environment in which you hope to have your expectations met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing wrong with you, get yourself out there! Clubs and socials are on if you want to meet other swingers

Someone on here as said I should delete my pics of me flexing biceps because I've not got any do you think I should do that. biceps popping, ignore them

Do really think they are popping. put it this way I wouldn't want to arm wrestle you

Oh ok thanks I will put one as my profile pic and let's see if others agree with you. "

You'll get pulled over carrying those guns

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"No one wants to meet me is there something wrong with me. "

Depends on what you're looking for. If you're after women then many are put off by honest bi-curious men, plus, you've two veris from the same bloke for wanking on cam. Not a great advert.

If you're looking for men then yes, there must be something wrong with you, as most guys looking for cock aren't particularly fussy who it's attached to.

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

"No one wants to meet me is there something wrong with me. "

Maybe not OP but cliches in profiles can indicate immaturity and faces covered by phones won't help women decide to reply to messages . You are creating your own hurdles to getting meets .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree with those who say you being bi or having veris from men is a turn-off. For me it's a bonus because it increases the possibilities that we could explore together.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"I disagree with those who say you being bi or having veris from men is a turn-off. For me it's a bonus because it increases the possibilities that we could explore together. "

Hope you have plenty of spare time today to deal with the exploding postbag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I disagree with those who say you being bi or having veris from men is a turn-off. For me it's a bonus because it increases the possibilities that we could explore together.

Hope you have plenty of spare time today to deal with the exploding postbag!"

PMSL I am the queen of Filters

I tease and leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can be as picky as they like on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different strokes for different blokes ... everyone has an opinion....

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's normal. Standard fab experience for single men during normal times and exaggerated by the pandemic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one wants to meet me is there something wrong with me. "

Apart from the fact that you're an adult asking that question in an online forum?

Get a grip man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I keep getting blocked by people, so there must be something wrong with me

Perhaps the people here who click me can tell me why....

Yep I can be passive aggressive.

Or of course you have chosen to hide your profile lol

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