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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well im pretty new to this site and not having much luck.

Havnt done much with my profile in terms of text, but thats because i dont know what i should write about, what should i?

I send face pic's most of the time when messeging people, and my first messege is normaly abit dirty, kinda straight to the point. Is that too forward for starting messege?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt.... i tend to hit the delete button if someone comes straight in with do you want a F~~~k. It's what we are all here for so dont need to be told it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok thanks, whats a better 1st messege? casual chat or talk about intrests?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Who knows you? A bunch of anonymous people on site or you? You are one of thousands of single men on here, if you can't be bothered or lack imagination for your own profile you will be ignored.

Crude, crass messages get deleted by me. I'm here for sex with strangers but my profile is not littered with expletives, showing my tonsils via my crotch with a user name like "likestobespokentolikeawhore".

Sell yourself, tailor your message to suit your audience and make an effort.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

alright il keep that in mind, thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks rammell and ladies

Usefull advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"alright il keep that in mind, thanks "

no you won't

i can tell from your response that you were dismissive of the suggestion

your profile is one line followed by 7/8 lines of warning text

that needs to alter for you to be noticed

initial sexual messages rarely get you anywhere

this site allows those with a sexually liberal or exploratory nature to meet or chat with others of a similar disposition

it is not a meat market and the members (not just the ladies) usually respond better to being treated with a modicum of decency and respect.

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