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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know a really good mate of mine (older than me) and his wife are swingers. Work gossip has confined this. I really like the older woman thing. His wife is older than him. How can I bring this up??

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

1. Work gossip is notoriously unreliable

2.IF there *are* swingers, there's no guarantee they will want to involve you

3. You liking the "older woman thing" doesn't mean she will like the "younger man thing"

Taking the above into consideration if you still want to approach them I can only suggest that you're honest with them and say you've heard that they're swingers and you'd like to join them.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

If you're a best mate and they were swingers and the wife really liked you and wanted you I'm sure you'd know by now.

Take it that they're either a, not swingers or b, she doesn't like you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok. Fair point. Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Faint heart and fair maidens mate, just wait till lunch time walk over to your friends table and bang the package down in front of his cuppa, if the tremors cause a storm in his brew cup you could be in, if it's the vibes that cause a storm... your choice.

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