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By *bear OP   Man
over a year ago

london

So, as single guy in London, I’ve been on the hunt for an ellusive cougar. I’ve been with women around my age, but just provides no lasting satisfaction. Am I misled in thinking an experienced woman who knows what she wants, has a give/take mentality yet wanting someone who is eager to please is where I should be looking?

Where am I going wrong in finding her?

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I think where you’re going wrong is in thinking it’s any woman’s job to “provide lasting satisfaction” for you.

I’ve been with women in their late 20s and early 30s and they’ve been absolutely delightful. The men in that range, however, have not been. Maybe the women aren’t the problem?

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By *bear OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Apologies for your misunderstanding of my context. I didn’t mean in the aspect of personal gratification/ to take and be all about myself. I meant to experience something a little different, that seemingly seems achievable with someone of more experience. I’m not sure how to fully articulate this, but by no means is a condemnation of women my own age.

I’m sure you can find problematic people of all genders and sorry to hear of your displeasure with some of the men you’ve met. I guess we learn and develop from our experiences.

Any relationship, whether serious or strictly casual should be a two way street making sure the needs of all who are involved are met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understood what you meant, wasn't difficult. To be honest I think you should look for someone with a similar attitude to yourself rather than confining it to age.

Good luck in your search

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Na! Wouldn't stimulate me enough

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By *bear OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Na! Wouldn't stimulate me enough"

What wouldn’t? What does?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest you would be better off not saying your Cougar Hunting as such, many women would find that a turn off

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

I tend to avoid men looking for an older woman like the plague ....... I’m not a tick box for someone’s bucket list x

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By *bear OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Fair comment!

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester


"I tend to avoid men looking for an older woman like the plague ....... I’m not a tick box for someone’s bucket list x "

Agreed.

And icriticising the women he’s met is a bit shitty. Sex begins with you. If you leave it all up to another person to be your fantasy, you’ll always be disappointed.

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By *bear OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Appreciate the feedback, it’s not a case of ticking a box of a list.

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By *bear OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Please see the clarification I posted after the original post, to clear this misunderstanding. Thanks for your input

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester


"I tend to avoid men looking for an older woman like the plague ....... I’m not a tick box for someone’s bucket list x

Agreed.

And icriticising the women he’s met is a bit shitty. Sex begins with you. If you leave it all up to another person to be your fantasy, you’ll always be disappointed."

Noted.

I missed the clarification and launched into a rant. My apologies, OP.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What gauge she’ll do you use whilst out cougar hunting???

T

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By *bear OP   Man
over a year ago

london

??????

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By *bear OP   Man
over a year ago

london

No worries! I realised that my original post was a little vague and didn’t quite reflect why I originally asked the question so felt the need to to follow it up after the first response. X

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By *onny17Man
over a year ago

city

I honestly have found 'cougars' are much better conversation holders on nights out somehow I always end up in bed with them whilst no intention. And that makes for the best sex in my opinion

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By *ionrampant500Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

The guy is looking for a cougar for hot milf fun, he shouldn’t have to explain himself it is in the original post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The guy is looking for a cougar for hot milf fun, he shouldn’t have to explain himself it is in the original post "

Agree... Gets a bit tiresome the way some posts are put through a post mortem while others are just accepted on face value.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"The guy is looking for a cougar for hot milf fun, he shouldn’t have to explain himself it is in the original post "

It’s the objectification that’s a bit off ...... of course older women have more experience in sexual and social contexts of course we know what we want - we have suffered the fuck boys. It’s a bit of a ‘oh look the sky is blue post’ ......

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK


"To be honest you would be better off not saying your Cougar Hunting as such, many women would find that a turn off"

This!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's really tough for all single men here and a year without meeting is the norm now.

Engage with lots of people to get a filtered down list of matches and use venues when they open.

People are individuals and may not want to be a fetish but treated as a person. You could have 1 great or bad meet but it will reflect on the 2 of you, not the genre of meet.

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