FabSwingers.com forum: Single Guys

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is it so hard for single guys on this site ?

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Because there are so many of them, and their profiles are usually shit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok so what makes a good profile were all here for the same thing ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because there are so many of them, and their profiles are usually shit. "

true, funny, but true

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

true, funny, but true

aren't u on my side then ? anyone can put anything in a profile but like I said were all here for the same thing ? u wont know if u click or want to fuck a person from a profile ???

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I don;t purely go on profiles, some of the most eloquent profiles on here have the most boring people behind them.

However, telling me you are easy (most guys are), and you are looking for fun (again most of us are) tells me nothing about you at all.

I don't know if you are submissive, dominant, looking for a one off or a string of encounters. I don't know what type of sex you like, or whether you are happy to meet for a drink first.

What you put in your profile is up to you. But don't be complaining when after a week no one is knocking your door down to meet, when all you state is the bloody obvious.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

There are too many single guys on site,a lot of them time waisters just getting kicks,I was on here first as a single guy but managed to talk wife into playing,we are very careful now when it comes to single guys,we now go for guys rrccomended by other couples,guys we meet in clubs,if we meet guy on site we chat cam chat,if she really like them then I will meet them,if they seem fine then,will meet for social drink,and let wife take it from there ,butwe don't bring single guys home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"true, funny, but true

aren't u on my side then ? anyone can put anything in a profile but like I said were all here for the same thing ? u wont know if u click or want to fuck a person from a profile ???"

it's not about taking sides

the lady had a valid point

contrary to popular belief this site is not full of people who will shag someone purely because they have a profile and they can see what the profile owner looks like.

a profile that shows what you are looking for, says a bit about you and your circumstances and experience, demonstrates a sense of humour or has something that makes you stand out will generally get you further than just an odd line and a couple of pics

ladies and MF couples by far and large can have the pick of the bunch, so why settle for less than the pick ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

who said I was complaining again I was stating the obvious that was all and if u liked the look of someone why not just ask them what they like or if they'd meet for a drink first

And by easy I meant easy going ie easy to get along with I have standards to

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Why should I bother asking, when plenty of people have it on their profiles?

People use profiles to find out if a person is worth getting to know. It is a fact of life on this site, get over it.

If a shop has boarded up windows, I'm not going to go in and ask them what they sell when the shop next door is all pretty and inviting. Same principal applies.

You wanted to know why it is so difficult for single guys to get meets, my original post still stands. There are so many of them, and their profiles are usually shit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"true, funny, but true

aren't u on my side then ? anyone can put anything in a profile but like I said were all here for the same thing ? u wont know if u click or want to fuck a person from a profile ???"

that sort of expectancy attitude also costs people meets as well as shit profiles

everyone is not here for the same thing - even if they were it still would never, ever be a case of ok were close to each other lets fuck lol

and of course you can get a good idea if you want to fuck someone from the first impressions of the profile

might not mean you deffos are going to fuck them, but you can get an intial yes or no in your head and then start off conversation and see how things develop

maybe things would be different if it was a site of prostites but these are every day people, would you just expect to get away texting someone random the same lines of text and pictures and expect a response? even if it was someone who sleeps around alot? nope ya wudnt

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Why is it so hard for single guys on this site ?

can i ask what you were expecting since you have only been here for 1 week.....

just because swingers like sex, it doesn't make it a free for all with all and sundry!

the 3 things I say to anyone is, time patience and general common sense...

so is 1 week giving it "time" or showing and "patience"....... really????

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

No matter how hard you try some will like you and some won't like you

Yes we can find maybe 100 single guys for every woman here. That give the ladies more power. But for some of them to play the diva it just don't work

They are some really nice ladies here who will take the time to know your personality and go with you

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Well, I see the OP has really taken to heart all the constructive advice he was given and has decided accordingly!

Poor devil, he couldn't stand it all and has left!

Who's next for our "advice"?

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Why is it so hard for single guys on this site ?

can i ask what you were expecting since you have only been here for 1 week....."

Insta-shag probably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we're all here for the same thing"

I love that statement. I'm always tempted to reply and ask if they are also into being sodomised by dildos fired broadside from HMS Enterprize while the crew of the battleship Yamato film a bukaki scene on them?

(not my thing in reality, but I really wanna see what they say)

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Oh, was I too harsh??? Ooops!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh, was I too harsh??? Ooops!!!"

I don't think you were harsh

I think maybe the op was over-tired

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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

"Why is it so hard for single guys on this site ?

can i ask what you were expecting since you have only been here for 1 week.....

just because swingers like sex, it doesn't make it a free for all with all and sundry!

the 3 things I say to anyone is, time patience and general common sense...

so is 1 week giving it "time" or showing and "patience"....... really????"

Great advice, however, I like to look at things sensibly. You ask what he was expecting... I maybe wrong, but I joined the site seeking sex. The bonus of meeting nice, welcoming people is just that; a bonus.

You have only been here a week, and will quickly notice that there is a division of people who prefer the social element of swinging and others who prefer the physical element. Find those who seek the same as you and begin your own network.

I am yet to meet the single guy who has the 'secret' of endless meets. So find your own pleasures and enjoy

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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

"Well, I see the OP has really taken to heart all the constructive advice he was given and has decided accordingly!

Poor devil, he couldn't stand it all and has left!

Who's next for our "advice"?

I know that this was said in humour, but I really don't like to see people leave through circumstances like that. Sorry but I wouldn't want that type of advice on offer.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Well, I see the OP has really taken to heart all the constructive advice he was given and has decided accordingly!

Poor devil, he couldn't stand it all and has left!

Who's next for our "advice"?

That sounds and looks so flippant , a great way to welcome newbies I must say.

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By *HornymasseurMan
over a year ago

He was just after a quick fix. Probably not the kind we want on here anyway ruining it for the decent and patient single males.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

So a man asks for advice and you say he is ruining it for single men?

His posts didn't give that much away other than he thought asking for meets is the way to get meets....errmmmm it seems to me that is what everyone does.

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By *thlete0Couple
over a year ago

southend

"Because there are so many of them, and their profiles are usually shit. "

Ha ha classic !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've bin on here a wile and have spoke to some fantastic people although nothing ever goes any further? I'm not a sex mad person just really want to explore more. Would anyone say I am to young? Im not complaining, more shocked that it is quite difficult as a single male to be "selected" I suppose is the word id use?

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