FabSwingers.com forum: Should I set up my wife with another woman

By *unlunguy OP Man
over a year ago

17510 FRANCE

My wife watches films that generally have woman on woman action in , not porn, but erotica.

She has mentioned in the past she wishes she had tried with another woman.

If I set her up do you think women would keep the secret? I don’t want to be part of it just let her enjoy feminine love . Your thoughts would be appreciated

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Who do you think women are going to tell?

Why would you set her up? Wouldn't it be better to tell her you are OK with her seeing women and letting her make her own approaches?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m assuming your wife is an adult with a brain? Don’t make decisions for someone else’s life and sexuality. Start a conversation with her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you actually got this partner !

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

This is a bad idea op,

Certainly encourage her of she mentions it's something she wants to do, but don't force anything on her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tell her good choice in porn films she watches would love see that 1 day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife watches films that generally have woman on woman action in , not porn, but erotica.

She has mentioned in the past she wishes she had tried with another woman.

If I set her up do you think women would keep the secret? I don’t want to be part of it just let her enjoy feminine love . Your thoughts would be appreciated "

Have you discussed FAB with her and your single profile and the need to meet couples. Maybe that's a good place to start the conversation.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I dont think any woman on fab would be up for it anyway. Sounds dodgy

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"I dont think any woman on fab would be up for it anyway. Sounds dodgy"

Dosent it just.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If I set her up do you think women would keep the secret? "

Just don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear, this sounds like another post from someone that is unable to separate the fiction of porn from the reality of life.

Answer: No, don’t be stupid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thoughts are that this could backfire massively OP.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

You're not going to find a woman who isn't going to think that she's going to turn up for a meet with your wife, only to find that your wife's had to shoot out on an emergency, but "would she mind shagging, anyway?"

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By *eviant_domMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

OP this is a bad idea.

Firstly other (bi) women are not fantasy or kink dispensers, so you can't just set her up with anyone.

Secondly, they are people and will have to be attracted to her. If you are doing this for her, then it seems that she isn't confident to interact with others to have that conversation.

So this can put off some bi women, as it means they would be doing all the work.

If she wants it, then it's about being open and honest that this is her first experience, and she is a little unsure/shy but is interested.

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

"My wife watches films that generally have woman on woman action in , not porn, but erotica.

She has mentioned in the past she wishes she had tried with another woman.

If I set her up do you think women would keep the secret? I don’t want to be part of it just let her enjoy feminine love . Your thoughts would be appreciated "

add her on here so she can sort it for herself

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

Does she know you're bisexual too?

Why not suggest watching some bi mmff porn together and see if she likes it, then tell her you'd like to try that one day and see how she responds

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By *ust ScarletCouple
over a year ago

Reading

Discuss it a lot and make it clear what it is you both want. We talked it to death and researched/carefully picked lady that was 100% understanding and told us what she wanted, it sounds clinical but you get it wrong, there’s no going back. For us by doing this it was an amazing experience.

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By *ouple 71Couple
over a year ago

Stonehaven

She’s an independent person who I’m sure can make her own choices. I find the attitude that you would set her up pretty poor to be honest.

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Can't see another woman going for that to be honest could be a very awkward situation if your wife doesn't go for it things need to happen naturally my wife used to have regular sex with a woman who lives next door only lockdown stopped it but it happened naturally it can't be forced tell her it's a fantasy see how she reacts

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By *itsAndTangentsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Think this one belongs in the stories and fantasies section op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you actually got this partner !"

Well said. I think it's a fantasy of the op if he had a partner. Something just does not add up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you actually got this partner !

Well said. I think it's a fantasy of the op if he had a partner. Something just does not add up. "

Yep, he's on here as a single male, no mention of a partner on his profile.

Can't help thinking this might be some sort of ploy to try and get a meet with a lady.

If, on the other hand, this partner does actually exist, maybe he should show her his single profile and that essentially he'll shag anyone and everyone and I'm sure she'll be up for playing with other ladies.

Just not with him around

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