FabSwingers.com forum: First messages

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi what do people like recieving in first messages?

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

"Hi what do people like recieving in first messages? "

We like to read a message constructed by people who have clearly read and understood our profile first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi what do people like recieving in first messages?

We like to read a message constructed by people who have clearly read and understood our profile first. "

Very much this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi what do people like recieving in first messages?

We like to read a message constructed by people who have clearly read and understood our profile first. "

^^^^^

yep this.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Showing that they've read our profile and our interests are very similar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The advice given so far is good. It’s obviously harder when the person doesn’t have a lot in their profile, or if their profile is full of the usual stuff... nothing about them as a person. I think the best thing to do is just make sure your spelling is good, you’re articulate and polite.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"Hi what do people like recieving in first messages?

We like to read a message constructed by people who have clearly read and understood our profile first. "

Without a shadow of a doubt, this.

If you haven't read it, although it does waffle on a little, it's clear to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I heard when people copy and paste generic messages and are rude works charms with the ladies. And an unsolicited dick pic too. Thats the cherry on top

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We want to get messages from people who actually have something to say. "How are you?" does not count. Most messages we get are devoid of any content worth engaging with and go straight in the bin.

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

I send a polite hi nice profile are you interested in chatting.. never Wade in with a wanna fuck I’m 53 not 23

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

"I send a polite hi nice profile are you interested in chatting.. never Wade in with a wanna fuck I’m 53 not 23"

As long as the sender fits in with what we are looking for we are just as polite back.

Otherwise we will treat them with the disrespect and rudeness they deserve for ignoring our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hello... I read your profile and am very interested in attending the social you mention. Could you please tell me a bit about it. Thanks"

I like this but usually just get... "hi, you look (insert some horseshit about how good I look hoping I will believe they mean it), wanna chat/fuck/meet".... Delete!

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
over a year ago

Essex

"Hi what do people like recieving in first messages? "

That they have clearly read our profile and believe that it sounds like them, they we sound like we’d genuinely enjoy each other’s company and that they have filled their own profile out fully go give us an idea that would likewise get that same first impression of them.

Hope it helps.

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