FabSwingers.com forum: How to spot a swinger in public

By *uy4swinging OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

It’s impossible to spot a swinger in public. We are just ordinary people. So how about an uniquely designed button/badge/ brooch that we can wear whenever necessary so we can recognise each other?

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By *errysMan
over a year ago

milton keynes and kent

We can

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By *UCKER56Man
over a year ago

Walsall

Use the "see who's near" button on here ... It's great to see a fellow Fabber shown as 'within quarter of a mile'

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

I fully support this idea. Only because I wouldn't wear it and therefore never be associated with swinging in public when I don't want to be.

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By *uy4swinging OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I am thinking of meeting like minded strangers who may want sex with a stranger.

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By *osforthMan
over a year ago

newcastle on tyne

There was another site that did this. They had very discreet enamel pins made (think they cost about £3 back then). Wore mine for several years & never found anyone else outside of organised meet that had one.

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

"I am thinking of meeting like minded strangers who may want sex with a stranger. "

Is that not why a lot of people are on here?

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

Lol downside is the general public would soon know what it meant and not everyone may want to advertise their swinging side

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By *uy4swinging OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"I am thinking of meeting like minded strangers who may want sex with a stranger.

Is that not why a lot of people are on here?"

This is just when you are out amd about maybe in a pub when you want to pick up someone impromptu

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By *uy4swinging OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Lol downside is the general public would soon know what it meant and not everyone may want to advertise their swinging side"

You only wear it when you are “looking for it”

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By *uy4swinging OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"There was another site that did this. They had very discreet enamel pins made (think they cost about £3 back then). Wore mine for several years & never found anyone else outside of organised meet that had one."

There was a site where you had to write to join, before the internet, and they had a pin with white dove on it.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Char has a necklace with two "male" symbols and one "female" symbol on, and another that just says "HotWife". She often wears them out and about but as yet, no-one has commented

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

Pampas grass in the front garden or one of those fish symbols on the car... or ducks in a bucket on a caravan site!

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Put your car keys in the middle of the table?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I've got my pineapples upside down in the front garden, a caravan full of ducks and an anklet on my fish. Is that right?

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By *rAngleseyMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

"Pampas grass in the front garden or one of those fish symbols on the car... or ducks in a bucket on a caravan site!"

I thought those fish symbols were J-W`s

Never seen any ducks in a bucket but there`s a few houses around here with pampas grass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wear a t-shirt saying so OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Put your car keys in the middle of the table? "

That will never catch on

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I can usually sense/work out who the swingers are at work - I have found 4 (and converted another one) but then when we're bored we end up talking about sex so you can usually work it out

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

"So I've got my pineapples upside down in the front garden, a caravan full of ducks and an anklet on my fish. Is that right?

Absolutely perfect!

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By *teve993Man
over a year ago

ferryhill

Is there anything people have in or on there car's to let you know that they are swinger's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s impossible to spot a swinger in public. We are just ordinary people. So how about an uniquely designed button/badge/ brooch that we can wear whenever necessary so we can recognise each other?

Could be just like the masons, how about a secret handshake

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By *ohnny4playMan
over a year ago

Kinross

I've had similar experience, wore it when out and about hoping someone would recognise it and say hi. Never happened. FYI it looked a bit like a ying/yang symbol.

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By *uy4swinging OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

There are a few pins or badges which represent Swinging as a lifestyle if you Google it. One which has a red background with a black silhouette of a swing. It is quite striking.

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By *uy4swinging OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"So I've got my pineapples upside down in the front garden, a caravan full of ducks and an anklet on my fish. Is that right?

Wow that’s really shouting it out loudly. Well done!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no surefire way

Suffice to know,they walk amongst us

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By *etro manMan
over a year ago

manchester

Hi Just plan a meeting hotel club and try to get a few people to meet up for drinks chat and maybe more

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By *ldestswingerintownMan
over a year ago

Lancaster

"Use the "see who's near" button on here ... It's great to see a fellow Fabber shown as 'within quarter of a mile'"

Where's the "See who's near" button - I can't find it!

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

"Use the "see who's near" button on here ... It's great to see a fellow Fabber shown as 'within quarter of a mile'

Where's the "See who's near" button - I can't find it!"

On your phone, it's top right

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By *psidedown PineapplesCouple
over a year ago

Sussex

It’s more fun imagining who might be

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"Is there anything people have in or on there car's to let you know that they are swinger's"

Apostrophes!

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By *histle do nicelyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow South

Ive guessed right a number of times on nights out..In fairness I'm easily spotted...Easy chatting ..good eye contact..relaxed..The males relaxed when the chatting to the ladies... Love it when the ladies swap seats and get closer.

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By *ldestswingerintownMan
over a year ago

Lancaster

"Use the "see who's near" button on here ... It's great to see a fellow Fabber shown as 'within quarter of a mile'

Where's the "See who's near" button - I can't find it!

On your phone, it's top right"

Ah. As I don't have a smartphone I presume this service isn't available to me. Ah well - yet more discrimination against smartphone non-users!

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By *uper friendly aviatorMan
over a year ago

Dereham

Women’s anklets are an easy one. I always compliment a lady wearing one, once had a one ask me if I knew what it meant. I said yes and we had a laugh over a drink but sadly that was as far as it went.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"Women’s anklets are an easy one..."

I thought it meant they were on the game, rather than in this game!

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Look for those with a pineapple tucked under their arm....tell tell sign....

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

"Use the "see who's near" button on here ... It's great to see a fellow Fabber shown as 'within quarter of a mile'

Where's the "See who's near" button - I can't find it!

On your phone, it's top right

Ah. As I don't have a smartphone I presume this service isn't available to me. Ah well - yet more discrimination against smartphone non-users!"

Just like free to view TV channels discriminate against people without a television to watch them on

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It's not something I want other people to know about me in public.

I choose who I share this lifestyle info with

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