FabSwingers.com forum: Varification

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all, so I'm struggling a little on here, I'm getting a few replies saying basically come back when I'm varified, OK great, how can I get varified of nobody will neet/cam an unvarified member, if anyone can help or make suggestions it would be much appreciated thanks

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Unfortunately for you you will need to make a bit of effort.

You can either make minimal effort and go on cam chat and ask someone there if they'd be so kind, or you could make a reasonable amount of effort and head to an organised social or club.

They're the easiest and most reliable ways and you'll not feel like you're banging your head against a brick wall via messages.

The site is best used a tool to keep in touch with events and people you meet at said events. It ain't some magic cock docking rubbing lamp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dick pics dont do it, maybe some better pcs might help, i would ignore you because of your profile pic, hope you take that in the right way, swingers arent just looking for a cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm tryna get verified too but pandemic is about to end so hopefully should be easier

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thbak for your feedback I will take that onboard, thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Pop into the chat rooms with your cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet you posted in a public forum

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Hi all, so I'm struggling a little on here, I'm getting a few replies saying basically come back when I'm varified, OK great, how can I get varified of nobody will neet/cam an unvarified member, if anyone can help or make suggestions it would be much appreciated thanks "

Soft let down will be something else if you where verified..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pop into the chat rooms with your cam

Honestly didn't think of that, thank you

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

Best thing to do is first off ignore the trolls on here!

2nd wait till restrictions are lifted go to a few organised social events.. grow you friends circle fist.

Good luck op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm of the thoughts that it'll happen when and if it happens

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Best thing to do is first off ignore the trolls on here!

2nd wait till restrictions are lifted go to a few organised social events.. grow you friends circle fist.

Good luck op "

Thank you much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not easy on here being a single dude, plus covid has made it harder

Get inviting forums and talk to people in them lose the dick pic for sure or make it for friends

And just roll with it, trust me it’s not easy but work at it

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

If you were on fab before, could someone you've chatted to or met not verify you?.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s not easy on here being a single dude, plus covid has made it harder

Get inviting forums and talk to people in them lose the dick pic for sure or make it for friends

And just roll with it, trust me it’s not easy but work at it "

Cheers bud

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

You'll still need to manage your expectations tho, getting a veri ain't a free pussy pass, people will find other reasons not to meet you. Those same people that don't meet unverified people will likely not meet people too close to home/too far etc. Yes there are plenty who won't meet those without a veri, but also plenty who it won't make a shit of difference to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you were on fab before, could someone you've chatted to or met not verify you?. "

I have asked someone in previously met but they've not been online for a while. It's not the end of the world it would just help in some instances

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"If you were on fab before, could someone you've chatted to or met not verify you?.

I have asked someone in previously met but they've not been online for a while. It's not the end of the world it would just help in some instances "

I'm not sure that unless you have a handful of veris it does make that great a difference to have one to be honest - as Peach said they're not an instant golden ticket once you get one and all the other key factors like profile/pics/message and forum interactions etc still count for more.

Sure being verified doesn't do you any harm, but I'm also not sure it unlocks as many doors as some would believe either.

You also need to consider whether those that have turned you down for not being verified are actually turning you down for that reason or if that's just an easy answer to give - so look at the other factors too for ways to improve your experience.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you were on fab before, could someone you've chatted to or met not verify you?.

I have asked someone in previously met but they've not been online for a while. It's not the end of the world it would just help in some instances

Sure being verified doesn't do you any harm, but I'm also not sure it unlocks as many doors as some would believe either.

Good luck

Thank you for the feedback much appreciated and took onboard

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

I've deleted posts, to include those that quoted the now deleted post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only two ways I know of. The first one is in the chat rooms. The second one is a little more involved. Do a social event like empire, go once, be a good customer. Then after you’ve been once message one of the staff who works there who are on fab if they would verify you after you’ve been a second time describing what you will be wearing when you go. This will work at social events like clubs and sex cinemas. Plan b talk to someone at either of these places telling them you’re off fab and would they like to verify you. The social stuff is opening soon. There is a third way, but you won’t want to do it. Once in a while you get the occasional escort who holds bukkake events and she’ll probably verify you.

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