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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello all I'm Marc new to this site, been on a couple of others in the past and found they just have lots of messers or fakes! I'm just a normal guy that's looking for some really naughty times but allways seem to find a dead end.

Is this site worth the time and effort?

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Yes it is.

I've been on other sites and this one is defintely better with lots of genuine swingers.

There are plenty of num-nut timewasters too but if you're savvy you can sort the wheat from the chaff.

Be patient and enjoy.

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I don't think you can find any other site like this. Yes some time waster and fakers. But plenty of nice and geniune people. And the fun is real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think you can find any other site like this. Yes some time waster and fakers. But plenty of nice and geniune people. And the fun is real"

Well can u show me where they are because I've been on here for over a year and had only 2 meets one of which was short notice and didn't even have time to enjoy myself all I seem to find on here are abusive people and timewasters!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a good site but ultimately you only get out as much as you put in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a good site but ultimately you only get out as much as you put in."

Well I'm polite respectful, don't consider myself pushy and hopefully my profile is good too so where are us geniune single guys going wrong?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a good site but ultimately you only get out as much as you put in.

Well I'm polite respectful, don't consider myself pushy and hopefully my profile is good too so where are us geniune single guys going wrong? "

I don't think all single guys are really 'going wrong'. Granted the decent ones sometimes do suffer because of the plonkers, but such as life, it's always the majority who suffer on account of the minority - sad but true.

Apart from that, it's a numbers game - there are so many single guys compared to the other members on site, and I'm sure that's the same on all sites, the single guys are in abundance and greatly outnumber the other members, so if you like, it's a bit of a buyers market.

We've met quite a few decent single guys from this site and I'm sure we'll continue to do so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tried two more sites before this, and didn't think much to them, then joined fabs and got on very well...we think the site is worth it.

We have met/talked to, not just play btw, with some lovely genuine people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had lots more meets from here.

It also helps that it covers a wider area so more people.

The forums are great and many a bad day (you know the ones that if it can it will go wrong)i've gone into them and had a laugh and it's kicked a better day off.

To the gent who's saying you dont get many meets get in the forums and make yourself known.

It makes a lot of difference.

As when people search you wont always be at the front.

I know myself i only look at a few pages xx

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By *iketotrynewpeopleCouple
over a year ago

meath


"It's a good site but ultimately you only get out as much as you put in.

Well I'm polite respectful, don't consider myself pushy and hopefully my profile is good too so where are us geniune single guys going wrong? "

its a numbers game. we might only meet 2 single guys a year.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It seems hard to not be just judged by how other single guys have been or acted

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

As others have said i think its a mixed bag and you get out of the site the effort you put into your profile and mails for contact.

Try going to a few of the Fab Socials.

Good luck and hope you enjoy Fab.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"It seems hard to not be just judged by how other single guys have been or acted "

I think up to a point it is for you to make yourself stand out.... blaming others is too easy,

so be proactive.... get yourself known on the forums for example, or in the chatroom.....

go to clubs.... or to socials.... show that you are different from other people and you will find that a lot of doors will open for you....

let me give you an example... I show my face at the newcastle socials... only normally for an hour or 2.... but from all the guys in the NE, then about 30-40 single guys put their names down saying they are going to turn up... then when the night comes around they all drop out or no show, and it turns up being a handful of people....

now... the fact that I turn up when I said I would shows reliability, I can chat with these people and get to know them, and those people may then say... ooh liked him, or if they have a party "oooh lets invite him"...

you have shown yourself in a different and positive light....

people are very quick to say "oh woe is me" but you do get out what you put in.... the site gives you the tools to make it work (where do you think social was advertised?.... where do you think the clubs were advertised? ect ect ect.....)

you use as many or as little of the tools as you wish... but in the end that is up to you......

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"I don't think you can find any other site like this. Yes some time waster and fakers. But plenty of nice and geniune people. And the fun is real

Well can u show me where they are because I've been on here for over a year and had only 2 meets one of which was short notice and didn't even have time to enjoy myself all I seem to find on here are abusive people and timewasters!! "

You think I will tell you where they are? Hahahahahahahaha. I am sure you haven't been lucky. That's all. True some people are so rude that you ask yourself if they are on the right site with their request and giving little

Just hang around and you will get some

If it doesn't work you get back to the easiest way: clubbing

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I don't think you can find any other site like this. Yes some time waster and fakers. But plenty of nice and geniune people. And the fun is real

Well can u show me where they are because I've been on here for over a year and had only 2 meets one of which was short notice and didn't even have time to enjoy myself all I seem to find on here are abusive people and timewasters!! "

i bet that if you said you had 2 meets in the year, you would still be doing a lot better than a lot of people....

again a lot of it comes back to the tools the site give you to better yourself and your chances.... lets me use "you" as an example...

not everyone uses every part of the site... some use the forums and socials to help in their picking process....

so you have used the forums in the last 4 hrs more than you has used them in the past year.... and good for you! but before that those people who use soely those parts of the site wouldn't have known you at all....

now i'll use "me" as an example... a tale of two chatrooms... I pop my head into the scottish chatroom from time to time and did so to the extent I was fairly well known... so people would say hello, and that lead to me trying out scottish socials (a blast!!) and meeting loads of people....

but if I was to step into the "northern chatroom" I would be an absolute beginner again... I wouldn't know the people other than the ones I cross by on the forums... I would have to get myself known again....

see... put the effort in, reap the rewards.. I use as may or as little of the tools the site gives me and would have varying results depending on that....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello all I'm Marc new to this site, been on a couple of others in the past and found they just have lots of messers or fakes! I'm just a normal guy that's looking for some really naughty times but allways seem to find a dead end.

Is this site worth the time and effort?

"

Why not make an effort (because you havent) and find out?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok cool the advice is much appreciated and I'm trying to put the effort it, I'm abit wary of putting my face pic on here partly because of my job and my life out side things like this as some of its in public eye, i do send on request tho. I'm a normal guy that works at the end of the day I just desire naughty things. I'd be interested in the socials and clubs but If I'm honest I'm a little scared of going alone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on xmatch before this site and i shagged my way through the sexy people gained loads of experiance, that site got boring so joined here and boooooom its freeking awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stickyvivky, interesting new profile...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"stickyvivky, interesting new profile... "

Why are you rolling your eyes ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems hard to not be just judged by how other single guys have been or acted

I think up to a point it is for you to make yourself stand out.... blaming others is too easy,

so be proactive.... get yourself known on the forums for example, or in the chatroom.....

go to clubs.... or to socials.... show that you are different from other people and you will find that a lot of doors will open for you....

let me give you an example... I show my face at the newcastle socials... only normally for an hour or 2.... but from all the guys in the NE, then about 30-40 single guys put their names down saying they are going to turn up... then when the night comes around they all drop out or no show, and it turns up being a handful of people....

now... the fact that I turn up when I said I would shows reliability, I can chat with these people and get to know them, and those people may then say... ooh liked him, or if they have a party "oooh lets invite him"...

you have shown yourself in a different and positive light....

people are very quick to say "oh woe is me" but you do get out what you put in.... the site gives you the tools to make it work (where do you think social was advertised?.... where do you think the clubs were advertised? ect ect ect.....)

you use as many or as little of the tools as you wish... but in the end that is up to you......"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello there Mercedes62 which of the socials would you suggest in the northants area? I try'd to pm you but I'm out the age range to

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Sent you a pm

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By *agicfingerslovelyMan
over a year ago

Rugby


"stickyvivky, interesting new profile...

Why are you rolling your eyes ???"

Looks very ok, so why the eyes? Have you been told?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"stickyvivky, interesting new profile...

Why are you rolling your eyes ???"

Yes why rolling the eyes, are you referring to our new profile?

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By *B07Man
over a year ago

Essex


"It's a good site but ultimately you only get out as much as you put in."

Totally agree with that.

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By *aughtyNurse999Woman
over a year ago

Fabville !!!

All sites have there timewasters.just have to them out and YES this site must be good I have been on since it started and have also made many lifelong friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guys, you need more photos and not just dick ones. Gorgeous single black guys need to move further south! And always open the emailing with something that explains who you are, what you want, and how patient you are. If you say "9 inches, want a fuck?" You move directly to the block list, simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't normally post in the forums but see no end of chat and comment about how difficult it is for single guys.

I think you've got to be honest, be yourself, judge each situation on its own merits and tailor approach to suit.

I was quite scepticle when i first came on here but have chatted with loads of great people, had plenty of meets and doubt very much that I could have done any better than I have, given the fact that there are only so many hours in a day and days in the week.

It is FAB on here, just wish I'd been aware of this site sooner.

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