FabSwingers.com forum: Essex Newbie

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey all, thought it was about time i joined the forum! Finding this all very interesting and addictive! Based in Essex and keen to see what its about. Life’s too short so made the jump to join Fab. So far been interesting but would love to know what to expect and if meeting someone whats the etiquette?

By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

As far as the forum is coping just jump in both feet but don't take anything too seriosly or it will do your head in.

As far as meets are concerned just get clarification from the person you are meeting as what their expectations are and respect those. Some want a social with no touching as all, others will expect some snogging. Others yet may want to move on immediately to a full on meet if the chemistry is there. As with everything in life but even more so here its communication, communication, communication.

By *orkshire_roses999Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

Welcome to the forums

Laid back place to sit and chill

Meets:

Look at what they want.no point in winking and winking and repeated messages if they don’t

reply.you might not be what they are looking for….

Look at what you want….are they/he/she what you want?

Meetings

Socials are always a good one.you get to meet people. It’s a laid back place unless you become pushy….pushiness=desperate= turn off!

No expectations of play….if you expect nothing and get more-BONUS!!!

Hope this helps