FabSwingers.com forum: Total noob and closet bi

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Really dont know what to do...could do with a considerate couple to help me? Any advice greatly received.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Help you in what way?

You really need to be a little more forthcoming, both here and on your profile.

None of us are psychic and nobody is going to message you to ask what it is you're looking for - there are plenty of others who make that sort of information readily available

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

"Really dont know what to do...could do with a considerate couple to help me? Any advice greatly received."

You describe yourself as married and trapped.

How are you trapped? ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Trapped, because of commitments with kids etc. Cold relationship scenario

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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago

rochdale oldham border

What’s a noob? I e googled it and nothing coming up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trapped, because of commitments with kids etc. Cold relationship scenario"

Then leave... staying for kids will only make you more resentful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should arrange some discreet meets

Dip your toe

That's what I did

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Really dont know what to do...could do with a considerate couple to help me? Any advice greatly received."

Very few people want to spend what little spare time they have, with someone who’s a complete beginner.

I get loads of messages from guys who’ve never been with another guy, want to try something new. But why should I ?

It takes two hours to get ready (even longer when you have to do a full body shave) an inexperienced guy is more likely to let you down than an experienced ‘admirer’. Even if they turn up, after they’ve finished and the guilt turns up they’ll either dart out of the door or even in some cases, get violent. Blame you for their feelings over what they’ve just done.

This isn’t to put you off, there can be people in the scene that’ll guide and help you. But it could be a bit of a search that’s all. Try clubs and socials, turn up in person and get to know people

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By *entlemanDMan
over a year ago

Fareham

"Trapped, because of commitments with kids etc. Cold relationship scenario"

So you're looking to cheat then. My advice would be to try couple's counselling or work up the courage to leave, your kids will appreciate it more.

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

"Really dont know what to do...could do with a considerate couple to help me? Any advice greatly received."

You say in your profile that there is no point in lying.

We take it your wife knows about this??

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"What’s a noob? I e googled it and nothing coming up lol "

Newbie = New

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Trapped, because of commitments with kids etc. Cold relationship scenario"

Cheating, if your wife doesn't know about this, is only going to add to your misery.

I would suggest getting some professional help for the sake of your family.

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