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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How can I get to chat to more people and eventually have fun?

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Long White Cloud

Chatrooms can be good for that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve tried the forums message people I seem to get no where!

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

Just got to keep trying I guess, wink at some one, maybe send them a message, and remember loads of guys on here are feeling just the same as you...Just got to persevere... So have you named tour self after a Music artist?...JayKay..aka Jamiroqua..

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"How can I get to chat to more people and eventually have fun? "

I've just read your profile it's interesting but same time without being rude it's all about you what you'd like to do rather than what you would like to be done by the other but we are still in a pandemic and you have only recently joined so even though it is nice that you rejoined hopefully things start to get back to some normality soon and things improve pal communication is the key

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By *lackhammer2021Man
over a year ago

London

I always get views but no chat and if I get a chat it's from trannies and I stated females only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad to hear I'm not the only one struggling lol

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By *lackhammer2021Man
over a year ago

London

Yes. I think it's harder for the newbies

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Long White Cloud

Again I would suggest chatrooms as a good place to start. You can cam - lots of people only cam faces - and if you are lucky someone will verify you. This is a good place to start.

I use the chatrooms lots and am attracted to the quieter, more respectful guys. No need to be demanding and bolshy to be noticed.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"How can I get to chat to more people and eventually have fun? "

Do the maths. As a very average couple we get about thirty messages each day. If we agreed to "chat" to ten of them, then by the end of the week we'd have seventy new "chats" going. If each one took up just five minutes of our time each day then that's almost six hours each day. I know it's extreme but we have to be VERY selective in who we chat to. Hotter couples and single girls get it even worse.

We put chat is quotes because invariably by the time we've done a few days back and forth, they descend into daily "have you been naughty" questions and nothing else.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"I always get views but no chat and if I get a chat it's from trannies and I stated females only"

Wow am not surprised if you words like that!!

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"I always get views but no chat and if I get a chat it's from trannies and I stated females only"

Maybe because females are looking for better effort into presentation?

First impressions are everything.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Go to organised social events perhaps.

Most areas organise them, spaces will be limited though.

They really are just social events for people to get chatting.

I advise people not to rely on the site itself to chat or meet. Get off your arses and head to events which will get advertised on site, then use the site as a tool to keep in touch with those you do get in with.

Fab is a tool, not the fanny brick Road.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can I get to chat to more people and eventually have fun?

Do the maths. As a very average couple we get about thirty messages each day. If we agreed to "chat" to ten of them, then by the end of the week we'd have seventy new "chats" going. If each one took up just five minutes of our time each day then that's almost six hours each day. I know it's extreme but we have to be VERY selective in who we chat to. Hotter couples and single girls get it even worse.

We put chat is quotes because invariably by the time we've done a few days back and forth, they descend into daily "have you been naughty" questions and nothing else."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So glad to see an explanation as to why a response is not always possible. Its awful getting rude or cheeky comments about not responding and also a massive put off.Its also why I met one person and stuck with him.

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