FabSwingers.com forum: Best way to get verified

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all,

I have been on the site before many years ago as part of a couple. I have joined again as a single male just looking for something casual but regular. After 3 years of being mostly single I miss the connection of being with someone. I’m not ready yet for a full blown relationship but also don’t want hook ups or something casual as friendship is important to me in any sexual encounters.

Issue is I had forgotten how many fake accounts were on fab and how difficult it can be to become verified (was not easy as a couple, drowning in the sea of single males though is even tougher!)

With so many of you lovely single (and some not so single) ladies getting message spammed on an hourly basis I have made sure I am photo verified and have face pictures on my profile. I would like to get verified so it’s apparent I’m fairly normal and not an axe murder. Any advice from you lovely fabbers on the best way to get that first verification?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Can you contact anyone you met when you were a couple and ask them to reverify you ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can you contact anyone you met when you were a couple and ask them to reverify you ? "

The old profile was deleted years ago and my memories not good enough to remember usernames that far back lol I keep racking my brains on that one though as we met a few couples and I met some interesting people at one of the local meets who verified us. It’s over 10 years ago though so not sure how good a verification from someone who met me 19 years ago would be ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgive me if I'm missing something, but if you've been on fab before surely you know what you need to do to get verified. i.e. Meet with a verified member.

Also, as a former fab user, you'll no doubt be aware that single men have a far harder job securing meets that will have been your experience as part of a couple

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

Join a club or organised socials. Make friends 1st!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Forgive me if I'm missing something, but if you've been on fab before surely you know what you need to do to get verified. i.e. Meet with a verified member.

Also, as a former fab user, you'll no doubt be aware that single men have a far harder job securing meets that will have been your experience as part of a couple"

Thanks for replying, don’t think you are missing anything.

It’s definitely harder as a single guy, it’s been about 10 years since I was here as part of a couple and yes I kind of know what to do but was just trying to get advice on the best way to go about things now I’m a singleton.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Join a club or organised socials. Make friends 1st!"

Yes, as things open up a bit more I will definitely keep my eyes open for some local socials, that’s a good idea that I hadn’t really thought about

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