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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looking for advice on my profile, does it read well? Would you reply if I sent a message? Is there anything off putting?

Thanks.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Warning is bullshit and a waste of space. Even tells you so in the site FAQs so that would tell me you jump in feet first and follow the crowd instead of thinking for yourself or researching stuff.

Banging on about discretion, from my experience says you're either in a relationship or happy to meet married and playing away people. Again, not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi OP

there's nothing majorly off putting. I would get rid of the disclaimer at the bottom of your bio... its irrelevant and always makes me roll my eyes when I see it.

You could add more info to show your personality rather than a list, which is how it comes over to me as a reader.

Your pics are tasteful and varied. And you have a verification, which many people like to see.

Hope this helps

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of the disclaimer its meaningless and instead maybe what kind of woman/ experience you are looking for?

Otherwise its pretty good x

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Fab is NOT a publicly traded entity. To me it makes you look like a fool. Which is a shame as the rest is pretty good.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

If a woman comes on with a shopping list I thinks it's great.

It say nothing about your personality or what you could offer.

There has to be somesort of connection or something that could spark a connection with you.

Don't ask me though, the only thing I get from fab is blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and narrow down your age preferences to what they would Actually be?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Not looking for single guys" seems an abrupt way to start you profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Many thanks. All noted.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


""Not looking for single guys" seems an abrupt way to start you profile. "

Yes, really suggests they don't know how to set their message filters profile.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

A lot of people aren't chatting if they aren't meeting. For example I don't plan on meeting for a while so not really fussed for chatting in messages to new people unless it's come through the forum conversations etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Not looking for single guys" seems an abrupt way to start you profile.

Yes, really suggests they don't know how to set their message filters profile."

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A lot of people aren't chatting if they aren't meeting. For example I don't plan on meeting for a while so not really fussed for chatting in messages to new people unless it's come through the forum conversations etc.

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Never thought of it like that.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Many thanks. All noted. "

Looks much better now. Well done for making the changes so swiftly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Many thanks. All noted.

Looks much better now. Well done for making the changes so swiftly. "

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not bad at all, nothing offensive, but nothing that particularly gives me an indication of your personality either. What are you like?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All comments are appreciated. Thank you.

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"All comments are appreciated. Thank you. "

Better pics maybe? Use the timer, so you can get your chest in, we all like to see that kind of thing.

Well written bio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Warning is bullshit and a waste of space. Even tells you so in the site FAQs so that would tell me you jump in feet first and follow the crowd instead of thinking for yourself or researching stuff.

Banging on about discretion, from my experience says you're either in a relationship or happy to meet married and playing away people. Again, not for me. "

I respectfully disagree. Discretion means you can be trusted to keep your business to yourself without the need to blab to the world. Nothing wrong with that in my book. Im more likely to trust someone who favors discretion myself but each to there own

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd add more variety to your photos. I want to know how someone will look if we meet. If I can't decide if I would find you attractive or not, the photos haven't served you well. If people are unsure, there's probably a few more in their inbox that give more certainty.

Relying on people asking for more pics is never a great move. Assume that you have 1 chance only, so make the best of it.

If your profile text could relate to a lot of men, think about what's missing, that really adds more of the essence of you.

As others say, it's not a bad profile.

Experiment with a few ideas, like market research, to see if some work better than others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd add more variety to your photos. I want to know how someone will look if we meet. If I can't decide if I would find you attractive or not, the photos haven't served you well. If people are unsure, there's probably a few more in their inbox that give more certainty.

Relying on people asking for more pics is never a great move. Assume that you have 1 chance only, so make the best of it.

If your profile text could relate to a lot of men, think about what's missing, that really adds more of the essence of you.

As others say, it's not a bad profile.

Experiment with a few ideas, like market research, to see if some work better than others. "

Everyone is attractive in there own way as its subjective. Each to there own but i find all this judging on looks etc a bit low. Im no model but im a decent looking bloke and to me someone who is genuine means more to me than looks or size. I see folk say thinks like no overweight etc yet some folk cant help how they look yet could be really decent and actually turn up for a meet. Seems its #bekind when it suits.

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By *heonixRaven 777Woman
over a year ago

Guildford

Short and sweet some will like that some won’t, you are never going to please everyone.

I prefer a little more substance rather than a list, so I can get a feel for the person.

Some variety in the pictures perhaps something that shows off that cheeky fun side of you or perhaps something showing how well you scrub up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I appreciate all the comments, thanks for taking the time to reply.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"All comments are appreciated. Thank you.

Better pics maybe? Use the timer, so you can get your chest in, we all like to see that kind of thing.

Well written bio

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I was thinking the same about the pics

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I appreciate all the comments, thanks for taking the time to reply. "

Good luck with it all

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Warning is bullshit and a waste of space. Even tells you so in the site FAQs so that would tell me you jump in feet first and follow the crowd instead of thinking for yourself or researching stuff.

Banging on about discretion, from my experience says you're either in a relationship or happy to meet married and playing away people. Again, not for me.

I respectfully disagree. Discretion means you can be trusted to keep your business to yourself without the need to blab to the world. Nothing wrong with that in my book. Im more likely to trust someone who favors discretion myself but each to there own "

As I said, that's purely my experience.

A bit like saying I've washed my willy, well yeah, that's normal, ya don't need to tell me. Basics innit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Made the changes. Not really been a greater level of interest. Sadly

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Made the changes. Not really been a greater level of interest. Sadly "

Where's your patience?

Has covid fucked off?

You been to clubs and socials since the revamp?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like the photos.

What kinks are we talking about specifically? More likely to have folks with similar interests get in touch. Are you into comedy? Sports? Love a good dinner down the pub? Sounds silly but that makes you seem more likeable. Remove the smells good, that’s a given. I’d simply walk away if anyone didn’t smell good haha!

This is just my preference, when I see heavy cummer I read wants bareback. That’s probably not the case, but that’s what I presume x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Made some changes. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Warning is bullshit and a waste of space. Even tells you so in the site FAQs so that would tell me you jump in feet first and follow the crowd instead of thinking for yourself or researching stuff.

Banging on about discretion, from my experience says you're either in a relationship or happy to meet married and playing away people. Again, not for me.

I respectfully disagree. Discretion means you can be trusted to keep your business to yourself without the need to blab to the world. Nothing wrong with that in my book. Im more likely to trust someone who favors discretion myself but each to there own "

all swingers tend to be discreat, those that say it on their profile, well to us it shouts, playing away

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"I appreciate all the comments, thanks for taking the time to reply. "

What do you mean by genuine?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I appreciate all the comments, thanks for taking the time to reply.

What do you mean by genuine?"

Not a time waster but I should replace with verified. Thanks.

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Public photos... Use the timer... Can mostly see your phone...

Bio is good!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Public photos... Use the timer... Can mostly see your phone...

Bio is good!!"

Thanks

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

The profile now you have listened and taken action is great. Photos are lovely. Unless your message was a one liner i would respond yes.

Best of luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The profile now you have listened and taken action is great. Photos are lovely. Unless your message was a one liner i would respond yes.

Best of luck! "

Thanks for the feedback, much appreciated

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