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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have had a few ladies on here ask me to pay money before a meet. They say it's for their safety. A few say let's go halfs on hotel. Send me half. These are people I never met before. I understand and respect ladies need to feel safe.

Any advice please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Don’t do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t do it! They shouldn’t be asking for money, report them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you. I'm not saying everyone is scamming but it doesn't seem right to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don’t do it! They shouldn’t be asking for money, report them! "

How do you report someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had a few ladies on here ask me to pay money before a meet. They say it's for their safety. A few say let's go halfs on hotel. Send me half. These are people I never met before. I understand and respect ladies need to feel safe.

Any advice please"

How can money make them feel safe...that's a little fked up.

A guy I know received a first msg this morn & she just said... "My visa is running out. Can you pay for me to renew it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t do it! They shouldn’t be asking for money, report them!

How do you report someone? "

Click on their profile and in your menu you have at the bottom report

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don’t do it! They shouldn’t be asking for money, report them!

How do you report someone?

Click on their profile and in your menu you have at the bottom report"

Thank you so much

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village


"I have had a few ladies on here ask me to pay money before a meet. They say it's for their safety. A few say let's go halfs on hotel. Send me half. These are people I never met before. I understand and respect ladies need to feel safe.

Any advice please"

Steer well clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is not an escort advertising website lol, just report their profile

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"I have had a few ladies on here ask me to pay money before a meet. They say it's for their safety. A few say let's go halfs on hotel. Send me half. These are people I never met before. I understand and respect ladies need to feel safe.

Any advice please"

It is a little worrying that you feel the need to ask advice from complete strangers whether you should give money to complete strangers

In all seriousness, you should be savvy enough to know not to give money away to people you do not know.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Playing devils advocate here

I kind of understand asking for contribution of hotel costs as there are so many no shows, so if someone was prepared to pay half in advance I'd have more confidence they were genuine

But I'd ask for copy of the receipt, proof that they've paid upfront & it's not something they can cancel last minute, therefore scamming you

I'd also say if they are an old account, verifications & photos over a number of years it's likely to be people tired of being caught out themselves & trying to cover their back with the hotel costs, I've been done myself paid for hotel was happy to pay for it myself arranged to meet 3 guys over 2 days all cancelled from a few days before to 10 minutes before

I'll never offer to cover the hotel costs myself upfront again

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford


"I have had a few ladies on here ask me to pay money before a meet. They say it's for their safety. A few say let's go halfs on hotel. Send me half. These are people I never met before. I understand and respect ladies need to feel safe.

Any advice please

It is a little worrying that you feel the need to ask advice from complete strangers whether you should give money to complete strangers

In all seriousness, you should be savvy enough to know not to give money away to people you do not know."

Unfortunately, as there is, potentially, sex on the cards, upper brain stops working and lower brain takes over

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