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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm classed as a curvy woman and am still self conscientious of my wobbly bits while i'm trying to lose weight. What do people prefer curvy or slim?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy

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By *unny!Woman
over a year ago

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I would say curvy is more descriptive of someone’s shape as opposed to their size; a lady can be slim and curvy. Equally, a larger lady isn’t always necessarily curvy.

I personally don’t have a preference. I think different women carry their size and shape differently.

Either way, I think it’s safe to say that vast majority of women are self conscious about parts of their body - slim, plus-size, curvy, no curves, athletic, petite, tall, short - we all have hang-ups and always will.

Well done on losing weight; just do you and forget what other people prefer…you’ll never please everyone, nor should we have to. Your body tells a story, embrace and love it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say curvy is more descriptive of someone’s shape as opposed to their size; a lady can be slim and curvy. Equally, a larger lady isn’t always necessarily curvy.

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Almost all woman are curvy, as it is a figure, a shape not a size.

A fairer questiom would be Bbw v athletic or if we were going by the scales used by the GPs, medical assessments it would be women in the overweight and / or obsese categories vs women in normal body weight / BMI range.

I've met women who would be classes as normal BMI figure, healthy weight with the most incredible hour glass figure and curves.

I've posted this in the hopes it stops this becoming a BBW love in at the expense of gym, fit, slim, normal bmi weight women. All women of all shapes and sizes are beautiful and have their admirers.

KJ

KJ

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"I'm classed as a curvy woman and am still self conscientious of my wobbly bits while i'm trying to lose weight. What do people prefer curvy or slim?"
Don't worry what people prefer, be you... as long as you like you.. nothing else matters.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Generally we are attracted to chunkier people. However who we end up with in bed tends to depends more on them as a person and the chemistry between us all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely curvy all day long , nothing sexier than a lady with real curves of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality and enthusiasm please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm classed as a curvy woman and am still self conscientious of my wobbly bits while i'm trying to lose weight. What do people prefer curvy or slim?"

Curvy size of smile, and slim talk i would prefer

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By *ovelaughliveCouple
over a year ago

Oldham

I'm only just beginning to embrace my curves and wobbly bits and not try and cover up like I used to in front of others. I'm experiencing the wonderful world of swinging with my hubby and I know my body turns him on so what does it matter if others don't like it, they obviously aren't for us x

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By *M1712Man
over a year ago

bude

Absolutely love curvy women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slim or athletic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only just beginning to embrace my curves and wobbly bits and not try and cover up like I used to in front of others. I'm experiencing the wonderful world of swinging with my hubby and I know my body turns him on so what does it matter if others don't like it, they obviously aren't for us x"

Absolutely, pleasing everyone, that's impossible, making angry, piece of cake

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By *endydick.CumbersnatchMan
over a year ago

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Slim and athletic.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Curvy (and more) for me - not to say there's anything wrong with any others but we can't all like the same things, as it would all get kinda dull

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By *ecretescapeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Curvy for me

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By *ire76Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

As long as your comfortable with your body then personally I don't mind. Hate it when someone goes oh I don't like this or I need bigger that. If you love your body then I love your body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A curvy woman’s Pussy can feel much tighter than a slim one

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By *WkinkymaleMan
over a year ago

Llandudno - Colwyn bay

I don't have a preference if we click we click regardless of body shape. I've had some great times with both curvy and slim people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal preference is curvy, but if at a club and we click just go for it with either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either! but I prefer curvy - more cushion for pushing lol. Its great when a curvy woman just lets her hang ups go and be the scintillating sensual sexual woman she is. My missus refers to certain bits about her body she dislikes- so I hold her and caress her in those places whist we make love or fuck.

Woman have such pressure on them to look like this or that, diet, be everything to everyone.

Its all adverts and media that make you girls look at your bodys negatively. Ignore all the airbrushed digitally manipulated images of models an celebs.my missus says "learn to love yourself for who you are" and "If a person puts you down because of your looks, they're just projecting their own insecurities on to you and not seeing the great person that you are"

Just my humble opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy all day long can't do twigs and all skin and bone

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

Slim every time

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By *reampie Cleaner 69Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

Curvy all day for me and twice on a Sunday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy for me.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

We are talking about the initial attraction? I like curves. After that it's all about personality and a spark.

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By *lassy_but_sassyWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

All women are gorgeous, whether they are curvy or slim.

Personally I like curves. I like a similar body shape to mine, big boobs, slimmer waist and big booty, but I also very much appreciate slim women with boobs and butt too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately I see this question been asked a lot more and it’s down to what people see as acceptable and not what makes them happy initial attraction and a smile curves or no curves After all your personality will shine through,ladies your all gorgeous, whether curvy or slim.

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester


"I would say curvy is more descriptive of someone’s shape as opposed to their size; a lady can be slim and curvy. Equally, a larger lady isn’t always necessarily curvy.

Almost all woman are curvy, as it is a figure, a shape not a size.

A fairer questiom would be Bbw v athletic or if we were going by the scales used by the GPs, medical assessments it would be women in the overweight and / or obsese categories vs women in normal body weight / BMI range.

I've met women who would be classes as normal BMI figure, healthy weight with the most incredible hour glass figure and curves.

I've posted this in the hopes it stops this becoming a BBW love in at the expense of gym, fit, slim, normal bmi weight women. All women of all shapes and sizes are beautiful and have their admirers.

KJ

KJ"

One only has to look at the Top Fabbed photos to see that slim women, (or ‘normal’, as you call them), are not in any way disadvantaged on Fab!

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester


"A curvy woman’s Pussy can feel much tighter than a slim one "

This is something people seldom realise. When I got slim, I was told I needed a larger diaphragm (contraceptive ‘cap’). We put on weight internally, too, it seems!

I knew there had to be one small benefit to being fatter. Yay!

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"Curvy all day long can't do twigs and all skin and bone "

Not sure why people think it's acceptable to say derogatory things about one set of people in order to praise another.

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By *inBleuMan
over a year ago

Sunny Yorkshire

I just luuurve feminine curvaceousness, irrespective actual of body size

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By *oldie_locks33Woman
over a year ago

Durham

I’m just fat

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

We don’t have a type as long as there friendly and we all have fun that’s all that matters to us.

Mrs

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

I think the definition of curvy has changed over the years. Curvy used to mean an hour glass shape. Today it means many things to different people. I have seen people call themselves fabulous who are actually quite small in size and stature.

I prefer to get to know someone, irrespective of how they see themselves, but in answer to the op, I like curvy but in the hourglass way, I also like slim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm classed as a curvy woman and am still self conscientious of my wobbly bits while i'm trying to lose weight. What do people prefer curvy or slim? Don't worry what people prefer, be you... as long as you like you.. nothing else matters."

Wise words

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By *tag and curvey HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

herts

Personally I like curvy. I like some wobbly bits. Love a tummy and juicy bum. (Mr)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope to god some people like curvy otherwise I won't be getting any fun lol

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Curvy and slim as long there's connection , chemestry and atraction and they have good personality . Sexy smiles , captivating eyes and nice face to be added too

This morning driving home my mind couldn't stop saying , AB you definitely match all the boxes

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By *ilky_CocoPuffsCouple
over a year ago

Luton


"I'm classed as a curvy woman and am still self conscientious of my wobbly bits while i'm trying to lose weight. What do people prefer curvy or slim?"

We prefer curvy but most important we just want people to feel comfortable with who they are. Body positivity is important to us.

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By *ilky_CocoPuffsCouple
over a year ago

Luton


"Generally we are attracted to chunkier people. However who we end up with in bed tends to depends more on them as a person and the chemistry between us all."

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say curvy is more descriptive of someone’s shape as opposed to their size; a lady can be slim and curvy. Equally, a larger lady isn’t always necessarily curvy.

I personally don’t have a preference. I think different women carry their size and shape differently.

Either way, I think it’s safe to say that vast majority of women are self conscious about parts of their body - slim, plus-size, curvy, no curves, athletic, petite, tall, short - we all have hang-ups and always will.

Well done on losing weight; just do you and forget what other people prefer…you’ll never please everyone, nor should we have to. Your body tells a story, embrace and love it xx"

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By *oe8logsMan
over a year ago

reading

Curvy with wobbly bits for me , so sexy , the mere mention of a gym fit body is a turn off for me always has been x

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Either (or rather, all). I always say "sexy isn't a shape". I find some people attractive, some not, some irresistible, and it has little to do with their dress size.

Just don't ask me what sexy is. It's something to do with attitude and confidence and being comfortable with yourself, but that's not exactly it. I know it when I see it.

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I like a sexy, sensual woman, with an erotic mind and a and a slightly kinky, sexual nature.....

When a woman feel sexy she looks sexy..... and when she explicitly wants you in an erotic way it's hard not to find her incredibly desirable whatever shape of body she has.... Seduce my mind and I'll lust after you curvy, or petite lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy or slim- it doesn’t really matter so long as you’re comfortable being you. To me the sexiest women are those that say “fuck it, this is me, warts and all”

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By *rnyashellcplCouple
over a year ago

Haydock

Curvy is always best

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By *alty surpriseMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

My preference is curvy, no idea why, but that's my attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, curvy or slim as long as there a connection and I think as someone already said comfortable enough in their own skin to let there hair down xx

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By *r and Mrs A HornyCouple
over a year ago

coventry

For us it more the people not curvy or slim. If there sexy and fun it doesn’t matter xx

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By *pslad99Man
over a year ago

colchester

Curvy defo I Wana feel a woman

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By *nookytimeMan
over a year ago

portlaoise

For me a curvy woman holds huge character and charisma. Life is a place now driven by social media that can be unkind to the curvaceous woman at times. We are given surroundings to present ourselves in, and if we don't fit the bill in ppl eyes so be it. Be happy in your skin and live your life to the max..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have that crazy sexual chemistry I don’t think it matters because everything is a turn on

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By *oyRoy06Man
over a year ago

leighton buzzard

I personally think you're body is wonderful the way you are.

I am a firm believer that body shape shouldn't shape a persons opinion of another as much as it seems to in current society.

As cliche as it may sound, it it the person inside that counts. We all have much more to offer the world around us than just our bodies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally think you're body is wonderful the way you are.

I am a firm believer that body shape shouldn't shape a persons opinion of another as much as it seems to in current society.

As cliche as it may sound, it it the person inside that counts. We all have much more to offer the world around us than just our bodies."
. Your totally right. Unfortunately there are many morons who are narrow minded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slim or athletic are my favourite body types. I wouldn't touch anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All women are gorgeous, whether they are curvy or slim.

Personally I like curves. I like a similar body shape to mine, big boobs, slimmer waist and big booty, but I also very much appreciate slim women with boobs and butt too!"
and your by far one of the most beautiful ladies on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t matter to me; it’s the person that counts. Enjoying each others company makes for better sex IMO .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer curves on a woman, big booty and big boobs but attitude, confidence and enthusiasm are quite important as well. As long as you are happy and confident with your shape that’s all that matters, be proud with what you have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy all the way, bigger ladies rule!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy everytime!!

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm classed as a curvy woman and am still self conscientious of my wobbly bits while i'm trying to lose weight. What do people prefer curvy or slim?"

Curvy every time. I'll say the same to you as a compete stranger as I do to my family, lose weight for yourself only if that's what you want not to please anyone else. Be yourself, happy with who and what you are, I'm sure people who meet you on here will be happy, I know I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know not the modern thing to say so tin hat on…….. but I love slim, extra skinny, size 6/8….opposite of me really!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% I'm attracted to the person. I've met curvy ladies and slim but the main thing is I got along with them 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm classed as a curvy woman and am still self conscientious of my wobbly bits while i'm trying to lose weight. What do people prefer curvy or slim?"
. Myself I prefer curves then skinny again just what I like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy all day long

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

On the slimmer side would be my preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we love a curvy woman x I am also curvy with hour glass figure x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are gorgeous lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm classed as a curvy woman and am still self conscientious of my wobbly bits while i'm trying to lose weight. What do people prefer curvy or slim?"

Curvy all the damn way!!!

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Any port during a storm!

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By *teve48ukMan
over a year ago

Ware

Have absolutely no preference! It’s the person that makes the difference, connection is key!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy 100%

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By *oe8logsMan
over a year ago

reading

Got to be curvy nothing sexy about a bag of bones

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By *aidtobespankedCouple
over a year ago

Chester

I enjoy Lucy's curves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy, 100%

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

You can still be slim and curvy. Curvy is more the shape than the size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy isn't a size... Plenty of slim curvy women about... I don't prefer either... I don't have a body type preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slim with curves are also great but some are simply anorexic, like fucking a skeleton .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love all body types,everyone of them is unique and fun in there own way and I love to explore

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By *lldaybreakfastMan
over a year ago

leeds

Curvy for me all day long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the comments aimed at the slim….”skeletons” or “bags of bones” are a little unfair!

There are people who are simply naturally skinny and petite.

We hear enough about fat shaming etc but it should work both ways.

Just my opinion xx

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By *oldupsnheelsCouple
over a year ago

bideford

How do YOU feel happy?

Ultimately its your body and you have to live with it. There will always be a taste for who ever you choose to be or become xx

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By *limfitladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Curvy.

But I'll try anything once. ??

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By *r naughty1Man
over a year ago

Bexley

Curvy or not doesn't matter to me. Just prefer them to be confident in what they've got.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy to me is from size 12-24

Then I’d still say any bigger is still curvy but maybe a bbw

Slim woman are still lovely in own right but we just don’t find them sexually fancy

If u get me

Curvy gal here size 16/18

Xxxxx love Lou xxxxxxX

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge

If asked this question a few years ago I would definitely say slimmer. 8 to 12 max, maybe 14 at a push. Now I'm more wide (no pun intended) ranging and appreciate the female form in all its shapes and sizes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every body is a beautiful body! All that counts is that you're happy and confident in yourself! I'm a size 18 myself and I used to HATE not being slim like i used to be. But the guys I have met here have proved I am still sexy, and they come back for more! It's done wonders for my confidence...which makes me sexier

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Some of the comments aimed at the slim….”skeletons” or “bags of bones” are a little unfair!

There are people who are simply naturally skinny and petite.

We hear enough about fat shaming etc but it should work both ways.

Just my opinion xx"

My personal opinion is that it should work both ways I agree but it doesn't. Body shaming is reprehensible for whatever reason. If the boot was on the other foot this thread would be alright with people complaining

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

*alight

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By *ajandkatCouple
over a year ago

oldbury

I believe Kat is both slim and curvy

Best of both worlds for me

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By *ihusband84Man
over a year ago

SHEERNESS

Curvy and bbw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm classed as a curvy woman and am still self conscientious of my wobbly bits while i'm trying to lose weight. What do people prefer curvy or slim?"

Both are sexy in different ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely curvy for me

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